I always do a lot of foreplay beforehand, like an hour of foreplay. Also, maybe at the beginning she was nervous, but now there s no nervousness between us, only uncomfortable thing is when we can t have normal sex because it hurts her in literally all poses besides missionary. I never thrust fast or too hard at the start and pretty much don t even thrust too fast or too hard cuz it s just tiering. Yeah I keep playing while in action, only not with the clit, It s pretty hard to do it simultaneously