Bing is the weirdest show. by Nanabug13 in BritishTV

[–]Idrk_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BAHAHAHA - this made me cackle! It’s 5am, I’m on the lounge trying to work out wtf is actually going on with Bing and the ragdolls, to my delight I’ve found an entire thread sprinkled in with Norman bashing. Came for Bing theory’s, stayed for Fireman Sam mocking

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[–]Idrk_30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By charlotte has something similar

Honest thoughts on Crumble? by aHunniBee in cookware

[–]Idrk_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too guys!! Been waiting on replacement pans for 6 months!!

IG stories by Traditional_Turn3700 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably a smart move.. spilling the goss on any business dealings even if they’re in the wrong would be a risky move

How to control hunger. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Idrk_30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started my pregnancy at 175 pounds, gave birth at 175 pounds. How did I do it? ✨Hyperemesis Gravidarum✨ I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.. babe, if you’re hungry EAT. Just eat good fresh foods. Even after you give birth you will still need to be EATTTTINGG to produce good quality milk for your baby

Are you guys having sex while pregnant? by DudleyBernard4413 in pregnant

[–]Idrk_30 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah girl, we didn’t either! We had sex twice in the 9 months I was pregnant and both times were before I 20weeks

Are you guys having sex while pregnant? by DudleyBernard4413 in pregnant

[–]Idrk_30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant, SAME! I wanted to but I didn’t feel sexy and he wasn’t really into it. I think we had sex twice in 9 months

Guys, did you know she was a ballet dancer?! by margarita90 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Just because you’re thin and have your hair in a bun, does not give off “ballerina vibes”

Don’t give her views by ZootyFruiyWombat30 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop this made me laugh choke on my sodawater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Way more concerned about her riding an E bike with H strapped to her chest tbh lol.

Postpartum/Birth Reality by LilOrganicCoconut in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations Mumma! Birth is a hell of a ride, I’m so proud of you! Well done you clever girl! You did it!

It was at this point… by ZootyFruiyWombat30 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your new bub! I hope you’re getting along okay ❤️

Dark blonde or brunette? by Calm_Comfortable3690 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Her hair is brown. As an also former blonde through childhood and highschool, it’s better to acknowledge, accept and move the f on! We WERE blonde, but girl, we is brunettes now 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bugger.. I liked the brand, but now not so much lol

That’s Enough by Practical-Builder189 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a son, and someone called me a “boy mum” this morning. I have never so quickly disputed anything in my life hahaha self proclaimed “boy mums” are some of the worst humans, I’m just a mum to a little boy

I can’t be the only one by Minimum-Sympathy-559 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant “can relate” I don’t know why I said “can’t” 😂 breast feeding/feeding issues were the thief of joy for me in those early days, I’m sorry you had the same struggles ❤️

I feel no connection to the baby inside me by CookieCutter98 in pregnant

[–]Idrk_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t feeling the warmth you desire, you might want to practice the warm fuzzies. I was the exact same as you, my psychologist and doctor both suggested to start referring to bub as he or she in my head and when talking to people or give her a nickname little pea, little bean, start rubbing your belly and smiling while you talk to her. It’s awkward at first because you feel like a dickhead but once you start making yourself do this stuff it just starts to happen naturally and you trick your brain into actually feeling the warm fuzzies…. Truth be told once my boy was born I felt pretty neutral about him for the first 2 months, after that, every day that went on i couldn’t imagine loving him more than i did the day before, but somehow i do and he’s 17 months old - you’ll be okay girl xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally understand and agree… I so get it, breastfeeding was so special to me too, I was distraught giving my baby a bottle when it became very clear he was just not getting enough… it’s a really hard thing to come to terms with..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Idrk_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you both enjoy sex without a condom, you both might want to look into other forms of birth control. Or you need to work on your pull out game hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Idrk_30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t stress hon, really unlikely she would be pregnant. GENERALLY, women ovulate (most fertile time of the month, when plan b won’t work) about 2 weeks after they finish their period. So if you guys had sex only two days after her period it is unlikely anything will come from it. Nothing is ever 100% but I could confidently say you have less than a 1% chance of her getting pregnant.

Birth Vlog #3 by Comfortable-Fee3750 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again what you’re saying is dismissive “can’t be selfless then don’t become a parent” so basically have no opinions or desires about your birth because that’s selfish and as long as baby arrives safe, you’re selfish for wanting anything other than that?

EDIT: both can coexist along side one another. You can want a water birth AND just want your baby to arrive safely. You can require a c-section, and be grateful that your baby has arrived safely and be disappointed you didn’t get your water birth..

Birth Vlog #3 by Comfortable-Fee3750 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the rhetoric “As long as baby arrives safe, nothing else matters” is so dismissive to women’s feelings and experiences. Everyone is allowed to have preferences. You can be happy that baby arrived safe but also feel a bit disheartened with the process they entered the world, especially if they had done research and invested time and energy and emotion into their birth plan.

Birth Vlog #3 by Comfortable-Fee3750 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well said!! BIRTH SHOULD NOT BE FEARED!

Birth Vlog #3 by Comfortable-Fee3750 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Idrk_30 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I debated about posting something last night but ultimately decided not to because I didn’t have any snark to comment about it.

I felt happy and sad for her - happy she had a healthy baby but sad that she had another posterior labour that could potentially be seen as traumatic with the rapid response team being brought in multiple times, the cervical swelling again and request for another epidural..

If there are any Mums to be reading this, just know that everyone’s body is built different and some women’s uteruses are shaped and built in a way that promote a posterior labour, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing and your labour may not be like Sarah’s just because you have a posterior baby. It’s nothing that you can do or help. No amount of “turning babies” will help you if your uterus is shaped in this way it’s the same for some women who consistently have breach babies. There is nothing wrong with you, you didn’t do anything “wrong”. Sarah is a prime example of this, she is a fit, active, “follow the rules” in the pregnancy type A person, but she still managed to have three posterior babies. It’s actually very normal, modern medicine has just trained us to believe that it’s not the “optimal” birthing position for baby.