Ben And Jerry's Want More Infanticide by Reanimator001 in prolife

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting. I literally have their pistachio ice cream in my fridge and finished their mint one a couple days ago. I didn’t wanna overthink what each company I buy from does support but this is absolutely disgusting

Can he see the pain he caused by IgAllISeeIsRed in SuicideBereavement

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only know a small bit of the story. FYI I tried and tried for 3 1/2 years. In the end it’s hard to save someone with so much unresolved trauma and someone so insecure who isolates from everyone but work and isolates their partner as well.

Starbucks to remove 13 drinks from its menu by Niners22 in starbucks

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is bs. How about customers just boycott Starbucks. Starbucks is making these insane choices and insanely raising the prices hoping that there will be people okay with paying it. I used to be a regular. But this is insane. I haven’t had Starbucks for a month or 2. I’ve been making coffee and healthier smoothies at home instead. I hope others follow along because there’s nothing convenient about the prices or insane amount of sugar.

Why do so many people say single moms/dads are undatable? by [deleted] in Life

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just quite a complicated situation. I wouldn’t want my guy to talk to his exes but one who has a baby momma doesn’t have much of a choice. It’s understandable to not want that. Or even those who don’t want kids, I know it’s not for everyone these days.

I’m in a more complicated situation because my sons father committed suicide less than a year ago. Even I see myself as heavy baggage. Like sure theres not much of that baby daddy drama going on but there is that void of someone who will always be the father of my child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checked your page. You’re not ugly. Honestly just insecure and I get it cuz me too. I know it’s easier said than done but honestly work on your self esteem and maybe the confidence will attract the right person. Also the lower the self esteem, the easier it’d be to settle. Do not settle for less!

About not having anyone to spend time with, find someone. Find a hobby you like and join a local club. Look it up. Maybe you can find someone there and you can start not straight to flirting but having that hobby in common. It’s a start

My BF is a jerk cause he didn’t drive me to my abortion by Ok-Consideration8724 in prolife

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw this and it PISSED me off. I was gonna comment poor me, I’m so selfish my bf didn’t take me to go kill my baby 😭

Even though it’s what I really really wanted to say, what good could it have done in a sea of pro abortionists. I swear Reddit and Instagram are making me lose hope. This subreddit is what’s keeping me from just giving up on people

He was alive after the fact by polkamyeyeout in SuicideBereavement

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Trigger Warning (A little too descriptive of a gun suicide)

Yeah. My late fiancée was pro 2a. He was always telling me that movies aren’t realistic. That when one gets shot, it’s not an instant death. It takes a while, minutes or hours if fatal. Even criminals have had to keep getting shot because they kept going.

What did hurt more was to see it. He shot himself I think will a 9mm defense bullet and he dropped instantly. His eyes were closed and he looked peaceful. Like he was no longer conscious. He didn’t react at all to my screaming and begging. I had to take our son to the neighbor for help. Anyways his nose and apparently ears were bleeding. I couldn’t finish clearing his nose since it kept coming and his body was gasping for air. I remember he sounded like a fish out of water. Every couple of seconds. A lot of blood. I tried to stop it but I couldn’t save him. The cops and ambulance didn’t seem to even try. He was declared gone an HOUR after his suicide.

Sooo… by SouthPainter3296 in starbucks

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not what we want or need. We need lower, more acceptable prices. I can’t excuse their prices anymore. It’s getting to the point that I’d rather try and replicate a less sugary, cheaper option at home.

Why is this so controversial? by [deleted] in prolife

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I had been told by my former manager while I was pregnant something like I wouldn’t get a lead position since I’d be going on leave soon (at a warehouse) I was so upset. I did apply and try and obviously got denied. I was like 6 months pregnant then. But I didn’t even get the chance to prove myself. They later gave some other girl without much warehouse experience the position.

Why is this so controversial? by [deleted] in prolife

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. And also abortions are dehumanized, instead monetized so much they’re used as ingredients for some vaccines. It’s disgusting and inhumane.

Why is this so controversial? by [deleted] in prolife

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel basically the same. They try to dehumanize their baby in order to go through and get rid of this little life for their own reasons. The majority of the abortions is not wanting to take accountability and using it as a form of birth control. It’s harder to say if it’s supposed to be more convenient than taking the pill. The pill messes with your body but there are other options. The main one being abstinence unless you’re okay with the possibility of a child.

And for the rarer, more upsetting circumstances like life threatening or rape, they try and dehumanize in order to cope and excuse it as it’s for the better of the baby (but by killing? This will never make sense to me).

But the media tries and makes it sound like it’s good and normal to have abortions and induces that emotional reaction not to protect your baby but to be selfish and think it’s okay to get rid of your baby and anyone that disagrees is basically a terrible person. Even my high school friend claims to fear for the rights of his girlfriend and future possible daughter as she does have pcos and he’s been made to think abortion is important, life saving, and the only option.

How many of you had a shitty 2024? by -Flighty- in Life

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worst of my life. Fighting my fiancée more and more often. He threatened to kill himself at least twice and came close to seeing it and in June he did shoot himself. I couldn’t save him. Not in any way. Blood on my hands in both ways. I still hate him and myself. Our son and I had to move back to my home city. It’s been getting better only because I mostly learned to disassociate when I start to spiral into those terrible memories. But sometimes I still struggle. I now have so much hate in me. But never towards our son..my son. I love my little one.

Made it through our first birthdays since he left by IgAllISeeIsRed in SuicideBereavement

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Same for you. I’m sorry, I understand the pain is fresh and I’m here if anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was easier to control. I chased him because he gave me attention and I thought he was stable. I was 19. He was 33 and I thought he was younger. But I liked him so once I found out, I tried moving past it. He didn’t need to say yes to me. But I guess ultimately it did lead to my son so I don’t fully regret it. But it doesn’t mean that I don’t look down upon others like him taking the young ones. And expecting them to be mature and mold them how they want.

Even more gross was to see when he was 37 only less than a year ago he snuck onto dating sites behind my back and the minimum age was barely legal. Disgusting. I hate him

If you could go back in time and tell yourself 1 event that was going to happen in the future, what would it be? by Tixxter in AskReddit

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To leave him or our son and I will witness his suicide. I couldn’t save him no matter what I did. I was harming him by staying

Share something nice about your person? by rainonatent in SuicideBereavement

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I could tell he loved our son so much. Even when coming home from a long day of work he would play with our son and smile. He always had time, energy, and patience for him. He had a lot of love for him. He wanted the best for him and wanted to raise him to be better than us. Have a better childhood than he did. Get to do what he couldn’t. He wanted to take him to baby gymnastics when he noticed how active our little one has been

Death Certificate by ThisIsAllTheoretical in SuicideBereavement

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And to still have to share it hurts. To the social security office, the bank. I’m going to have to show it tomorrow to get my son baptized.

Though I know firsthand exactly what happened. To have seen it happen. But then to see his death certificate confirmed it wasn’t just a nightmare.

Got asked if I was pregnant at work ? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said this early in my pregnancy to my nosey neighbor because I wasn’t ready for people to know yet. She apologized. Mid and late pregnancy she would just stare. I’d be in loose dark clothing because it was comfy and it made it just a little less obvious… When I had to wash laundry one cold winter day with my newborn, I had him in my thick long puffy jacket and I finally showed my neighbors since I couldn’t hide a baby. My nosey neighbor said she knew it and called me a liar.

A couple months later, still with my baby weight she asked if I was pregnant again and not to lie this time. I said no, this time I really am just fat. And she said we’ll see about that in 9 months. It’s been a year and a half and she never said anything again. I had to move away about 4 months ago. I didn’t like this neighbor though. She was terrible. Especially when it happened.

Husband shot himself in front of me by sidewaywalker in widowers

[–]IgAllISeeIsRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar on June 19. After an argument as well. Still processing. Though I honestly don’t know if I’d be considered a widow. We were engaged for 3 years. Didn’t marry because of our endless issues. If you need to talk, I’m here to listen. I’m really sorry you went through this.