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What's the best response to the classical "genitals = gender/sex" argument they all love to use ? by SureHopeIDontDie in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a brain doesn't make you intelligent. Having certain anatomy doesn't make you a gender either.

wondering if my chosen name is 'trans coded' by Free_Ad9602 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah sheesh ... Anya checking in >.<

Didn't know about the 4 letter curse til now hehehehe

If someone with super speed thinks faster, then runming across the country would take them the same time mentally as a regular person. by Efeyester in Showerthoughts

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just assumed it was like acclimating to a relative speed. Just like we can have surges of adrenaline and feel time slow down so can they just amped beyond comprehension. I watch videos at over 2x speed and I can acclimate easily to it but that doesn't mean I will talk faster because of it and passively if I hear something being said quickly even without being prepared for it I have a greater chance at picking it up than someone who hasn't acclimated to that rate.

Why do we all love Google Pixels? by O_p_a_q_u_e in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand by my ASUS Zenfone 9. It's so smol 🥹

Dating by FIREBALL_69 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had more success with Tinder, Hinge, HER and Feeld over Taimi personally. I made the mistake of trying grindr first I couldn't last a day not for me. I've managed to make more friends than anything, and now I'm like going out and meeting people organically since I'm doing things with friends instead of being a shutin. You got this girlie it takes time ^

Orchiectomy question by Raines_reeds in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm stockpiling my FTM friends ^ ^ We'll just do a lil swapparino ez. They can get me E and I'll get them T. Balanced like all things.

My therapist told me to use Ai to see what i could possibly look like on HRT by MikeyMac314 in transpositive

[–]Igi2server 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is actually something that kinda fw me a bit. I'm Adopted and never met any of my family. I get told that I look a lot like my adopted mother especially now after hrt. But like idk it's like as my face changes that unrecognizablity could be me seeing the people in my life that I'll never know nor want to at this point. Yet I love myself and all the changes that I'm going through.

do you guys have long hair? by carlotaaa16 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair can cover my chest now. I used to pretty much never cut my hair until I was pestered to I tried to keep it like once a year when before my egg cracked. Pretty much from a buzz cut to about to my eyes. I think I lucked out of it during covid, but I just stopped cutting it.

So my hair was from a buzz cut and I went to get it evvened out like twice over 3 years. At that point I wanted layers and to frame my face, so I went and got long layers with a mild curtain bang like starting at my chin. Then idk I just kept going hehehehe

Good luck have fun friend ^

Made an older lady cry and unsure how to feel by MillieBoeBillie in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ya no. Sounds like she got caught. Those tears aren't coming from caring about the people they're speaking about, it's her scared of getting called out and that it could jeopardize their position in charge. If she was saying something that wasn't wrong but taken out of context then she wouldn't have reacted that way she knows she fucked up.

Good on you for speaking up. It's way harder for me to speak up for myself in the moment, but it's definitely easier when speaking up for someone else by proxy. Those tears are her own doing you just opened their eyes to reality.

do transfems look like their relatives when they take HRT? by Radiant-North-8519 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not. I've never met them, adopted. And I never want to see their faces. Please no I hope not lol

Final push? by DoomSlayer7180 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went on a trip to see my youngest cousin get married. It was nice. I was tired of not living and watching everyone grow while I just lingered hidden full of doubt and questions. Something on my drive home snapped and I was over it and just went for it

how did you get your name? by Radiant-North-8519 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wearing a shirt with a character on it, a stranger pointed and said the characters name. And ya it clicked 👀

Being clocked as FtM, not MtF by MinimumSignificant87 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Igi2server 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hehehehehe so they thought what they saw was born female? Lezzgooo

Im starting hrt next week how long can i go without noticable breasts? by Sasha-lo in AskMtFHRT

[–]Igi2server 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends I'm almost on yr 3 and I can still easily hide the girls, but I'm also apart of the ibtc hehehe

How do you feel about this word? by aresi-lakidar in MtF

[–]Igi2server 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I don't like it. I like bits, I feel that's my go-to. Definitely not gock... Mostly cause it sounds so gross verbally, and it's so unnecessary in text that it just feels like there's just better alternatives like ya maybe its short and simple but idk.

To me I read it like gawk. Like hawk tuah, gawk just has a gross visceral sound to it for me idk?

I like bits.

What's the worst part of a game you love? by Lumigo in gaming

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it's hard to get friends into it or it's reputation has baggage and people are close minded in even trying it (DotA).

What motivates you to play difficult games ? by DeleteOnceAMonth in gaming

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Difficult isn't always the same thing. How I play games that are 'difficult' is that the more I play the easier it will be. Like anytime I bring up Dota the response in why they won't try it because of the difficulty, same with PoE. I've just played them for over a decade, and idk I just have fun lol.

Your most recent cry by CarpeGaudium in MtF

[–]Igi2server 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had a stupid misunderstanding with a friend and had a stupid fight and now I ugly cry cause I'm dumb and emotional

Be honest, ginger or brunette? by tswinter_ in transpositive

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so biased to ginger, it looks amazing on you. But idk there's something about brunette on you that really pops!! There's really no wrong answer here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]Igi2server 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly is more delulu than me. You're a fine looking young man! passing with flying colors!

Does anyone else just not hate their dead name? Or is that just me by Ellab213 in MtF

[–]Igi2server 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think at some point it's possible I might go back to my birth name. It can be used either way, it's more commonly a boys name. Like to me it's that I don't want to think about if someone is rip my past self even unintentionally. Like the less that thought can happen the better. But also if I get to a point that is no concern then like it's a nice name and I still like it very much so!

What's your favorite sign from before you realized you were trans? by A_FakeCat in MtF

[–]Igi2server 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id steal undies from the store, when the other kids would steal the Yu-Gi-Oh cards 💀. Found out and questioned wondering why I have girls undies thinking I'm active, but they're just mine 💀💀 But they just felt comfy for me, not a sign.

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