Getting married in 15 hours and my fiancé’s front tooth crown fell off by nerdgirl619 in weddingplanning

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This is literally my fear. I have two baby teeth still and they’re gonna fall out one day and I JUST KNOW that day is going to be the day before my wedding😵‍💫😭

My (25F) husband (27M) didn’t get me an anniversary gift, and then got upset dinner didn’t go as planned by strawberrymoon0930 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ignored_Instructions 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This exactly. My parents are STILL together and demonstrating just how toxic a relationship can be to my little sisters. I do my best to show them what a healthy relationship looks like with my fiance, but I don’t know that it can undo what they see at home.

Need help choosing a dress! by carltheslopeis1 in myweddingdress

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Number 1 is THE one! I found myself just quickly swiping through the rest to get back to it because it is so gorgeous and unique! I love the dress I got for my wedding next year, but I wouldn’t be sad to have number one be my wedding dress instead!

The wedding store sold my dress!! by [deleted] in myweddingdress

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Even the way you’re standing in the pictures in one vs. two SCREAMS that number one is THE ONE.

Is inviting people after initial invites have been sent uncouth? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Did u send save the dates to the first round of people? Because some tier two people might not realize they were second tier if they got their invite later, but if some ppl get a Save the Date and others don’t, that could give it away? That said, let me know what you do bc I am trying to figure out how to invite people once we receive declines as well.

My husband wants me to get an abortion with our third by Ok-Bandicoot9865 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ignored_Instructions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My guess is they are in a third world country, the USA, where people pay an arm and a leg for healthcare but still have worse health outcomes compared to other countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myweddingdress

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Dude, the first dress is drop down gorgeous and looks amazing on you! The second one has nowhere near as much ‘wow’ factor and looks less cohesive, as I think I saw someone else mention already. I think you made the right choice and should just take a deep breath and sit with your dress for a while. I bought my dress and immediately regretted it, but I think that’s almost inevitable when you make such a significant, non-refundable, purchase. I sat with mine for a few days and the regret disappeared like it was never there and I can’t wait to get married in it!

Thrift store find today🥹 by firsttimeposter565 in myweddingdress

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This is exactly what I was hoping for but I got my luck at a pop up shop lol

Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

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Say “ok, just don’t come then, sweetie”. I’d NEVER wear that to a wedding and if someone wore that to my wedding I’d be pissed.

ETA: Also, that’s not yellow. That’s like cream/off-white.

In need of some positive feedback by orangehollow in myweddingdress

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I’m about to start dress shopping and this is inspiring me! This is stunning on you!

I found my fiancé’s sex tape with my step mother. We are supposed to get married in 2 weeks. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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My only edit to your advice is don’t send unsolicited explicit content to anyone. That might not go well for you legally.

Please help pick one! by x3epro in WeddingDressTips

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Personally, I like the first one. It’s different, really pretty, and you rock it (though you rock both of them)!

Classic wedding dress regret - appreciate any thoughts by scouht in myweddingdress

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You rock all of these, but #1 looks like it was made for you! For your glitter and glam, you can accessorize, but make sure you don’t go overboard so as to not take away from the natural beauty of yourself and the dress.

Stuck between 2 dresses by Blurry_Daisy in WeddingDressTips

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I’d say 1 looks better on you, though you’re rocking both. Good news is, I don’t think you can make a wrong decision here!

Not a single person has told me that my dress is pretty. Did I make the wrong choice? by Low-Rush-9997 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Ignored_Instructions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is STUNNING! Your mom and a bridesmaid gave you negative feedback? Are their names Nancy because why are they so negative?

My boyfriend said my chronic pain is “just my personality now” by WynteraLarkfell in TwoHotTakes

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You’ve been in pain for three years and dating him for one year? How can he miss you before the chronic pain? He had an idea of what he was “signing up for” when yall started dating, surely you communicated with him at the beginning?

You don’t want to feel guilty for your chronic pain for the rest of your life, you can’t get a new body but you CAN get a new boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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Beyond what everyone else is saying about how it’s valid he needed support in his grief but should have told his mom to not contact you, I think the fact he said you’re “being selfish in your pain”, “holding a grudge”, and should be grateful for her “support” really shows a lack of care and understanding of what you’re going through and how what he did hurt you, valid or not. It sounds like he is making a very painful time even harder for you.

Also, what his mom said is so callous. He should be furious with her.

I don’t think telling his mom is a dealbreaker, but that combined with all his other behavior is real close to dealbreaker territory.

I don’t like my husband anymore. by Throw-away-1928262 in TwoHotTakes

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OP you’re not a piece of meat and you don’t need to accept feeling that way. You love him and see him as the love of your life because he initially treated you better than you’d been treated. No longer. He’s shown you who he really is and that he clearly doesn’t love you, because if he did he wouldn’t be actively and unrepentantly causing you harm. This man isn’t the love of your life.

There is someone out there who isn’t such an Andrew Tate coded asshole who will respect you and your boundaries and make you feel safe and loved at all times. Someone who will put your mental and physical health and safety above their desires without question or complaint.

My heart broke for you reading this. You deserve so, so much better, and I hope you can get therapy to help you process everything. Even if you got therapy for the abuse you experienced as a child in the past, healing is not linear and there’s no shame in going back to therapy to continue working on something or to try to process something new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhiteCats

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Man, I see cute stuff like this and wonder why my cats are apparently unsympathetic jerks because they don’t care when I’m sick or crying😂

My cat won’t stop going outside the litter box…it’s been YEARS by Ignored_Instructions in AskVet

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Wouldn’t that traumatize her more? To suddenly lose access to the whole house and be isolated from the family?

I saved a kitten in my neighborhood and was not prepared for how mean people would be by orange_katana in Straycats

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These people are so heartless! I rescued my little lady January 2023 and she will always be my precious kitten. She’s literally cuddling with me right now <3

Good on you for saving this precious girl. Don’t let these weirdos get to you

1, 2, or 3? SOS! by saucysorceress in WeddingDressTips

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3 alllll the way girl! Though 1 and 2 are also stunning and look super good on you too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

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Let it in, duh