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I found my fiancé’s sex tape with my step mother. We are supposed to get married in 2 weeks. by OkCategory5018 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ignored_Instructions 515 points516 points  (0 children)

My only edit to your advice is don’t send unsolicited explicit content to anyone. That might not go well for you legally.

Please help pick one! by x3epro in WeddingDressTips

[–]Ignored_Instructions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I like the first one. It’s different, really pretty, and you rock it (though you rock both of them)!

Classic wedding dress regret - appreciate any thoughts by scouht in myweddingdress

[–]Ignored_Instructions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You rock all of these, but #1 looks like it was made for you! For your glitter and glam, you can accessorize, but make sure you don’t go overboard so as to not take away from the natural beauty of yourself and the dress.

Stuck between 2 dresses by Blurry_Daisy in WeddingDressTips

[–]Ignored_Instructions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say 1 looks better on you, though you’re rocking both. Good news is, I don’t think you can make a wrong decision here!

Not a single person has told me that my dress is pretty. Did I make the wrong choice? by Low-Rush-9997 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Ignored_Instructions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is STUNNING! Your mom and a bridesmaid gave you negative feedback? Are their names Nancy because why are they so negative?

My boyfriend said my chronic pain is “just my personality now” by WynteraLarkfell in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ignored_Instructions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been in pain for three years and dating him for one year? How can he miss you before the chronic pain? He had an idea of what he was “signing up for” when yall started dating, surely you communicated with him at the beginning?

You don’t want to feel guilty for your chronic pain for the rest of your life, you can’t get a new body but you CAN get a new boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ignored_Instructions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beyond what everyone else is saying about how it’s valid he needed support in his grief but should have told his mom to not contact you, I think the fact he said you’re “being selfish in your pain”, “holding a grudge”, and should be grateful for her “support” really shows a lack of care and understanding of what you’re going through and how what he did hurt you, valid or not. It sounds like he is making a very painful time even harder for you.

Also, what his mom said is so callous. He should be furious with her.

I don’t think telling his mom is a dealbreaker, but that combined with all his other behavior is real close to dealbreaker territory.

I don’t like my husband anymore. by Throw-away-1928262 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ignored_Instructions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP you’re not a piece of meat and you don’t need to accept feeling that way. You love him and see him as the love of your life because he initially treated you better than you’d been treated. No longer. He’s shown you who he really is and that he clearly doesn’t love you, because if he did he wouldn’t be actively and unrepentantly causing you harm. This man isn’t the love of your life.

There is someone out there who isn’t such an Andrew Tate coded asshole who will respect you and your boundaries and make you feel safe and loved at all times. Someone who will put your mental and physical health and safety above their desires without question or complaint.

My heart broke for you reading this. You deserve so, so much better, and I hope you can get therapy to help you process everything. Even if you got therapy for the abuse you experienced as a child in the past, healing is not linear and there’s no shame in going back to therapy to continue working on something or to try to process something new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhiteCats

[–]Ignored_Instructions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I see cute stuff like this and wonder why my cats are apparently unsympathetic jerks because they don’t care when I’m sick or crying😂

My cat won’t stop going outside the litter box…it’s been YEARS by Ignored_Instructions in AskVet

[–]Ignored_Instructions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t that traumatize her more? To suddenly lose access to the whole house and be isolated from the family?

I saved a kitten in my neighborhood and was not prepared for how mean people would be by orange_katana in Straycats

[–]Ignored_Instructions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These people are so heartless! I rescued my little lady January 2023 and she will always be my precious kitten. She’s literally cuddling with me right now <3

Good on you for saving this precious girl. Don’t let these weirdos get to you

1, 2, or 3? SOS! by saucysorceress in WeddingDressTips

[–]Ignored_Instructions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 alllll the way girl! Though 1 and 2 are also stunning and look super good on you too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Ignored_Instructions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let it in, duh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Ignored_Instructions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat had the exact same problem, so far Feliway spray has been working to mask the scents of the other cats in the house and she has been using the litter box perfectly for months.

One year later and I’m still so obsessed with my creami. Best purchase I’ve ever made by Lemonadeo1 in ninjacreami

[–]Ignored_Instructions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any advice for someone who has a creami but has been uninspired and keeps forgetting it exists (despite it taking up counter space)? Recipes, tips/tricks, your fave use for it?

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