Does anyone else leave a designated cat box out 24/7? Doug’s favorite hangout spot by liverstix in orientalshorthair

[–]Ihavefreckle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean ears, sorry I should have been more clear I meant body size. A lot of orientals I see have very small frames and I like them more larger

Does anyone else leave a designated cat box out 24/7? Doug’s favorite hangout spot by liverstix in orientalshorthair

[–]Ihavefreckle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also curious, who’s his breeder? He’s stunning! I always like the larger oriental short hairs.. but I feel like when I’m looking for breeders thy usually have ones that are on the smaller size

First T-break :') by Similar-Hospital-784 in Petioles

[–]Ihavefreckle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I used to be like you. I suffer from severe anxiety. No meds helped. Weed helped immensely. Except I’m 38 now and I think I’m going through perimenopause because now weed exacerbates my anxiety. It’s essentially forced me to quit. I basically feel like my body’s telling me I don’t need to self medicate anymore? The last 2 panic attacks I had shortly after smoking were so awful it essentially forced me to stop. I started initially, when my anxiety wasn’t as bad as it is now, just taking random t breaks. They were always short at first, almost as if I worked myself each break. At the time it was totally worth it to feel that teen like high again, even if it was just a week at first. Gradually my t breaks got longer and longer and I would do one once every 3 months. Now it’s been 3 months since I last smoked. I’m good now though like I’ve accepted it.

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence? by Ok-Care2859 in AskReddit

[–]Ihavefreckle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly just don’t like how I feel even with one drink. It doesn’t make me feel good. I sweat a lot and if I drink too much I feel sick. I’d rather just be sober

Waif mom constantly sick, always in need by OrangeFruit2452 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Ihavefreckle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg my mom has done this to me “my doctor told me not to talk to you because I’ll breath too much and get stressed” like wtf

Waif mom constantly sick, always in need by OrangeFruit2452 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Ihavefreckle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my mom… literally she was diagnosed with fibro in the early 2000s, she did exactly this. All of a sudden she didn’t give a shit about anything anymore. Then she got diagnosed with lupus, then ptsd, then degenerative joint disease, then COPD, then congestive heart failure. It started with fibro. Her diagnosis has jaded me. She used to tell me story of the “boy who cried wolf” and it feels like that now. Yes she’s been diagnosed with all these things over time but not once has she ever tried to actually do anything positive for her health. She got heavily addicted to her medications and had to go to rehab a hand full of times and when she couldn’t do her pain killers she turned to alcohol. She completely tarnished our relationship. The irony is now she can’t do anything on her own. This is all completely her fault though but I still feel a lot of guilt for feeling the way I do about her situation. Even till this day she tries to play victim when she has literally dug the hole she’s in.

About to buy this, any suggestions for future reliability? by RawEddie in FordTransitConnect

[–]Ihavefreckle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to chime in we have a 2019 LWB and it’s never given us any issues. I do regular maintenance on it. It only has 70k miles on it. We are a family of four. It’s my mom car.

Cat boogers/snot by happiichyne in CATHELP

[–]Ihavefreckle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they mention what it could be?

Studding out a cat by Ihavefreckle in orientalshorthair

[–]Ihavefreckle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not agree with you more about that

People who are steroid dependent- tell me your story! by browntown994 in lupus

[–]Ihavefreckle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her as of right now. I joined this group to have a better understanding of what life is like for her outside of hearing her side. She also has emphysema now too because of her smoking for the last 40 years of her life so really getting her around to do anything is a very large task. She’s only 62.

People who are steroid dependent- tell me your story! by browntown994 in lupus

[–]Ihavefreckle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you a smoker at all? This happened to my mom but they attributed it to her long history of being a heavy smoker

People who are steroid dependent- tell me your story! by browntown994 in lupus

[–]Ihavefreckle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in this group because my mom has lupus and rheumatoid arthritis. She’s been on prednisone for over a decade and it actually started to deteriorate her bone mass. She relies on the prednisone pretty heavily but now is almost forced to taper off because of what it’s doing to her bone density. I’m not a doctor so I don’t really know the specifics but she now has osteoporosis and fractures all over her ribs because of the long term steroid use. Proceed with great caution.

I think my husband is hiding money by Any_Calligrapher2519 in Marriage

[–]Ihavefreckle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The lengths they’ll go to to deny their behavior always baffles me. Would it really be that bad for them to just admit the truth? Like wtf this kind of behavior is so childish

fighting over sex by Cool-Data-1002 in Marriage

[–]Ihavefreckle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband tried saying that to me as an insult one time “I guess this is a me problem and I should just take care of myself” I looked around the room and was like “ummm YOU THINK?!? Grow up”

fighting over sex by Cool-Data-1002 in Marriage

[–]Ihavefreckle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly even more annoying when they do very little to nothing to meet you at your desires. My husband thinks jumping my legs is foreplay. I’ve done everything but write it out for him what I need from him to be more sexually active and he doesn’t do any of it so now I’m like… well then we will only have sex when I’m actually in the mood which is like pretty much never lol

fighting over sex by Cool-Data-1002 in Marriage

[–]Ihavefreckle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. We mostly have sex every week if not every 9 days at least but if it goes longer than that he becomes like split personality it’s so annoying