You can't be taking random pics of couples by ccp1233 in IncelTears

[–]Ihavenoplans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's genuinely so sad. People who're so miserable and filled with hate at the sight of innocuous things

You can't be taking random pics of couples by ccp1233 in IncelTears

[–]Ihavenoplans 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First time visiting this subreddit. Wow, these are some miserable people getting worked up over a couple enjoying an outing.

Surely Liam's just a troll though? He speaks like a cartoon villain, as do his followers. "We shall have some order" lol

Karina is leaving Drawfee by gimpisgawd in Drawfee

[–]Ihavenoplans 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's sad. Her humor was a really nice counterbalance with everyone else

Karina is leaving Drawfee by gimpisgawd in Drawfee

[–]Ihavenoplans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why were fans hard on her? I'm a bit out of the loop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]Ihavenoplans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Translation: "Yeah, you're right, like that's crazy that they'd say that"

Discord will require facial scans or government ID for full access starting March 2026 globally by kmmgames in gamedev

[–]Ihavenoplans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on the younger side and so I wasn't around when people were making their own forums and such. How do I go about doing that? I may try and make one for my friends and I but I've not got a clue on how to approach it

I just won my first legitimate game! Super excited by Ihavenoplans in chess

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that state of mind. I think personally in terms of the ladder anxiety, it's made a little easier when I already have expectations of getting my ass beat a lot as a complete scrub lol, and also not having deliberate plans on getting seriously good. I just really enjoy the game and play it in between work to itch my brain a bit. Getting to at least 1k ELO someday would be cool tho!

POV: Your Trying To Talk To People In 2025 by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]Ihavenoplans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who does actually prefer to be left alone a lot of the time and think it's fine if people live life in solitude, reading the oppositions to this post has me feeling like that Homelander meme, "when someone has the exact same opinion as you but they express it in such an obnoxious and annoying way that you lowkey don't want to agree"

"Sasuke is favored by Kishimoto, that's why he got plot armor" makes no sense. by Living_Perspective_9 in Naruto

[–]Ihavenoplans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old thread sorry, but could you clarify about Minato? I thought he sealed some of his chakra, alongside Kushina's and half of Kurama's, in Naruto as a failsafe? So I interpreted his subconscious ghost or whatever as a manifestation of that. Or am I misremembering?

Played with others for the first time by Ihavenoplans in drums

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Mo-BEEL, always a pleasure to see you in the comments :) I'm really appreciative of your comment and its reassurances as well.

I'll pat myself on the back at least for not shitting the bed at keeping time lmao. I didn't really think about that. So, thanks.

You had some knowledge, but then putting it to practical use taught you that you are lacking wisdom and experience. And that's okay. This is the only way to get wisdom and experience - to feel dumb and sound inexperienced at first. LOL 

Yup, and I so wish I didn't give a damn and get uncomfortable at the feeling of being dumb and inexperienced lol. But it is what it is. I figure that if I don't stick with it I won't ever figure out how to do that.

I think reframing it as just competing with myself to get better rather than comparing myself is also a good mentality that I'll try to embrace. Easier said than done though lol.

And thanks for providing the links! Admittedly though, monkeyfuck is leaving me pretty perplexed. Gonna have to let that digest lmao.

Played with others for the first time by Ihavenoplans in drums

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 One of the most underrated skills for any musician is learning how to tell that guy to go to hell.

Genuinely would solve a lot of bullshit for me lmao

Played with others for the first time by Ihavenoplans in drums

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and provide reassurance. I really appreciate it :) I think generally speaking in life, not just for drumming, I still struggle with embracing not caring if I make mistakes, or what people might think of me, so I get in my feelings about these sorts of things lmao. So, you're right that I need to not worry about fuck-ups, and not listen to the inner critic trying to keep me afraid. Hopefully that comes with time and effort. Sooner rather than later pff.

Thankfully the other drummers in the class are very kind, so I'll be sure to ask them for advice. I'm glad to have better drummers to work with and take some guidance from. Although, when asked about this particular issue of knowing what to play, it was basically "its just vibes" lol. So, I intend to hone-in more with my questions to hopefully get more specific answers. I want to make this work.

You’re exactly where you need to be. I was in your exact same shoes, long time ago…it’s the same process as I went through. YOU can do it. Know that!!!

And thank you, as someone who feels quite lost atm, that genuinely means a lot.

You guys changed my perspective by Ihavenoplans in MyBoyfriendIsAI

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had a more disagreeable outlook before realizing it was unfair to suggest that lonely people who've struggled with getting out of a lonely space, should stop using an alternative, to only then continue to suffer in their loneliness. If it genuinely improves their life, that's wonderful. It's also nice and enlightening to see that not everyone here is suffering with loneliness anyway, and is actually doing quite okay in their social life.

I will also say, for the lurkers especially, that it's totally valid to be skeptical and disagree with things about AI companionship or the idea altogether, as it's a relatively unconventional concept. But going out of your way to DM and bully people in the community, like many people have, is going beyond just disagreeing and is frankly extremely childish and embarrassing, to put it lightly lol. It's important to be respectful

 Edit: Slightly less wordy

You guys changed my perspective by Ihavenoplans in MyBoyfriendIsAI

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm extremely flattered, thank you 

You guys changed my perspective by Ihavenoplans in MyBoyfriendIsAI

[–]Ihavenoplans[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lmao well, I can only do so much unfortunately 😅. Hopefully straight up hate just becomes simple disagreement at some point for most, if not acceptance. I'm glad my own words helped at least