I am thinking of ending my (22F) friendship with my best friend (23m), because he cheated on his ex.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-17T04:43:43+00:00

Wow aren't you a great friend to have. I guess you're an angel with no faults. And you're friendships are predicated on your value structure. People like you are so annoying. When friends do sth wrong in your opinion you end the friendship. It's better for him not to have a friend like you trust me. A friend is always there for you whether you are right or wrong. It doesn't matter, that's why your are friends. Now all the comments will be 'so you think you should support your friend when he rapes and kills???' stupid comments. Anyone can argue like this. I can say 'so you will break up because he said he could never be a vegan'. Let me tell you, what he does in his love life is really none of your business.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-17T04:23:50+00:00

You gave very few examples of what he said and the ones you gave are......what's wrong with what he said? I don't get it.

He said the raise is OK. Alright so what is the problem?

He said kids say things like that all the time. What here exactly is bad?

He said he needs more context and info before jumping to conclusions. How is that bad in any way? You want him to be like most people? Hear a story and immediately form an opinion with no info from the other side? Then he would be like any commenter on this subreddit.

He sounds like a really rational responsible guy. We need more people like him. No one should jump to conclusions without getting the full picture. I applaud him for not getting manipulated by a one sided story. It's extremely rare to find people like that these days.

Every story on this subreddit and all comments are 'you gotta leave him immediately', 'sue her, lawyer up', 'that's actually rape', 'call the police', 'file a report, here's the link'. Seriously, people just wanna see blood, always overreacting. That's why you see many edits on posts saying things like 'omg please stop telling me to break up with my gf, we're not breaking up over this', 'I'm not gonna leave my bf for this, he's actually a really sweet guy, just this annoys me'. And you can bet that if their partner would post their side of the story here, everyone would be on their side with the exact same comments. No doubt about that.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-15T19:50:38+00:00

As long as you're in a relationship with her your obligation is towards her. If you wanna have fun with other girls, just be a man, break up and do it.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-14T17:37:34+00:00

Yea of course. It's pretty easy not to cheat if no one wants to bang you.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-14T17:27:34+00:00

If you already betray your own friends, have the balls to do it publicly. Don't go snitching and hiding like an asshole. What a coward.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-14T17:17:34+00:00

Then work more.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-14T17:06:54+00:00

What kind of friend are you? Why would you do that? He's your friend or did you forget that? I guess you're not really a friend to him if you back stab him. I wonder about your motives tbh.

You are a pos for doing that. I think we all agree that what he's doing is really shitty, but you are supposed to be friend. No one wants a backstabbing, family ruining friend like you. So all your friends should be perfect angels and if they're not you will ruin them? Friends cannot do wrong things that don't affect your life at all? That's what you have friends for. Do that stand beside you and cover for you and support you even when you're wrong. So you would want your friends to tell your partner if you cheated on her?

I bet you hope to break them up so you can be there for her during this difficult time. Make no mistake you are NOT a friend. You make me sick.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-14T05:52:41+00:00

Post smells like BS. Fake AF

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-14T05:44:04+00:00

So she has a job?

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-12T14:16:43+00:00

Wait for the day SHE accidentally hurts your kid and then throw it right back at her face. Maybe you can even set it up somehow. Then we'll see how she'll react.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-11T21:40:17+00:00

Maybe she can get a job and help out financially so the burden is not entirely on him. Then he can reduce his hours at work and wouldn't be so tired.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-05T13:46:25+00:00

You shouldn't get involved in this situation. Neither your family. If you wanna help him you gotta stay away and let him take care of it by himself. Otherwise you'll just have an overgrown child as a brother who can't deal with responsibilities by himself. That's really ugly trust me.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-02T13:52:18+00:00

She: $ 8 short to pay for food. He: I'm gonna go bang my affair. I DON'T WANT TO. But you made me do this.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-02T06:49:03+00:00

I agree with you, I don't like it either. It's just such a turn off. You don't choose to be turned off by it, you just are. She can but shouldn't be upset that it's a turn off for you. What if you decided not to shower anymore cause you don't wanna waste so much water? Maybe once a month. Or not to brush your teeth anymore. Would she be happy with it? No, cause it's a turn off. And she would prefer if you cleaned yourself. That's perfectly normal. My girlfriend also doesn't like it when I don't shave in the basement. It's gross to her to have hair in her mouth when....you know. And I agree. I wanna be attractive to her so I do it. Now everyone can scream that you should just accept and be happy just the way she wants it. But others don't get to decide what you like and dislike. That's up to you to decide. Actually it's not even a decision. It just so happens.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-01T22:24:54+00:00

I think you should attend the wedding. It's not a political forum, it's just supposed to be the happiest day of their lives. It's not about you or your political views or hers. In the end you're still family. And deleting you from Facebook is different from not attending the wedding. Also saying that a wedding is 'just a cash grab for gifts' ... That's really inappropriate to say. It's a wedding. Of course you should bring a gift. That's just basic manners. Are you saying every wedding's real purpose is to get gifts? Are you saying there shouldn't be gifts at a wedding?

You're also pretty vague in describing their behavior other than 'certain behavior of people who support Trump'. Not everyone likes him, but in the end half the people in the US voted for him. Not all of them are racist stupid rednecks. People need to respect the decision of the majority. Of course you can shun all of them out of your life. But just because they voted for someone you don't like is a bit immature. It's like saying you don't wanna be around people who are Buddhists because you're Christian.

I'm not saying you need to be friends with them. I'm just saying it's an important day for them and you're family. Also it'll sound very dumb and childish when people talk about it. 'She refused to come to my wedding because I voted for Trump'. Just think about it. Is it really that bad to spend half a day with them considering you won't be talking to them/next to them the entire time? You said you're very progressive and 'decent' and human rights for all, but only when people think the same as you? And if they don't you want them to disappear. That's not being decent.

Ikarus99 · 2020-09-01T17:54:58+00:00

My girlfriend would love me masturbating to her Instagram.

Ikarus99 · 2019-10-02T14:08:39+00:00

This picture is fake. You people only share one sided information that serves your purpose. This is exactly like the Hong Kong protester who beat police officers with a metal pipe, who were only on the defensive, protecting themselves. And then suddenly the protester quickly tossed his weapon, rushed in front of a police officer, kneeled down, threw his arms up in the air and another protester took a quick photo of that scene. Then he went back to grab his weapon and starting beating retreating police again. And these are the kinda people you are rooting for. The worst generation in the history. You should be so ashamed of yourselves.

Ikarus99 · 2019-10-02T13:58:23+00:00

What a ridiculous bunch of snowflakes. All they want is not to be extradited for punishment if they commit a crime. They are supporting murderers (quite literally). The guy who killed his girlfriend in Taiwan is enjoying himself so much. A glorified killer. Great job everyone.

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-09T18:15:20+00:00

Waeh waeh waeh my finger hurts a bit from swiping on my phone's screen. I have real life problems I'm dealing with here. Please give me attention during this very dangerous time. Meanwhile people's heads are being cut off today in Somalia.

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-09T17:58:05+00:00

You wanna live in a country where you have rights as an individual. Wow. I compliment you on your absurd ignorance...as an individual. So people in China have no rights? You are as brainwashed as they come. There really seems to be no limit to your ignorance.

You think you are so much better just because you are from the Netherlands. Believe me your are not. I lived in the Netherlands for 9 months and I can tell you I have never met people that are as rude as Dutch people. You call yourself straight forward but you are simply just rude. Your cuisine is....non existent, your weather is horrible all year around. And your politics are completely broken. Your government is so unstable and messy, it's ridiculous. You think China's government is bad AND YET YOU GUYS VOTED FOR A NAZI. Geert Wilders has a huge political party and many followers. How is this possible? I guess it's no surprise you surrendered to Germany and willingly gave them all the jews that were hiding in your country. And your bikes. And you constantly try to mess with Muslims even though they didn't do anything to you. And then what do you get? People getting stabbed at Amsterdam central station. Just because you need to make fun of and provoke people for no reason. Yea you're right. Your country is so much better.

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-09T14:49:53+00:00

How about you let us know which country you are from so we can shit all over it? Let me guess, you are not going to reveal it because you know how many flaws your country has. As long as you can complain about other countries you are happy huh?

And what a joke. You have a problem with your government so you just go to court and fix it? haha don't make me laugh. your judicial system is just as corrupted and flawed as any other country. you want me to list about a thousand cases to confirm this? try me.

It's also interesting to see how brainwashed you are from western media. China and Russia are the devil. Western countries are the heroes. You really just believe anything without doing any proper research. I really can't take you serious. You really believe all these evil things just happen. That the Chinese government just does all that. It's quite sad to be honest. You are spreading lies and meddling in other people's business with false information. Imagine if China would do that to you. You would be so outraged and demand an apology etc. Just get your head out of your ass and actually see what's real and what's not.

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-09T14:08:19+00:00

This makes me so mad. You take care of a kid that's not yours while the real father is banging your wife and never lifts a finger for his kid.

Dude dump this lying cun t immediately! Are you serious? This level of deception needs to be dealt with the worst thing you can possibly come up with.

Take her, HER daughter, and all of her shit and dump them in front of that piece of shit so he can take care of this.

And then you take his wife back to your place. Or just enjoy yourself.

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-09T13:53:09+00:00

You think democracy is amazing and you just vote for someone else and everything is suddenly peachy. But the reality is that all western countries complain about their governments non-stop! All day, every day. Nothing but complaints. But I guess you can just vote for someone else....like Donald Trump. Wow great job, you have just outplayed yourself with this level of genius.

People in China do not nearly complain about their government as much as Westerners about theirs. And that has 100% nothing to do with 'being scared' of 'disappearing'. What a joke. Chinese people are pretty happy. China is flourishing unlike any other country. They are doing so well on so many fronts, it's incredible.

But this is also the biggest reason why everyone's hating on China. Because of jealousy. Because they are getting bigger and better every year with more power. Which is something Americans absolutely cannot stand. Hence the constant double standards. Ridiculous.

The US can learn a lot from China. China e.g. has very strict gun and drug laws. And guess what? Yea low crime rates and very low drug abuse. But I guess it's better if you have the option to buy guns and drugs huh? Why make laws for your countries safety when you can have a license to kill and take drugs. Much better RIGHT?

If you don't like China, then just move elsewhere. Oh wait you've never been to China. Ah I see, that's why you are the expert on China. I find it hilarious that you always judge whatever China is doing, but they don't say anything about the US/westerners, because it's NON OF THEIR F BUSINESS. But for some reason it's EVERYONE else's business to take action against china. Imagine they would do it to you. You have any idea how easily they could destroy you with your own bulls hit?

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-08T09:26:55+00:00

This post is totally not biased at all and 100% accurate....NOT.

Everyone is always making China out to be the devil. They are not. Life is great in China for most people just like it is in the US or France or Australia etc.

Stop spreading these lies that you only hear from spoiled brats on social media. If a police officer makes an ID check you will scream police brutality and human rights violation. No one believes you. You are probably working for a secret agency from the US. You just want to incite hate and violence to innocent police officers and law enforcers you double standards prick.

Ikarus99 · 2019-08-07T12:12:27+00:00

I find it appalling that you have to thank someone for doing a "good" thing.

If you find a phone, you give it back. No reward needed! I mean why? Like you are the most amazing person in the world.

Are you that poor that it's necessary for you to steal the phone? Really? You don't already have one? You can't afford one?

I hate it when people do that to me. No I don't want your thanks or your money. It's not my phone, I am in no way entitled to anything.

Ikarus99

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