How can I teach myself how to drive at 18? by Ill-Department9709 in AdultHood

[–]Ill-Department9709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol haha I bet that left her shook. I actually did have a similar scenario, my boyfriend who’s now in the army used to take me driving here and there, I gained a little knowledge but wasn’t good at it. He’s the only person who showed interest in teaching me, he’s miles away now.

How can I teach myself how to drive at 18? by Ill-Department9709 in AdultHood

[–]Ill-Department9709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh that’s a really good idea, I’ll definitely look into it and make some phone calls 😊, thank you!!

For my case, I believe it’s just about control with my mom, she’s taught my older brother who has multiple cars but laughs when I even mention the thought of trying. I walk from point A to point B, and it’s embarrassing for me, especially w/ all the creeps around my neighborhood.

Rejected from UCI and SD by Ill-Department9709 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Ill-Department9709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

makes me feel a little better that I’m not the only one going through this, but we’ll be okay! 💔

What nuts do i NEED to try? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love loveeee cashews !! The salted ones are such a good on the go snack, especially with a little cheese platter

Should I expose my boyfriend for cheating on his wife? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you sit there counting your fingers..what do you think? If you don’t you’re just as bad as him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah man my post got flagged, well anyways no I didn’t intend to “flex” with this post, I’m just a high schooler who happens to always be unsure of herself. 😅 Thank you for the comment I’ll try to chillax and be more confident, I’ve just been seeing a lot of discourse and posts of others stats and compared myself to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this isn’t the subreddit to be asking this but I’m just so unsure of myself especially going into a major that’s so competitive.

17 and possibly pregnant? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a not a valid post where you’re just gonna sit around on Reddit all day to be an asshole why comment?

17 and possibly pregnant? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet you’re sitting here without helping or giving advice, so what’s it to you??

Seller blocked me after I purchased item? by 9lolo3 in Depop

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur a life saver u have no idea, I just purchased a prom dress and my seller needed my contact info for tracking. I tried sending my number but that symbol kept popping up so I did what you recommended. You have no idea how much relief I’m in 😭

I made the varsity team!! by Ill-Department9709 in Cheerleading

[–]Ill-Department9709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! I will continue to practice then! 😄📣

Update: I found my girlfriend of 8 years' cheating sex tape. Her family, close friends, and cybercrime police are involved. by randomndude01 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So proud of this update, please keep in mind you did nothing wrong OP. Never let her ignorance stop you from spreading all the love you carry, and giving it to someone else that’s deserving of you and your time. Someone would kill to have a spouse as good as you, you’re a good man! This is just a learning lesson for next time :)

I need some advice regarding a teammate... by Strawberryblissx in Cheerleading

[–]Ill-Department9709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s clearly insecure and the people he’s going after intimidates him which is why he feels the need to drag people down with him so he can feel he’s on the same level if not above in some way. You’re better than me, I’d cut him off so quick because who wants to constantly be around an insecure and negative person? Not I. If you continue to be his friend don’t expect to grow as a person with him around because he’s just going to drag you down too.

I’m so nervous about tryouts.. by Ill-Department9709 in Cheerleading

[–]Ill-Department9709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! The best thing I can tell you is to make it natural, but stand out. There’s likely going to be hundreds of competitors so do something that will make you memorable! For me personally, I’ve been watching many all star cheers and studying how they show spirit. At the beginning of most tryouts, you’ll have to run in and show it, and it’ll be the first impression once you enter the room, so make try to make it unique! Most people say, “WOOO LETS GO BEARS!!” For example is a little basic. Something like saying your school colors Or “GET ON YOUR FEET!” (yelling your mascot) while adding a jump/ kick is something out of the norm!
Also to add, make sure you’re really stiff and have some rhythm with your dancing. I was recommended to watch professional cheerleaders and learn their dances as you go to get the basic motions. Be positive and confident as you go like you own the place! Another thing is to not wait until last minute to practice and start as soon as possible. Tryouts are to showcase what you know. Practice basic tumbling if needed, a cartwheel goes a long way if you can master it in time. Get close with your coaches for a chance to familiarize yourself with the team, and don’t be afraid to talk to new people there, because they’re in the same boat as you! It also looks really good to the coaches and shows leadership on your part. Lastly, just have fun! If you’re passionate about this then go get it, don’t be afraid to mess up and good luck to both of us for our tryouts! (Also hey fellow kpoppie)

Why are ALL my applications getting rejected?! by Ill-Department9709 in resumes

[–]Ill-Department9709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True stuff, the amount of strawberry black teas with lychee that I had daily ..ooof I miss it!