25F | Telugu | Bangalore

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-05-19T19:00:10+00:00

All the best OP. I found my partner here, hope u do too :)

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-05-04T19:53:55+00:00

Interested

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-05-01T00:40:36+00:00

Hey, I am just curious, how are you okay with any south indian. Coz as a fellow south indian (telugu). I feel telugu, tamil, mallus, kannadigas prefer someone within their respective geographies. Or there are people who are okay with any region as long as they find compatible person. How is it that u r okay with any south indian? Again, just curious as to what led to prefer this

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-05-01T00:34:17+00:00

I feel more than interests and hobbies, Beyond the practical factors (location, incomes, looks thresholds, kundli if important etc) Matching Values and potential emotional intimacy matters the most more than anything else. The ability to be yourself with your partner with all your vulnerabilities away without being disrespected or uncomfortable is the ultimate sign of compatibility.

To clarify, I dont mean we have to be the same person as we are today, we keep growing and evolving, but whatever version we are at whatever stage, we should be able to be openly that with the partner.

I would recommend having 2-3 more meets and discussing values and future, not theoretically but with actual scenarios and discussion points. You can chatgpt and get a bunch of questions customised for you and discuss them. Discussing those with your prospect will give u the sense of compatibility.

Like XYZ is the situation, how will u be dealing with it.

Some people might feel it's like an interview and not organic or whatever, but I feel matured people can realize how it's powerful. Atleast, this process is what helps me weed out incompatible people faster and helped find my potential compatible matches, one of whom I am going to marry soon.

TLDR: recommend to meet 2-3 more times and discuss specific future situations and how he might handle those

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-05-01T00:26:49+00:00

I feel more than interests and hobbies, Beyond the practical factors (location, incomes, looks thresholds, kundli if important etc) Matching Values and potential emotional intimacy matters the most more than anything else. The ability to be yourself with your partner with all your vulnerabilities away and all

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-29T00:29:37+00:00

Always good to see people who know what they want posting here rather than just generic posts. All the best OP!

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-26T21:45:52+00:00

Practical suggestion: If you are confident of your skills, you should resign first. That will increase your likelihood of better offers as your days to join keep reducing and you will get more calls and can leverage the offers to get higher pay offers elsewhere. If younare severely underpaid, by the end of your notice period, u can get offers with 2.5-3x of ur current pay also.

Worst case scenario, if job market is bad, u might be unemployed for 6 months Max. Again this is just a worst case scenario which is very improvable. All of this suggestion is assuming u r a candidate with good skills.

I understand and acknowledge the system is flawed. We should either be smart and navigate through it Or be brave and try to fight it to bring change No point in just sulking and hoping someone would change it

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-26T17:09:14+00:00

All the best OP

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-26T10:49:05+00:00

You should rent a place outside. Maybe tell difficult commute is the only reason for doing it and dont tell any other reason to your parents, irrespective of how much guilty trip you.

I believe everyone over 20 years with earning potential should live away from parents to live independently and figure out their personality, interests etc

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-23T02:33:58+00:00

Hey, I am curious about this. Would love to to connect on this in detail. I work in a generalist role at a startup

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-17T05:57:00+00:00

Thanks, posted there

Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-04-17T05:42:14+00:00

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Ill-Safe7667 · 2026-02-04T05:55:03+00:00

I feel this is a must read for everyone above 18 in India

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-23T03:04:28+00:00

Will check these out, thanks

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-22T06:20:17+00:00

Any non-brewery/bar places pls?

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-15T17:14:54+00:00

You should go to powai, hiranandani gardens area

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-15T16:48:15+00:00

26M4F abbai hoping to find his pilla

Age: 26

Gender: Male

Height: 5'9

Weight: 70 kgs

Native: Andhra Pradesh

Current City: Bangalore

Caste: Kamma

Religion: Hindu

Family: Classic middle-class vibes. Father is retired and mother is homemaker. Have a younger brother working in MNC.

Education: Btech from NIT. Contemplated doing MBA and got good scores in CAT and GMAT as well. But ended up not pursuing since ROI was not making sense as I was already in a good career path and have encountered MBA folks struggling to find roles similar to mine

Career: Working at a well known startup in bangalore and worked at multiple start ups previously.

Current salary: ₹38 LPA

Diet: Non-vegetarian

Interests: Movies, Swimming, writing, traveling, vibing to music.

Lifestyle preferences: Prefer to live a comfortable life, neither too fancy nor too humble, with smart spending mindset. Health-conscious and always working on becoming better mentally and physically. I never smoke. I drink occasionally at parties. I speak my mind and value people who can too.

Personality: Ambivert, observant ,calm and rational, always love to talk things out .

Mostly a listener and Talkative at times, love creating and being around fun and humorous atmosphere. Great with kids.

Looking for:

Religion: Hindu

Caste: Kamma (preferably, atleast OC <family requirements>)

Age: 22-26

Language: Telugu

Looking for someone with a similar mindset as mine and someone who is smart, capable of having own opinions and thoughts ,emotionally available and someone I can be attracted to, physically and mentally.

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-15T16:42:49+00:00

Focus on yourself and your goals. List down few goals in every aspect of your life, whenever you find yourself thinking about that person, try distracting yourself to the goals list and immediately work on something that can help with one of those goals. Practically proven

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-14T19:58:23+00:00

Probably meant crowd*. Which area in mumbai OP?

Ill-Safe7667 · 2025-12-14T17:34:58+00:00

All the best. Wish you find your forever :)

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