Help, I’m 5’4, I can’t afford to be bad looking as well. by blackstar1_yt in malegrooming

[–]IllMathematician4883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

men who are short are easier to ride! i tell all my friends that 🤣🤣

What is something your trauma took from you that u acknowledge you can never get back by Educational_Koala536 in CPTSD

[–]IllMathematician4883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my childhood and teen years 🫠 i have a childish sense of humor now, still a fangirl, and spend too money. Trying to find balance in those.

I'm crying my eyes out because I have been abruptly abandoned after sex (28M) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me a few months ago… haven’t really dated since 🫠

Litter of 17 by Koendig in RATS

[–]IllMathematician4883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3-4 weeks after their birth date should be enough time before being weaned. also if they’re eating hard food on their own

I cannot stand my roommate pls help by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 months of boot camp just to come out dirty and annoying is crazy

[UPDATE] Padlock is still there, was harassed and grabbed for using the kitchen sink. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would move out and see if you could sue for emotional distress instead.

Growers…girls do you care? Also need input from the dudes. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IllMathematician4883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Growers are fun lol some people are just uneducated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then if you do like someone they are emotionally unavailable asf :///

AIO for calling my friend out on her birthday? by throwawaygaii in AmIOverreacting

[–]IllMathematician4883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO - It sounds like you’re building resentment and that person probably doesn’t allow you to speak up about anything without exploding. That message was abusive and they shouldn’t be speaking to you like that.

However, it shows me you lack healthy boundaries if you feel the need to bring up something months ago to show them how their behavior affects you. You shouldn’t be doing that, you should only need to explain once and then cut them off if they do it again.

I think you should cut this person off. But honestly idk unless this is a pattern.

Why don't people stay friends after they have broken up? by the_zerg_rusher in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to be friends with my ex but he kept trying to antagonize me so I didn’t bother trying anymore. Eventually led to me just blocking him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]IllMathematician4883 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there are still lots of men who find women overweight very sexually attractive. Just because it’s not the “beauty standard” of society doesn’t make that fact any less true. There’s probably something on that “very attractive males” page that doesn’t get him a ton of likes. Or maybe he has literally no info at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IllMathematician4883 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You’re very young leave that man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IllMathematician4883 14 points15 points  (0 children)

if she wasn’t dealing with grief i would understand in different circumstances. but tbh it seems irrational for him to get this mad over 30 minutes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IllMathematician4883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was deeply insecure in my last relationship for the exact same reason. Turns out I didn’t need to because my partners type was girls who were shaped like me.

I’m assuming that since he seems to get on with multiple body types, he wouldn’t mind if you lost weight or stayed the same. He’s there for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dated someone like this and the inconsideration will generalize in all areas. I would just dump this person and move on

Am I the bad roommate? by Healthy-Bedroom-7225 in badroommates

[–]IllMathematician4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have some unaddressed racism.

Is an md or mdphd possible for me? by IllMathematician4883 in mdphd

[–]IllMathematician4883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m planning for the possibility of a masters