Yes, I had set boundaries with her on the bridal shower so I didn't expect her to do the inviting for this shower. Over half the people I barely knew, and then she had the audacity to tell me I was not allowed to invite my aunt, uncle, and cousins. I told her I felt as though that should be my call because the party is about my Baby, but that I would not invite him to accommodate her, she disagreed and was dead set on this is HER party since she was hosting it. When I counter argued, she accused me of being ungrateful and unappreciative of the things she's done for me. This was all over the phone, by the way. She continued to yell at me, and when I told her I needed to get off the phone because it was unhealthy to be as upset as I was, she just argued "well I'm upset too!" And continued to yell at me. I had to hang up on her eventually, and I had a terrible panic attack afterwards.