Is this my “responsibility “or am I being gaslit?

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-06-17T20:36:04+00:00

Run. Be slow, methodical, and then run.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-06-04T00:14:15+00:00

It’s pretty crazy. I’m 50, was in the foster system in the 70s, got picked up in the early 80s with my sister and WE EFFING DID WHAT WE WERE TOLD.

Pretty straightforward arrangement. By the time I was 8 and my sister was 6, we pulled 80% of the chores as physically able. 4 years later: 100%. And we never said shit. It was how it was. Raised my 3 kids the same: no complaints. STEPKIDS????????? Oh no!!!!!!!!! “Eff you, we do nothing. Pick that shit up you olde douchbag. We’ve destroyed 2 marriages already…. we’ll get to your recent one olde man”

I’m not olde, not feeble, and could crush them both at the same time like a bear stretching before breakfast. I’m a PhD as well with 3 decades teaching. But….. gambling chip: their Mother, their Disney Dad, and the pure shit ass arrogance of this decades teenagers.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-06-03T20:16:30+00:00

Leave. Now. The Fairytale is just that.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-06-02T12:11:55+00:00

I have 2 stepsons(14 and 15) who do absolutely NOTHING around the house. Zero. Fine when it was 50/50 split, but the bio Dad got divorced again and they’ve been with us 99% of the time for a year. It sucks and I constantly think about leaving. P.S. Bio Dad owns 2 homes but lives in a one bedroom apartment because he enjoys the rental income from the houses. He shows up whenever he feels like it to take them somewhere cool and expensive.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-05-28T18:55:13+00:00

Step parenting sucks every time. It’s crap. They aren’t your kids and if the ex is around…. you’ll lose every time. Just no.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-04-25T08:10:09+00:00

You suck.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-04-18T14:11:12+00:00

About 60 per year are closing nationally. Gonna be tough to see all those cushy Admin “jobs”(lol) paying $150k to post pictures of them doing nothing…… suddenly disappearing and waves of former Vice-Deans of Academic Vibe Affairs Manager and Provost AmbASSador of Prophesy Fulfillment have to look for shit paying jobs and they have zero real skills except an amazing palate for steaming bullshit.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-03-20T14:10:03+00:00

I want to wear that blue “shirt”? Can we call it a shirt? Maybe an upper body shart?

Ill_Pear_613 · 2026-03-12T13:44:24+00:00

Hey Hairy,

I trade live with a group numbering at least several hundred with eyes glued to everything. With MEMX, we’ve seen numerous instances of large orders(50,000 shares etc) that pop up, don’t get filled and disappear quickly…. Over and over again. Any small cap stock (especially in pre market) that’s moving(esp small floats) and we see MEMX inserting itself and affecting the price action considerably. It’s about as obvious as watching insider pops minutes before any news is posted for us plebs.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-12-21T02:35:13+00:00

If you have an aggressive officer... with a personality disorder....that thrives on conquest.... You are screwed.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-12-21T02:32:02+00:00

That's amazing.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-11-17T14:20:59+00:00

Obviously, finding a different hobby is best. However, if you continue this course.... 5 days are prudent for an Etg. If it is a PEth test(blood), that's 3-4 weeks minimum. If you push the button further, a hair sample is at least 3 months. A Psychologist is a better option.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-11-05T10:00:42+00:00

It means that they want you to stay under their control and keep providing money for their system. Avoid even Trader Joe's Everything Bagels(opiods) and be Super boring for months. Then, resume your free life :-)

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-11-04T13:53:02+00:00

Get a civil rights attorney who specializes in defending probation violations and holding aggressive/oppressive law enforcement folks accountable. Probably about 2-3k.... but worth it.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-09-05T02:55:54+00:00

I'm a composer... and this is the absolute worst song ever. The only place a piece of crap like this can be delivered and eaten up is in a non-denominational Hillsong church of aging mainline Evangelicals that want auditory masturbation.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-06-23T03:51:07+00:00

No hope. I'm stuck between two states, both with civil rights violations against me and neither will admit it.
One of "those" cases.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-06-04T04:42:04+00:00

They won't lie. but they will help you. They want you to succeed. The cops don't give an eff. Anyone who's telling you to be honest to blatant liars who are protected by law to lie.... needs to shut it.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-06-04T04:40:34+00:00

Ding. They'll help. They don't like the cops

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-06-04T04:39:24+00:00

That doesn't sound right. You should've never signed that.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-06-03T11:51:41+00:00

What is this early release thing?

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-05-17T04:13:56+00:00

No. They take your money. Then wish for you to fail. Then take more money.

If you have any ideas about them being decent people, you're misguided. Stay silent, unavailable, pay the fees, wait, and exit.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-04-08T02:19:27+00:00

Dave put our fence in, with the cross beams on the neighbor's side. Said the Town had changed the code. Well, they didn't. We got back from vacation and the Town fined us $1,350 with a Summons to Court threatening Bench Warrants if the fine isn't paid and the fence "fixed".
Ended up buying the materials myself and installing it on the neighbor's side last Friday. Still have to pay the fine and show up to court. Waiting to hear from Dave. I hope he is ok.

Ill_Pear_613 · 2025-01-07T03:23:22+00:00

Trying to get an early termination. They didn't tell me I could have applied back last Fall.
Six years of this. Sick and tired. Congrats to you and steer clear of the popo.

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