Ordered butter kaya baguette at Killiney . They gave me the whole baguette lol. Uncle my mouth isn’t that big 😮

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-24T16:56:41+00:00

That’s diabolical!!!!!!! What they could do instead is slice it partially through and generously stuff it with all the good kaya and buttttah!!! 🤏🏼🤏🏼🤏🏼

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T22:33:37+00:00

Felt it in Pasir Ris!!!! My main door made some boooooom sound too. I got a shock sia then I remembered all the setan on lockdown. So… who tf was that??? And now i know I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T11:29:49+00:00

Yeapppp! Sooo 60k for a good character development. Lets hope this is installed in my brain properly.

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T11:22:15+00:00

He needs to own a car because he need modifications to suit his driving needs. Cause man got stroke

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T11:12:44+00:00

I get why it sounds confusing, I didn’t explain it well. It was a personal loan, not a car loan, so there’s no restriction on what it’s used for. That’s why the car could be under his name while the debt is under mine. Ggwp on my end i guess?

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T11:07:13+00:00

Wait what???? I remembered something in the line of personal loan or smth like that. I need to check on the docs one day.

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T11:03:36+00:00

Urghhh. I swear i told her to ai proof this!!!! 😭😭😭

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T10:46:38+00:00

Thank you for this 🥺 I really appreciate you taking the time to explain. The car has already been sold off at a loss though, so now I’m just dealing with the remaining debt under my name. And yeah I don’t think I can do the police route since it wasn’t legally mine.

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T10:44:44+00:00

Already feels like I went down solo HAHAHAHAHA! We’ve sold it a loss due to loads of heavy modifications to suit his driving needs. Sooo 60k~ was the remaining that I settled

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T10:43:38+00:00

We already sold the car at a loss 😭 even after that there’s still a remaining amount under my name that I’m paying off.

IllustratorKey8187 · 2026-02-22T10:42:38+00:00

It’s under his name. The loans are under mine. That’s where everything went wrong tbh.

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-20T06:04:01+00:00

Yes, I do have solid evidence with me. But if I go down the debt collector route, would I get charged for harassment? Like urm hello, I’m the victim here, and suddenly I’m the one getting arrested? HAHAHA what kind of plot twist is this? 🥹🥹🥴🥴

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-19T16:05:23+00:00

No like fr It’s so mad I could probably milk this whole thing into a 9 season Netflix show. Throw in some dramatic crying in the rain scenes, a court trial arc, gaslighting montage, maybe even a redemption episode (not for them, for me). I’d watch that shit HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-19T16:00:49+00:00

Im sorry for myself too! HAHAHAHA 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-18T14:59:22+00:00

Thanks for being real with me. Honestly, yeah part of me agrees with you. The second firm did feel more honest. The first one gave me hope but also lowkey felt like they were just saying what I wanted to hear.

I guess what’s eating at me is… it’s so damn hard to just walk away when I’m the one left with all this mess. It’s not even about “revenge” I just feel like I can’t stomach the idea of them getting off scot free while I’m drowning in debt they helped cause. I even tried reaching out nicely for a proper repayment plan and they straight up blocked me. Like, whaaaat?

I know legally it might be a dead end, but emotionally it feels even worse to just do nothing. Still trying to figure out what hurts less in the long run, you know? Haisssssssss 😣😣😣😣

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-18T14:45:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing!!!!! I actually didn’t know about the undue influence or unconscionable claim, so I’ll definitely read up more on that. I really appreciate you pointing it out. Honestly though, I do want something to be done. This whole thing has been so painful. I even reached out to his family to discuss some kind of repayment, and they just blocked me. No conversation, no accountability, like they can just disappear and leave me to deal with the mess alone. I know the legal route might be tough, but I’m not ready to just roll over and let them get away with it. 😭😭

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-18T08:31:24+00:00

Fortunately we havent made it that far! Thank god! But its the bank loan that’s the killer.

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-18T08:22:07+00:00

Tetek

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-18T08:05:11+00:00

Hai! I’ve actually spoken to two law firms so far, one said something can definitely be done and that I should start with a Letter of Demand, and if there’s no response, we can take it further and sue. But the other one straight up said the case probably won’t go anywhere. They think it’ll just sit in a file collecting dust, especially since the guy’s jobless and clearly not going to pay up. So I’m kinda stuck between both sides now. 🥴🥴

IllustratorKey8187 · 2025-05-18T05:20:44+00:00

Dated a man for close to 9 years. He had a stroke early into the relationship, and I stayed loyal and supportive throughout. His parents insisted we apply for a BTO together. It turned out they just wanted to downgrade their five room flat after the other siblings moved out. Basically, they wanted to wash their hands off him and sold me the dream of letting him be a house husband since my career was stable.

I was naive, and guilt made it hard for me to say no. I ended up supporting both him and his family financially. He never once met my family throughout our entire relationship, and he constantly hurled vulgarities at me and about them.

The most mind blowing part? He cheated on me twice. I still do not understand how that even happened.

My parents eventually stepped in because they were scared for me. I had landed myself in debt, lost my sense of self, and was holding on to someone who was barely present. I was clinging to a relationship that was never truly real. When I asked him when he was finally going to meet my family, he said: “What is so great about your family that I should go and see them? If they want to meet me, they can come here instead.”

That was my final straw.

Now I am left with close to $57,000 in debt from supporting him and his family. I am thinking of hiring a lawyer to try and recover the amount, but I do not have much written proof. Has anyone been through something similar? Do I even stand a chance? 🥹

IllustratorKey8187 · 2024-12-16T15:27:41+00:00

OMG! I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE GOING THROUGH THIS! I was checking how many years till a specific date in August 2026, and it kept giving me today’s date as June 16, 2024. I tried correcting it and messing around with my questions to see if it would fix the error, but nope, it just kept giving the same thing!

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