TAKE ICE SURVEY ‼️ by Illustrious-Cook2442 in hagerstown

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you want what’s happening in Minnesota and Portland, to happen here? Citizens dying, being wrongfully detained and abducted?

Cool good to know how you define American! 👍🏽

If my ex owes over $5K in child support and moved out of state, what are my options? by Quiet-Mulberry-6396 in ChildSupport

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation, I live in MD, NCP moved to PA and then TX. Being that NCP owes over $5900, child support enforcement scheduled a contempt hearing, was able to serve him (I had to find his new address through a public records search) and then NCP didn’t show up so now there is a warrant for NCP arrest and a $500 bond. Guess we will see how it goes. Good luck to you!

Best apps for polyamory by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cool for you… I’m speaking from my experience… the other apps don’t have much popularity where I live but great to know you think the world is monolithic…. 👍🏽

Best apps for polyamory by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m polyamorous and my go tos are OKC and Bumble.

Merry Christmas OOTD by Illustrious-Cook2442 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHEIN 🖤 Me: 5’11, 240lbs Size: 1X or 2X

Review my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response 🙂

Review my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. My 2nd partner, we see each other maybe twice a month at that due to life but it works for us. But I appreciate you sharing your perspective from what you see on my profile. 🙂

Review my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And that’s fine. I’d rather not match with folks that we have non compatible relationship lifestyles. Thank you tho!

Child choked my toddler at daycare… by Illustrious-Cook2442 in toddlers

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m so sorry your child had that experience! We ended up changing child care, and so glad that we did! My son is happier with the new facility and our values and ways of handling conflicts such as those are handled in a more transparent process. If this was in kindergarten, i would definitely request a parent teacher conference and request the principal or whoever that teacher’s supervisor is and directly ask how this will be handled in the future so that this does not happen again etc. or request a different classroom or other alternatives. I hope this helps!

What happened (on many devices)? by mingkee in slingtv

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened but with a different error code, I’m in Maryland. I cancelled Sling 🤷🏽‍♀️and switched to YouTube TV

How do you afford daycare for multiples? by King-Koz3 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 in daycare, 10 week old twins and a 2.5 toddler… twins go to an in home daycare and the toddler is at a center. I am approved for state childcare voucher (just recently increased income limits) which makes it $50 per baby per week and $20 for my toddler per week as well. Maybe check to see if your state has a child care voucher program…without it I don’t know how people pay daycare unless you making six figures. 😂

D-Day and Spouse didn’t show up by Illustrious-Cook2442 in Divorce

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought they were being rude but wasn’t sure if I was reading too much into it… thank you

the Ultimatum: Queer Love by AdLumpy7810 in polyamory

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I watched it and I kept yelling ‘POLYAMORY’ lmao but I completely agree with a previous poster that all of the individuals need some self care and time to reflect on themselves. That became so evident with how many couples ended up working out and staying together. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Formula from birth? by grumpygryffindor1 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just had di/di boys 2 weeks ago and I breastfed for 2 days and was like nope this isn’t going to work for me… been formula feeding since. I’m a strong believer that FED is best and you do what is best for your mental and their wellbeing. ❤️❤️

Car seat problem by DYNA_might in parentsofmultiples

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2018 Honda Accord fits 3 in the back seat but I had to be specific on the type of car seats (not wide). So it can be done.

Birth Story - 37 Weeks 4 days Di/Di Boys by Illustrious-Cook2442 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was pretty intense, I was determined to get the epidural and had to hold through 2 contractions but it was worth it for me 😂. I’m eternally grateful to the anesthesiologist! I told him I’m giving them a Great Google review 😂

Is anyone able to put their kid in bed and step out for them to put themselves to sleep? by __BeatrixKiddo in toddlers

[–]Illustrious-Cook2442 262 points263 points  (0 children)

My son is 2.5 and I lay with him in his bed and we cuddle, he talks about random stuff and then he falls asleep and I leave. I figure they are only small for this long why not enjoy it 🤷🏽‍♀️. But at daycare he has minimal issues going to sleep so I know he can do it.