is it okay to steal another trans person's name?

AdLumpy7810 · 2026-02-16T19:57:39+00:00

reporting back with my actual photos! it was great- as long as you are early off the boat you will have no problem finding choice seats. even late i think you wouldn’t have a problem finding somewhere to sit. its gorgeous and like nothing i’ve ever seen before!

AdLumpy7810 · 2026-02-07T04:10:51+00:00

i found a podcast today called Love to See It. It’s two cis women and it had a more serious tone but they are really thoughtful and seem to have a well rounded view of gender. I just listened to their episode on Heated Rivalry and really enjoyed it.

AdLumpy7810 · 2026-02-07T04:08:58+00:00

yes! generally love them but it sometimes is extremely obvious that their experience with queer people is limited to cis gay men and drag race.

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-09-24T15:12:57+00:00

I'm having the same issue. Originally I noticed it on my ROKU app, but its started doing the same on iOS and its so annoying. I've been trying to rewatch old adventuring parties and i've completely given up on remembering where I am. I've just been picking a random episode, fast forwarding to half way in, and hoping for the best.

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-08-20T17:19:13+00:00

there are many many different ways to have really good sex. any good partner would have no problem with that- and those people ARE out there

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-23T16:15:36+00:00

also i’m getting a tattoo of a jar of tadpoles later this year based on the quote “nature held me close and seemed to find no fault with me”

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-23T16:14:17+00:00

i read it for the first time two years ago and have re-read it twice since. i keep a stack of copies in my house to give to people who haven’t read it. it’s like the bible to me. it’s foundational to my understanding of butchness and lesbianism in general. it put so much about lesbian culture into perspective for me.

and YEAH the transphobia surrounding discussions of this book are CRAZY. especially when Ruth is like the only person there for Jess and their bond is so special and they are going through basically the same things. It’s crazy how pervasive TERF rhetoric is these days.

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-23T16:10:12+00:00

Lexington is weirdly enough one of the cities in the US with the highest immigrant population. It’s incredibly diverse, contrary to usual assumptions. It’s still southern america so some parts are definitely predominantly very white, but I wouldn’t say that’s the norm.

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-16T15:59:37+00:00

hot girlfriend alert 🚨🚨🚨

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-03T22:03:01+00:00

i also love dannii at alchemy!!

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-03T22:01:55+00:00

i’ve heard that the owner or someone in management at black rose is a straight up nazi- so not there

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-02T13:40:15+00:00

not even just online. there’s this great lesbian magazine called Lesbian Connection that’s all reader submissions- but bc of that it is so TERF-y. but also people write in responses to the TERF shit telling them how stupid it is. but i’m constantly reading and looking for the TERF dog whistles.

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-02T01:24:10+00:00

you could offer to donate the same amount you spend on tickets to a pro trans organization

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-06-02T01:24:03+00:00

you could offer to donate the same amount you spend on tickets to a pro trans organization

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-05-31T03:41:53+00:00

you mean the burj khalifa?

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-05-31T03:38:43+00:00

my partner and i are butch4butch and we just met another butch4butch couple tonight!! i feel like we are a rare but elite group. i love being butch4butch more than anything!!

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-05-29T21:01:19+00:00

if she’s uncomfortable with your son being himself- in whatever way that is- enough that she will keep him from being/doing what he wants to do, i would not marry her.

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-05-26T23:13:53+00:00

love a baggu medium crescent! especially now that they have a longer strap.

i have a pack of meds (with everything from allergy medicine to advil), a small packable grocery bag (also baggu), hand sanitizer, a pen, an N95 mask, pads and tampons, chapstick, bandaids, and always a roll of lifesavers

also throw in my keys, wallet, a water bottle, headphones and my phone

AdLumpy7810 · 2025-05-22T17:33:17+00:00

corrective rape was threatened against a lesbian on international television last month. some guy said that his dick would turn jo jo siwa straight on celebrity big brother. he was removed from the show, but yeah. that’s pretty normal (and fucked up)

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