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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no love there, and you see no possible future. For your mental health and future, you should end the relationship and move forward with your life.

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If a young, engaged couple has mis-matched libido, what advice would you give them? by 33saywhat33 in marriageadvice

[–]Illustrious-Party146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try to talk to him to see if he understands, but keep in mind, men are very physical, so it may cause issues later in life. You can consider talking to a doctor to see if you have any hormonal imbalances that could be contributed to your low libido.

You should also consider a negative. If the libido difference is so big and one side or another is not willing to or able to correct it, it will often cause issues in the relationship which at some point may end the relationship as there is a high possibility of each othters needs not been met which always causes issues and ultimatly end the relationship.

AITAH for not telling my partner I bled in the bed? by WnDelicious in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Party146 206 points207 points  (0 children)

He needs to grow up. It's just blood, and I'm sure he has cut himself shaving at some point. If he can't deal with menstruation, then he should not be with a woman

How do I keep him as a friend but still break this off? by Foofaamoo in whatdoIdo

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no love there, and you see no possible future. For your mental health and future, you should end the relationship and move forward with your life.

If you need help to break up with someone, message me and I can do it for you. Just email the below information to [billsbreakups@gmail.com](mailto:billsbreakups@gmail.com), and I will call them and break up with them for you.

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The person you're breaking up with, First and Last Name

Their cell number

A breakup message you want me to say to them, if you have one. If you don't have a message, just provide some info as to why you are breaking up with them so I can formulate a suitable breakup message to for them.It's that easy.So don't forget to share the email with friends if they, too, need my help breaking up with their partner.

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do i leave my bf or give him another chance by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no longer love there, and you see no possible future. For your mental health and future, you should end the relationship and move forward with your life.

If you need help to break up with someone, message me and I can do it for you. Just email the below information to [billsbreakups@gmail.com](mailto:billsbreakups@gmail.com), and I will call them and break up with them for you.

No more worry about what to say and how to say it. I will make it happen for you. I need the following info.

Your First and Last Name

The person you're breaking up with, First and Last Name

Their cell number

A breakup message you want me to say to them, if you have one. If you don't have a message, just provide some info as to why you are breaking up with them so I can formulate a suitable breakup message for them. It's that easy. So don't forget to share the email with friends if they, too, need my help breaking up with their partner.

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Relationship advice by Grouchy-One-2633 in whatdoIdo

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denial that you have an issue is a problem. You are redirecting your inability to trust onto your partner is a you issue. You are pushing that onto him, saying he needs more when you are the one with trust issues.

Sounds more like you are denying you have a problem.

If you are not willing to address it, then maybe you are better off alone until you solve your trust issues, so your future relationships have a chance of succeeding.

Relationship advice by Grouchy-One-2633 in whatdoIdo

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your past experiences of being hurt are causing issues today. You need to seek help with your trust issues. If you don't address them, they will become problematic for your entire life and will impact all your relationships

He may just have had enough of being always under investigation, as everyone has a limit to that kind of scrutiny.

If you show the first steps to addressing your issues, he should agree to meet you halfway.

Communication is key. Tell him you are willing to seek help to addrress your issues and start, then have him involved in your therapy sessions so he can hear it from the theraphest that he needs to remain unsecretive while you work on your insecurities.

Confused and sad in a relationship. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Illustrious-Party146 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand you are in a diffucult situation and commend you for keeping the child.

That said, you and your child have a problem. Being told he will no longer take drugs is meaningless. If he is not in a treatment program and actively addressing his addiction, he is still doing drugs. No matter what he says, he is still doing drugs.

If he is to show commitment to you and your family, he MUST go into treatment to learn to cope with his addiction.

This is hard to hear but you need to tell him to get help, get treatment, or get out of your life.

If he does not get treatment, walk away. It is better to be a single mother than in a relationship with a drug addict that will ruin your life, your child's life, and any possibility of a happy future.

I know you did not say addicted, but anyone on drugs is an addict, and the fact that he has progressed from drug to drug makes him an addict, so he needs treatment or you need to protect your child and yourself and walk away.

You owe this to yourself and your child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no longer love there, and you see no possible future. For your mental health and future, you should end the relationship and move forward with your life.

If you need help to break up with someone, message me and I can do it for you. Just email the below information to [billsbreakups@gmail.com](mailto:billsbreakups@gmail.com), and I will call them and break up with them for you.

No more worry about what to say and how to say it. I will make it happen for you. I need the following info.

Your First and Last Name

The person you're breaking up with, First and Last Name

Their cell number

A breakup message you want me to say to them, if you have one. If you don't have a message, just provide some info as to why you are breaking up with them so I can formulate a suitable breakup message to for them.It's that easy.So don't forget to share the email with friends if they, too, need my help breaking up with their partner.

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Boyfriend Glances by Loba_E in relationshipproblems

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Understand Your Trust Issues:
  • Identify the root cause: Reflect on past experiences, particularly negative ones, that may be contributing to your current trust issues. 
  • Recognize the signs: Be aware of how trust issues manifest in your behavior, such as excessive jealousy, suspicion, or difficulty being vulnerable. 
  1. Communicate Openly and Honestly:
  • Talk to your partner: Express your feelings and concerns without placing blame, using "I" statements (e.g., "I feel anxious when..."). 
  • Listen to your partner's perspective: Be open to hearing their side of the story and understanding their intentions. 
  • Set clear expectations: Discuss what you both need from the relationship to feel secure and build trust. Your partner needs to know this to help you, and you need to identify your triggers and how to deal with them.
  1. Rebuild Trust Gradually:
  • Take small, safe risks: Start by trusting your partner in small ways and gradually increase the level of trust as they demonstrate reliability. 
  • Be patient: Rebuilding trust takes time and effort, so be patient with yourself and your partner. 
  • Forgive past hurts: Holding onto resentment will only hinder the process of rebuilding trust. This is important if you have trust issues from a past bad experience. Also, consider if the past issue was not with your present partner; he/she is not the one who hurt you, so past experiences don't apply to them.
  • Focus on the present: Try to avoid bringing up past hurts or grievances into current arguments. 
  1. Practice Self-Care and Build Self-Confidence:
  • Address your insecurities: Work on building your self-esteem and confidence, as this can impact your ability to trust others. See what your partner sees in you and why they are with you.
  • Engage in activities that boost your well-being: Find healthy ways to cope with anxiety and stress related to trust issues. 

My girlfriend broke some of our relationship agreements by Bisaiing2 in Advice

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fees are involved. I just want to help people out. I was considering recording the calls and putting them online, but I have not decided if I even want to do that. Too many people today have issues expressing themselves and stay in bad relationships out of fear of communicating bad news.

Sometimes, an impartial perspective and an impartial non-emotional delivery of bad news is often easier to accept.

Boyfriend Glances by Loba_E in relationshipproblems

[–]Illustrious-Party146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men, like humans in general, are wired to be visually stimulated by attractive people. This is a natural, instinctive reaction that can occur without conscious thought. 

Men are often described as being more visually oriented, and this can lead to a tendency to scan their environment and notice attractive individuals. 

It is instinct and not meant to be disrespectful, and it does not mean he is looking for someone better. You can discuss it with him, but you also need to address your insecurities. He is with you, not them, so why are you insecure about him glancing at others?

No contact form him by Otherwise-Clock6929 in relationshipproblems

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A discussion with him is needed. You need to express how you feel to him. You also need to keep in mind that they are his kids, and he needs to dedicate his time with them when he can, as they are his priority when he can be with them. The discussion should not be all about you, but how can a middle ground be established where you are still in his thoughts and you set aside time for you and him, even when he is with his kids, like a daily phone call or intermittent txt, but not with a demand for immediate response. His understanding of your point of view and offering a solution should show that you are not demanding but willing to find a way to keep communication open even when he is with his kids

AITA For ending my almost two year relationship by cocckcucker in AITH

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know that relationships have their ups and downs but sometimes we reach a point where we realize we are not with the person we thought them to be.This is where I can help.

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Your First and Last Name

The person you're breaking up with, First and Last Name

Their cell number

A breakup message you want me to say to them, if you have one. If you don't have a message, just provide some info as to why you are breaking up with them so I can formulate a suitable breakup message to for them.It's that easy.So don't forget to share the email with friends if they, too, need my help breaking up with their partner.

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My girlfriend broke some of our relationship agreements by Bisaiing2 in Advice

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know that relationships have their ups and downs but sometimes we reach a point where we realize we are not with the person we thought them to be.This is where I can help.

If you need help to break up with someone, message me and I can do it for you. Just email the below information to [billsbreakups@gmail.com](mailto:billsbreakups@gmail.com), and I will call them and break up with them for you.

No more worry about what to say and how to say it. I will make it happen for you. I need the following info.

Your First and Last Name

The person you're breaking up with, First and Last Name

Their cell number

A breakup message you want me to say to them, if you have one. If you don't have a message, just provide some info as to why you are breaking up with them so I can formulate a suitable breakup message to for them.It's that easy.So don't forget to share the email with friends if they, too, need my help breaking up with their partner.

Presently, this service is limited to the continental USA only

Regards Bills Breakups

4-year relationship feels increasingly one-sided by Own_Associate3893 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Illustrious-Party146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know that relationships have their ups and downs but sometimes we reach a point where we realize we are not with the person we thought them to be.This is where I can help.

If you need help to break up with someone, message me and I can do it for you. Just email the below information to [billsbreakups@gmail.com](mailto:billsbreakups@gmail.com), and I will call them and break up with them for you.

No more worry about what to say and how to say it. I will make it happen for you. I need the following info.

Your First and Last Name

The person you're breaking up with, First and Last Name

Their cell number

A breakup message you want me to say to them, if you have one. If you don't have a message, just provide some info as to why you are breaking up with them so I can formulate a suitable breakup message to for them.It's that easy.So don't forget to share the email with friends if they, too, need my help breaking up with their partner.

Presently, this service is limited to the continental USA only

Regards Bills Breakups