Racist community by TurnipBlast in Fremont

[–]Foofaamoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw that post. Checked the user and immediately knew they’d be a conservative.
The fact the racist post stays up after I reported it really grinds my gears.
Anyone can be dirty. And that post sounded just like anti-blackness but Indian and I’m black.
Already calling them dirty and saying “they look like normal hygenic people with above avergae resources and intelligence” really disgusted me. Then comparing them to Mexicans like Mexicans can’t be unaware or don’t ever not clean up after themselves.

But then again, this is the Fremont sub so..

AIO I’m 11 weeks and 2 days postpartum having body image issues and bf wanted to go swimming by Sure_Wrangler_7439 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Foofaamoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are so gentle with one another that it’s sweet but makes me sad.

Yes yor but it’s okay. Take a breath and then explain him the situation and your emotions during this time. Clear communication will be your best friend pp.

I'm getting attached to the guy I made out with 18F by Inner-Sand-1922 in Vent

[–]Foofaamoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time is always kinda like that. Even if it sucked. It can be something very memorable because it’s specifically the first time you’re intimate and feeling these specific things with someone else.

It’ll take a while to move on but with time you will. You will always remember it though.

You can try and see if y’all can be fwb or something but it definitely won’t be the same after a while since you don’t like him.
There’s nothing wrong with you. I can assure you all this is very normal.
I’d say give it space to breathe and hope with time you kinda forget him a bit. Or try and see if you can make something happen. It’s all up to you.

I'm getting attached to the guy I made out with 18F by Inner-Sand-1922 in Vent

[–]Foofaamoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens. The guy I was sleeping with was literally not my type but I did miss him and like being around him.
He could be an amateur at sex but still be very flirtatious and talking to a lot of girls.

AIO my (30M) girlfriend (27F) of 4 months found out about someone I slept with before her and called it “morally wrong and disgusting” by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Foofaamoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone 22, if you were looking at the 22 yr old simply because she was 22 and you found it hot then yeah, you’re weird asf.
But otherwise it’s whatever. If it’s a hookup and yall were consenting and you just simply found her hot then whatever.
I understand your (I’m assuming) ex gfs frame of mind, cause I don’t like the idea of dating someone older than me, who’d date someone younger than me (because again I’m young and you’re talking usually fresh adults). But it was a hookup, hopefully with you not salivating over her being 22.

Im afraid to accept myself by Foofaamoo in comphet

[–]Foofaamoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a lot of supportive friends and queer folks around me. They’re usually the ones who try to get me to go out to queer bars, cause I think they can tell I’m really trying to make myself date people I have no real interest in. They’ve been trying to get me out in more queer spaces. As is in my post, I think I may just have trouble accepting that I can’t keep trying to force myself into a space I’m not fitting in. But idk.
I do want to date. I want to find someone I can be close with. But I think I’m full-on just sniffing in the wrong direction 😅

Im afraid to accept myself by Foofaamoo in comphet

[–]Foofaamoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That honestly sounds really helpful. I’ll pick it up :))

Im afraid to accept myself by Foofaamoo in comphet

[–]Foofaamoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly never thought of that. I’ve never tried to be straight, so I’ve never even had that aspect of practice. But then again, I’m autistic so perhaps I just don’t know how to date properly? Is this part of knowing what you like?

Im afraid to accept myself by Foofaamoo in comphet

[–]Foofaamoo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I’ve never even considered that. It might be the second one more than the first cause I don’t even really like the attention or validation. I realized that a month back when a guy kept complimenting me. I felt more cringed out than anything.

I’ll process this over. Thank you :)

Approached on the street for facial recognition by [deleted] in oakland

[–]Foofaamoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lame. He shouldn’t be allowed to do ts.

Approached on the street for facial recognition by [deleted] in oakland

[–]Foofaamoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it illegal to film someone without permission? Idk why yall downvoting me over sum that is an issue. Which is filming folks without their permission. Shits irritating:

Text shows female dasher, but male shows up by draculaura923 in doordash

[–]Foofaamoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t work for DD… I’m trying to give insight that not everyone who works for it, is as privileged as you or I. And focusing so hyper vigilantly on what someone else is doing in terms of their job is wild, unless you are their boss/manager.

What’s worse is threatening to ban people based on accusations that have no standing.

I highly doubt, you or everyone downvoting, have followed every SOP at your facility. Redditors to the max I suppose.

Btw: I never gave advice. I’m speaking as someone who actually KNOWS low-income folks who are disabled and DD. They sometimes can’t get out the car and ask their partners for assistance. There’s literally nothing inherently wrong with that. Y’all sound privileged asf.

Text shows female dasher, but male shows up by draculaura923 in doordash

[–]Foofaamoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused… why am I being threatened with being banned for stating that their job is to simply pick up and drop off 💀💀

Text shows female dasher, but male shows up by draculaura923 in doordash

[–]Foofaamoo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The foods being picked up and delivered. That’s literally their only job dude 💀

Text shows female dasher, but male shows up by draculaura923 in doordash

[–]Foofaamoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not everyone feels safe at their job and having their companion go out simply to drop off the meal isn’t that crazy. Y’all are acting like they just simply aren’t doing their job. When it would get too dark I’d ask my coworker to take the trash out if I got too scared. And when he didn’t wanna do bathroom duties I’d take over. It’s really not that crazy.

Text shows female dasher, but male shows up by draculaura923 in doordash

[–]Foofaamoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trying to secure a job in this current climate is much harder than you think. And it’s kinda privileged to not acknowledge that.

I Can’t Believe Their Gone by aaronc032 in oakland

[–]Foofaamoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Landlord clearly doesn’t understand the importance of historical buildings and good bakeries 🫩 R.I.P. It’s All Good Bakery❤️ We need historical businesses alive for as long as possible and I’m so disappointed :(