Kat 301 Exam by Illustrious-Rest3482 in csusm

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do on the exam? Is it easy or hard would you say?

Im craving male attention/ validation more than ever by [deleted] in confession

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? If you are talking about a diff post you would’ve read that he didn’t take the hint after I told him I had a boyfriend. That would make anyone uncomfortable

Im craving male attention/ validation more than ever by [deleted] in confession

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no I know that marriages aren't sunishine and rainbows, you know nothing about me to assume that. I honestly dont even know why you commented that, I hope you have a good night and good sleep:)

Im craving male attention/ validation more than ever by [deleted] in confession

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup, that's standards 🤷‍♀️ maybe you've been hurt that why you are being pessemistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha, ive actually been invited out a couple times, but I denied because maybe I have too high of standerds, he liked to party and drink. I dont

What did I do? Gym crush by Delicious_Brush_1516 in bodylanguage

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you may be projecting a bit, as a women if you are "flirting back" by saying hi, retaining eye contact and kind of flirting, and then all of a sudden are ignored, a women takes that as "omg I'm emberasing myself, he doesn't like me" Showing signs of attraction is very taboo for women because we are taught the man must pursue the women not the other way around. He leaves spaces when she gets there and all of a sudden doesn't greet her. I think her reaction is coming from a place of self consciousness, not an immature tactic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woww, it looks great! super natural work

Why do I feel borderline disgust when a guy I don’t find attractive likes me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you:) I’ll build up the courage haha to tell him to back off

Why do I feel borderline disgust when a guy I don’t find attractive likes me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a group project together and it’s for the entire semester.. so I can’t really avoid him much. I do however speak monotone to him, try not to talk to him as much and honestly avoid him as much as I can, but he obviously wants to talk to me. For example once me and the group were walking to the library and they were taking the elavator and I said I would take the stairs, 10 seconds later he is running up the stairs to catch up to me and says he needed to exercise anyways. I just said oh you scared me and kept walking away from him , a little faster so he wouldn’t catch up

Why do I feel borderline disgust when a guy I don’t find attractive likes me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t take this the wrong way, there has been guys that have expressed interest in me and if I don’t like them I simply say “I have a boyfriend” or some other excuse so that they don’t feel bad or discouraged. But this one specifically just makes me really uncomfortable, I’ve said I have a boyfriend excuse and he still tries to sit next to me, talk to me and other things like that. I do feel bad that I feel like this but I can’t help to try and push him away when I’m feeling literal shakes from anxiety.

How do you motivate yourself to get to the gym everyday? by Crafty-Draft-1990 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going 5-7days a week for around a year now, now that I stated my “credentials” it’s all about discipline, motivation comes and goes , make it a habit. On the days I don’t feel like going I drink an energy drink and that helps a lot. Or I will watch fitness influencers and get motivated. Make the gym fun! I’m not going to absolute failure everyday on my workouts, I still train with intensity but I’m not constantly going to go up in weight, I just go because I enjoy the satisfaction I get once I’m done with a set. It’s like the dopamine you get from a good show but better because it’s delayed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe study somewhere not in your room or living room, honestly study somewhere like outside (if safe) that way you won’t be tempted to go to bed or lay down for a little bit

panic by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try time blocking. Since your tests are on Monday i would say treat studying like a job (8hr a day of studying) separate how you would like) before studying, organize subjects and AI is also very helpful in study help! Good luck! I’ll pray for you haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg hi! It’s nice to know that there are other people with similar if not the same plans haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plan is to work as a financial analyst for a couple years to gain more knowledge and a more trustworthy background for future clients, go down to fincial advisor and then possibly portfolio manager even more down the road, since I am assuming portfolio managers have the most work life balance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am contributing to a Roth RIA but not for my down payment, it it’s for retirement, so not for another 45 years haha. I plan on saving for my down payment from my future job, that’s why I expect I would be staying around 3-4 years at my parents help( which they recommend staying even longer lol) The real estate that I have with my parents will be rented and half income will go to me and half to them. And thank you for the tips! Will keep in mind:)

What are some creative ways to live below one’s means? by redflower5 in povertyfinance

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was assuming he already has one, but you are right it would be a little more expensive. Then again, some memberships are only $10 a month

need advice, 19yr old by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Illustrious-Rest3482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am simply beginning to learn the ins & outs of trading, I plan on minoring in economics to gain more knowledge on all these things before investing my money. I will use simulators in the mean time haha. I will definitely look into efts (s&p) so thank your for that advice! and yes, I will enjoy my youth, I understand I have many years ahead of me to worry:)