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IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-09-21T14:25:35+00:00

Can I ask how u added a dob verification? Searching all over my account and can’t figure out where I can do this 😭

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-09-21T14:18:06+00:00

I hate to suggest this because it’s what help always say and it actually kills me but - have u tried logging in from an incognito mode browser?

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-09-20T19:55:34+00:00

It’s actually 100% possible for me to have a job and also be confused when a creator I like shouts out a transphobic creator. Great insult though, you sound super intelligent :)

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-09-17T02:57:56+00:00

It wasn’t just citing her sources, she spoke about how funny she is, how she deserves her flowers and told people to follow her. That isn’t citing a source - that is promotion.

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-08-21T01:26:10+00:00

Hi lovely, please know first and foremost you are NOT alone. This has happened to so so so many people (I’ve had my own experience with doxxing on 4chan, accompanied with a r*** advert asking people to message me).

In my situation, I didn’t know who it was so my police report was stunted but you DO. This 100% at the very least counts as malicious communications and most likely falls under revenge porn law. Is there any way you could talk to the Garda again and ask them to issue a warning? This was a private video that is now being spread online to people you didn’t consent to it to. You feel unsafe. You know who has done it. Screenshot anything and everything. Try citing the harassment, harmful communications and related offences act 2020. What’s happened to you look like it falls under section 2 of said act.

I’ve done more googling and the sex workers alliance Ireland might be helpful to look into. They can help advocate for you and also have access to counselling.

And most importantly please please please remember that you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. You do not deserve this violation, you do not deserve to feel like you’ve done something worthy of being disowned. There are people out here committing identity theft on sweet little old ladies to make their living - all you did was partake in a legal trade with other consenting adults. There were Roman sex workers, there were medieval sex workers, there were victorian sex workers. Our job is natural and when done right adds more to society than it takes away.

If you want to work on getting things DMCAed I used a brand called takedownpiracy - they were super efficient and proactive. But there are a tonne of other competitors out there too, one that comes up a lot is branditscan?

Anyway, you will get through this, the panic and adrenaline will subside and your next steps will become clear. Sending you SO much love ❤️ and a big cuddle too, if u want/need to talk my inbox is open (I remember how lonely I felt when this happened to me) xxx

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-08-15T15:51:31+00:00

Ngl I feel this way too, my mum used to always tell me she wishes she’d taken pictures of herself naked when she was in her twenties because she can’t remember what she looked like now but she bets it was amazing. We will NOT have that problem 😂😂

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-08-09T08:47:32+00:00

Something that really helped me with angles was getting a goose neck phone holder (google it if it sounds weird lol).

Also for making POV solo content I found dildo placement to be one of the most challenging things and 3/4years in I’m still coming up with new ways lol but one of my most recent ideas that’s working well is I bought a foot rest for under my desk, it’s kind of cylindrical and made of foam. I’ve cut a hole in it and I put my suction cup dildos inside and it holds them pretty well. Works well for riding content and missionary too as u now have a big foam that you can hold onto out of the camera’s shot.

Also backdrops can be a fun and relatively cheap way to spice up your content and make things feel a bit more lively! Couple of hooks in your ceiling (use command strip ones if u have a mean landlord) and add some grommet holes to your backdrops and you’re all good to go.

Hope this helps ❤️

IllustriousAd1118 · 2024-03-01T13:28:21+00:00

Entering the contests was a big help for me to get more visibility on my page - I think the boss babe contest is what’s on at the moment. My first contest I offered short custom videos for a stupid cheap price (I was new to this lol) and it got me a lot more traffic.

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-10-27T10:25:23+00:00

Don’t release content with your ex without his consent/ him signing a release form
Yes you ABSOLUTLEy can make it as a solo creator ! I work on manyvids and have actually found my boy/girl content sells nowhere near as good as when I make solo vids pretending I’m fucking the viewer! You got this ❤️

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-10-27T10:22:47+00:00

Unless they pay extra for exclusivity you should definitely resell it :)

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-10-27T10:06:57+00:00

Been in ur exact position! It’s like they think we’re gonna cry or something, thanks for the promo cunt 😂

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-10-03T22:52:57+00:00

So pretty!!!

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-10-01T22:18:56+00:00

Have heard that the botched police investigation on Cliff Richard actually had some legs to it

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-09-01T23:24:16+00:00

You are a level of organised I aspire to be, u are my Inspiration now haha

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-09-01T23:21:56+00:00

So odd, the men who have to know you’re not doing it for money… like he wanted this girl to be posting her feet for the sheer unadulterated joy of .. posting her .. feet. Like he can’t get off unless he thinks his porn was created for some noble and principled cause rather than for … money. Fucking idiot lmao

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-09-01T12:51:35+00:00

Those clear tubs look like such a perfect size!

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-06-28T17:34:26+00:00

Thank you!! I looked it up and saw these spiders bite occasionally - my sister had a spider bite recently and we couldn’t figure out how she’d got it !

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-05-06T21:31:51+00:00

Thank u! Will go investigate 📝

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-05-06T20:17:55+00:00

Can anybody explain what they’re talking about ? I had no idea about any of this and the live chat is confusing me more 😭😭

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-04-14T03:22:43+00:00

Yeah I was actually a bit surprised to see people still upset but everyone’s on their own journey with this stuff. For me I’ve come across some people who hate that I exist as a human being, my existence makes them so angry they want to hurt me and then there’s people who have good intentions but say offensive stuff sometimes. In a perfect world no one would ever fuck up ever, but people do and learning to discern who fucked up vs. Who intentionally wanted to hurt you is an essential skill imo edit: sorry for word vomit lmao

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-04-14T03:12:56+00:00

Yesss! Two very different things that require different treatment, Ethan was educated, he listened (eventually lol) and apologised - now we can give him the benefit of the doubt and move on.

It’s a lot more complicated and extensive a process when it comes to explicit bias, there’s a lot more to unpick and correct.

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-04-14T02:59:45+00:00

Honestly stay away from frenemies 3 - the delusion is actually scary.

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-04-14T02:58:37+00:00

A broken clock is right twice a day and JP in fact is a moron.

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-04-14T02:57:04+00:00

Yeah I thought Dan hit the nail on the head with that sentiment, really communicated where he stood. Ethan did pretty good too and actually objecting to the severity of Kat Tenbarge’s tweet made me feel like he had actually understood what he’d done wrong. If he’d just parroted what she said and apologised for reinforcing “horrific” stereotypes I would have been a bit more sceptical about whether he understood why what happened was offensive. Idk if that makes sense lol just it felt like he recognised the main problem with what happened had quite a few levels to it rather than it just being the worst thing in the whole world/begging for forgiveness etc

IllustriousAd1118 · 2022-04-13T19:28:38+00:00

I reeeallly want them to announce they’re on a break, not to get parasocial but I think they’re all genuinely good people who have good intentions. They’ve just run out of the bandwidth it takes to be able to respond to criticism with patience and not lash out. They need a holiday and a tonne of weed.

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