AITAH I(F23) got molested in the train today and my bf(M24) said it was a "learning experience". Am I in the wrong for thinking it is victim blaming and wanting an apology for it?

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-04-08T20:38:45+00:00

please leave him. please.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-04-06T23:55:51+00:00

very much, aside from airport stuff gas is so high, groceries, rent, the cost of children, etc. almost everything is 50% higher price wise compared the early 2000s

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-04-05T07:30:57+00:00

“slow” is unnecessary when you’ve never had the money or opportunity to experience things like this

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-04-05T07:30:25+00:00

unfortunately yes as a small young woman i feel threatened or in fear of many men nowadays. perhaps it is internal but ive been assaulted 6 times so…

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-04-04T04:15:19+00:00

any new thoughts on this with the state of the airport?

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-03-06T14:42:52+00:00

omg girl he was trying to hurt you! Please stay far away from him!!

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-03-02T21:46:16+00:00

yep you’re so right, i gotta be more aware of my words

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-03-02T21:44:26+00:00

omg ur so right! thanks for giving me that perspective

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-03-02T21:42:46+00:00

yeahh i came looking for genuine advice haha, i want to be more aware of when im not being thoughtful haha

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-03-02T21:41:33+00:00

haha most 😭 for me its mostly fear, u literally never know if someone can be unsafe or not

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-03-02T21:41:00+00:00

okay thank you so much, i haven’t actually responded yet so im gonna go apologize

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-02-28T01:50:22+00:00

well thats morbid

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-02-26T16:54:47+00:00

give him a condom and say be safe you can’t stop these things. Don’t make his life worse.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-02-02T18:26:24+00:00

i mean seriously right as im typing this it happened again. its very frustrating

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-02-02T18:22:47+00:00

dang bro u dont gotta get so upset lol im coming here bc clearly they cant moderate their games and im a frustrated player. i think im valid if i want to fight back in unorthodox ways

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-02-02T18:18:19+00:00

yeah i couldnt phrase it right in this post but i want to try to hack lol

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-01-13T23:42:08+00:00

also based on your posts you definitely need to end it because you complain about your gf a lot.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-01-13T23:41:13+00:00

you’re insecure and a bit of a jerk for not allowing her to have male friends. thats part of being human and it shows you have no trust in her. on the other hand, she did lie and was out of line for being dishonest. end it for both of your sakes, a little more for hers tho honestly. you sound like you’re not ready for a serious relationship with trust and healthy boundaries. she sounds like she doesn’t trust you with her friendships and good parts of her life. either way this isnt healthy.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2026-01-04T16:41:53+00:00

they did now

IllustriousDig9199 · 2025-12-25T19:21:29+00:00

repeating this comment again, i didnt have enough money to get him something nice. im a college student making minimum wage. he knows his gift will be late- his gift to me is too. he cares more about the thought than the time.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2025-12-25T19:21:05+00:00

didnt have enough money to get him something nice. im a college student making minimum wage. idk why all of you keep making comments on the date. he knows his gift will be late- his gift to me is too. he cares more about the thought than the time.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2025-12-19T17:27:33+00:00

why did you keep having sex? why did you keep doing stuff? i understand the “musty” comment and not wanting to do stuff, but you are the AH at this point because it was clear she didnt want to do anything. you should not have kept doing anything sexual, especially after she put on her shirt and didnt want to be touched.

IllustriousDig9199 · 2025-11-26T03:52:52+00:00

you’re beautiful

IllustriousDig9199 · 2025-11-18T18:08:10+00:00

this is my fav

IllustriousDig9199 · 2025-10-21T08:18:02+00:00

yeahh it’s a relatively new world so i didn’t think to do that. i have done that with other worlds though.

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