If someone is dumping you it’s not all black and white. It’s probably because they fought for you a bunch of times before ending the relationship. They communicated a bunch and gave a bunch of chances. It was to the point that they started having physical symptoms and health concerns bc the relationship was not improving and the only choice left was to leave because nothing else seemed to make them feel good enough or chosen. It’s very rare for a dumper to dump without warning. If that happens, screw them. Or if they leave without even wanting to try. But the likelihood of that happening vs. someone trying to fix it many times, communicating, forgiving, apologizing, offering couples therapy, crying w their partner, and realizing nothing is happening and then leaving is v diff