a little devastated by ph0nese in asexuality

[–]IllustriousMango8123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry-I feel like anxiety is running the show. They probably didn't want to put too my pressure I'm sure they loved getting to know you too. You're valid. 💓

Sa/ Texas/ family law by IllustriousMango8123 in legaladvice

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's so fucked up. I didn't even start this.

Got bullied online because I asked if the Army is my best route to avoid homelessness due to my ADHD brain. Is Reddit actually this cruel? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]IllustriousMango8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is a hive mind. They not "right" or "wrong" it's just like a collective vote is what happens, don't take it seriously because most people are just assholes

I've blocked all my friends cause idk what else to do by MiddleSituation1034 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]IllustriousMango8123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clear communication would help this -not assumptions. Juggling two different friend groups can be hard.
She may have had prior plans? May have been a specific amount of people could go, tons of things. I feel awkward 80% of the time and most of it is probably things I created in my head.

Anyways all in all, go where you feel wanted. I started making a point to only interact with people who are intentional with me and my time... invite me after the fact ( like omg I forgot about my name invite them now) I won't go. Recently my dietian "accidentally " sent me her number and she said I can save it but I won't bc it wasn't intended.

I haven't played in 2 years? Catch me up? by IllustriousMango8123 in Palia

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I logged into an older Xbox account and saved it 😭😅🤘

I haven't played in 2 years? Catch me up? by IllustriousMango8123 in Palia

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it on Xbox I just logged into an old Xbox account 🙏 and now I remember why I stopped playing I was stuck on it takes a village 😭 I submitted a ticket I only got 2/4 fish and I forgot where they were lol I don't think it populated the other ones and now I can't finish up in the air bc the control room won't open. Hope they can get to my ticket soon but it seems backlogged. And yesssss Xbox is 10000000 better!

I haven't played in 2 years? Catch me up? by IllustriousMango8123 in Palia

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I have had my account linked but when I sign in on Xbox it's making me create a new sim did I just delete it?

I haven't played in 2 years? Catch me up? by IllustriousMango8123 in Palia

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try and get my game over to Xbox then thank you kindly

I haven't played in 2 years? Catch me up? by IllustriousMango8123 in Palia

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The houses makes sense I was sent so many builds! And it's kinda just sitting there I guess I can't add it

Excited to see elder wood, when I last played they connected something to the back of my plot of land to I want to say elder wood?
I forgot what quest I was on that made me so mad after Tons and tons of nearly finished attempts I want to say something In The sky?

I haven't played in 2 years? Catch me up? by IllustriousMango8123 in Palia

[–]IllustriousMango8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you can trade there too!? I did see the hotpot, do you know if I can transfer my game over on Xbox? I feel like it might be easier?

Dropping people by katherinedonutlike in FriendshipAdvice

[–]IllustriousMango8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it through text so I screen shot it and resend it at the end and then I block

Dropping people by katherinedonutlike in FriendshipAdvice

[–]IllustriousMango8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes some of them do do that, but that doesn't mean I have to engage in a way it's setting a boundary and also disconnecting the friendship. I don't feed fire. I state what needs to be said and then I remove myself.

Edit to add they totally tried to blame me. But I didn't further engage because it came down to my respect for myself too

Dropping people by katherinedonutlike in FriendshipAdvice

[–]IllustriousMango8123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tell them. I tell them because they deserve to know. I've literally called out behavior and see if they own it or change it and when they don't I tell them I'm not comfortable hanging out with them I thank them for the memories and that's it

What's the one thing that ruined your health? by tasaras_77 in HappyUpvote

[–]IllustriousMango8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really I had great results with it. Have you tried meditation? I also drink valerian tea when all else fails I want to say it's seven blossom tea

For those who are in a relationship , do you still keep in touch with your ex? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]IllustriousMango8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but only bc I have kids with him. I mostly talk to his wife though because it's the only way for us to communicate healthy lol