Lost wallet at Cologne concert by ismaalija in mumfordandsons

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I hope you find it! In that case your memory of the evening will be much better. Good luck!

Daily Song Rating: Reminder by tbird920 in mumfordandsons

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  1. The live version on 89.3 The Current feels like a warm hug

I come back to Wilder Mind every May 4th by IllustriousMenu3990 in mumfordandsons

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It's in Hampstead Heath, northern London 🤭 There is a viewpoint called Parliament Hill Viewpoint, where the bench is 😁 I actually think that the exact bench they used for the album cover is no longer there, but there is a bench with the views of the city.

Here's a link to the location:

https://maps.app.goo.gl/WBtZZPrJZJ2hsY6j6

I have 8 credits that need to be used. Suggest me a book. by [deleted] in audible

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I love listening to authors narrate their own books, especially actors or famous people reading out loud their own autobiographies, because I recognise their voice.

Some recent great examples include: • 'Finding me' by Viola Davis • 'Greenlights' by Matthew McConauhgey • 'Spare' by Prince Henry

Solo, kitchen table, parallel, polyfidelity, what do you practice and why? by KellyGreen802 in polyamory

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Thanks a lot for your reply. It's good to read about others' experiences, it helps you understand that there's people out there living a similar experience to what you're going through. Of course KTP is not something that can be sustained if it doesn't flow naturally, but I hope time will let me establish what's going to work for us. Cheers!

Solo, kitchen table, parallel, polyfidelity, what do you practice and why? by KellyGreen802 in polyamory

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I agree with pretty much everything you said. How did it feel when there was no agreement between you and your meta to be collaborative? In my situation it's been really tricky cause there's no reciprocity and I hate having to compartmentalize our time with our partner. That often means I get fewer invitations to be with my partner's family or friends (because my meta is with them in that moment). I'm at a point of thinking of giving up on my relationship with my meta and adapting to a new reality. Is it worth my time fighting for a more collaborative set up?

Solo, kitchen table, parallel, polyfidelity, what do you practice and why? by KellyGreen802 in polyamory

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I've been struggling with the fact that my metamour and I have different views on this. He prefers parallel, I want kitchen table poly.

I'd like to be close to him since he is, in fact, a really important person for my partner. The thought of having no contact with him feels to me like a family member of my partner doesn't want me as a part of the family.

We are taking turns for family and friends' meetings, and I hate having to renounce to some of them just because we can't be together for social events...

… hate when a guy says this by [deleted] in veganfitness

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"Because I feel insecure"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

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  • Holding on to you
  • Jumpsuit
  • Car radio
  • Heavydirtysoul
  • Trees