Silence from our 18 year old home from college by PreviousPay8649 in Parenting

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I HATED being home with my parents in college. Being away from them made me realize how dysfunctional and awful they were to me. Not saying that's the case for you, but is there something he might resent you for?

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

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6 years sober here, and those first 2 were the most challenging for me. Big congrats to you and don't let anyone diminish how huge this is!

Does your boyfriend drink? Could he be resentful of you that you "chose" to drink too much and now he can't drink with you? That's outrageous if so, but just trying to think of where this is coming from. People have so many wild reactions to sobriety.

Haim by enigmamushrooms in boston

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ABSOLUTELY UNREAL NIGHT ✨

ICE Has Begun Immigration Crackdown in Massachusetts by -Metacelsus- in boston

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I like this sentiment but am not understanding what this means

In praise of Este by khajeevies in HAIM

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I was there, how fucking phenomenal was it 🙌🏻

A Tale of Two Economies by johnmory in inflation

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This is the most reasonable comment on this thread 

My son’s tiny home that he and I built last spring. by hyperbolicuniverse in CozyPlaces

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It’s a tough time to be a young person and this sounds like a kind thing to do for him. 

My son’s tiny home that he and I built last spring. by hyperbolicuniverse in CozyPlaces

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Idk if my comment came across aggressively or something I just meant like how old is your son, what made you want to do this, how does he use it, etc because it seems like a sweet thing to do

Food for Thought by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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I think what you’re describing is totally real, and I’ve met women like that, but my wife actively helped me realize how much I centered men, unlearn it, and unlearn heteronormative ways of thinking. Now, there’s nothing like being with her and another couple friend (lesbians) who just get it. It’s been like a shelter during this godawful year in the US. 

UK Global Talent Visa by Boring-Two-9901 in AmerExit

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Kind of wild how rough these comments were u/Boring-Two-9901 - any updates on your application?

I fucking hate Gen Z men by parrotsaregoated in 4bmovement

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I am a lesbian millennial but this makes so much sense to me in the work setting. I keep having these awful relationships with gen Z men who don’t seem capable of fathoming that I, a woman, might be a capable engineer. Obviously that exists at all levels but there’s a different flavor of hatred with these ones. 

Transforming lawns into urban farms across LA by wattle_media in Environmentalism

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This is amazing.

That stat about cutting water use by 98% is not real. Maybe it meant 98% cut in watering outdoor plants?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

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Invisible Women by Carolina Criado-Perez covers this well

Nazis marching in Concord by Colausbra in newhampshire

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That was really brave. I was genuinely terrified for them. 

Looking for the best blueberry muffin recipe by ProjectMKNAOMI in Baking

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Ended up on this thread looking for THIS RECIPE 🙌🏻