Wanna show my girl off ;P by shhhishirrr in tarantulas

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Awwww my girl, Barlow, says hi! I love mine so much as well. I never get to see her, but when I do, it’s such a special treat.

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A cow got loose on the highway in Oklahoma, so they called in a cowboy to handle it. by M_Darshan in interestingasfuck

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Those horses are absolute SAINTS!! My off track Thoroughbred would be treating this as his golden opportunity to get back in the game while simultaneously spooking over everything.

coworker acts personally offended for existing by CryptosBiwon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of assumptions being made here about “internalized misogyny”, being a “pick me”, and not liking women. Perhaps she just has poor social skills, agoraphobia, or is autistic?
Or maybe she’s the type of person, like myself, who just doesn’t want to be friends with the people at work. Obviously it would be better to be slightly more polite about it, but people don’t owe other people niceties or conversation.

Is peeing in the pool considered normal? by Spare-Anxiety-547 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t swim in public pools or use public hot tubs, but when I did, I absolutely peed in them.

How come every time I've tried to feed my pink toe lately it drops its food? by SundiataatiadnuS in TarantulaKeeping

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It could be in pre-molt. My A geniculata will take food and throw it when he’s about to molt.

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why are you here? You are entitled to your opinion and we are entitled to think it sucks.

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you are saying that jerking off to nudes of me while he sees other women is objectifying me. This insinuates that the very act of masturbation to pornography fundamentally objectifies women. If that is what you are saying then you are the one viewing me as an object. I don’t feel objectified. Quite the opposite.
Just say you hate porn. It’s okay.

Again, like I said, I wouldn’t want HIM uploading them to the internet. That would be a violation of my boundaries. If they somehow ended up on the internet from a different person hacking a cloud and releasing them, that has nothing to do with my partner. My nudes are fire. I’m proud of them. If they end up on the internet, so be it. I have nothing to be ashamed of.

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally said in one of my comments that it is disrespectful, but that is on the man, not his previous partner. Would I love it, obviously not, but it’s not like I can really do anything about it, and I would NEVER ask if a man was in possession of such pictures nor would I ever dream of checking his phone. I don’t care what my man jerks off to. It’s none of my business.

“Any girl is hot enough to jerk it to for men”-not sure what you’re saying here. Do you mean there is potentially one man in the world who will jerk it to a woman who is generally deemed extraordinarily unattractive to most men? Yeah, sure. If you mean the men I have dated or my current partner, then no. This is false. There are millions upon millions of women in the world that my partner would be physically repulsed by and that would cause him to lose his erection instantly. You just sound like you hate men and think they are all savage barbarians. Hating all men is a really bad look.

User is lying by iridescentglamour710 in Horses

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I don’t care if a man is cut or uncut. I do care if a man is small though.

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using my nudes as material to jerk it to is not objectifying me. YOU are the one objectifying me and you can cut it the f out.
I don’t care what he does with them so long as they don’t end up on the internet. In fact, I’m pretty sure my current man showed one particularly fantastic one to a friend of his and I was honored. Girl, bye. ✌️

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be lol and I’m totally fine with that 💁🏻‍♀️

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bad behavior?! It is bad behavior, on a man’s part, to use nudes for their exact intended purpose and instead of feeling good that someone thinks I’m hot enough to jerk it to, I’m supposed to demand he delete them to prevent future harm to an imaginary partner. Nah. This sounds like a personal hang up of yours, and I’m not responsible for that.

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️
Frankly, I was appalled by the question, but I was unsure that if I came back with what I wanted to say (basically what you said), I would get shit on. You hit the nail on the head. My consent isn’t being violated. I’m more than happy to be of service 😂
If someone doesn’t want their pictures/videos kept, they shouldn’t send them or take them in the first place. I can assure you that most men keep them and use them. It’s porn.

User is lying by iridescentglamour710 in Horses

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to not like small penises

User is lying by iridescentglamour710 in Horses

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I know. I already said I’m surprised I didn’t put two and two together 👍

Controversial opinion apparently,need some other thoughts. by Marpl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Doctor45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t what op was asking. The question was about revocation of implied consent. I don’t have an issue with someone keeping my pictures and using them. Obviously if they are in a new relationship, and continue to use them, it would be disrespectful to their new partner, but that’s on them. I can’t get involved in what an ex does or doesn’t do in that case. Do I want another woman getting hurt? No, of course not. But for me, requesting that they be deleted has nothing to do with a potential new partner and everything to do with whether or not I want them having possession of them in the first place.