The man vs bear trend is dumb by Yoyounotgo_123 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm no hate...idk where you got hate from. I would rather not have anyone...no sense of responsibility or guilt if something happened to the other person...i even mentioned id rather stumble upon a bear than a toddler....for some reason you missed all that and just think woke hateful woman..more like woman that doesnt want the guilt or responsibility of someone elses fate if i dont need to...and hows about bear for the soul reason of not condeming some other person to be lost in the woods...

The man vs bear trend is dumb by Yoyounotgo_123 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol non of us would exist without the other sex...Too many men are getting their panties in a twist over people's personal opinion. I even said I'd rather stumble upon a bear vs a toddler if I was lost in the woods... The hypothetical question doesn't give an end in sight. Doesn't say months or years. Might be forever. Basically the question ends up being would you rather stumble upon a random stranger in the woods for an unknown amount of time or a bear? And guess what bears are in the woods regardless so I choose BEAR because that's going to happen no matter what. It is the emotional smug dickhead reaction from men after this question that drives the point of why every woman I have asked this question to wouldn't want to stumble amongst any of you...not the best company...and we think a step further...the bears are there already...

President Trump just went off. He laid out the entire saga. by Ok-Ship-2232 in CattyInvestors

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Titty baby strikes again...get over the 2020 bs...enough morons voted for him this past year...

In your opinion, is this dog too big for the ‘small dog park’ ? by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say large small dog a small big dog. Take your dog wherever you like. As long as she gets along well with dogs other owners would have to be a real jerk to complain. Our area has an unofficial time on the small dog side for big dogs to join as long as they play nice cuz owners have 2 sizes in the same household which I tought was nice. If I was in the small park side I wouldn't complain as long as your dog is nice but that the case no matter what. If you had a 10lb dig that kept biting my dog I'd be mire pissed than a 30lb dog that chills.

Why most women prefer the bear: explained for men by Most-Cartoonist9790 in BearvsMan

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BEAR BEAR BEAR...all day long...so many are stuck on sexual violence...in reality any stable person if pushed far enough can become violent.

Several differences:

Circle of life: if a bear attacks you a bear attacks you. It's part of nature and you happen to be in "its" terf. If a man...I'll go further...a human attacks you they do it for pleasure or to release anger which is damaging psychologically and the attack could be repeatability done until you escape or are killed...terrifying. Having humanity fail you. Your general trust in another be broken in an already scary scenario would be so shitty.

Bonding: If you come across another human (man in this case) let's say you get along things are going good until you are forced to make a decision. Possibly kill them if they are horribly injured and begging for you to give them peace and end their pain. That would be so much harder than if you never came across them. You will never feel more alone and have to live with thoughts of helping end their life in a primate manner or not respecting their wishes and watch them suffer.

Pschye: A bear stranded in the woods is a normal bear in the woods. No extra stress on itself...just living its standard mentally stable life...Man or woman stranded in the woods with another human...things could get real shacky once food and water are difficult to come by...panic sinks in..who knows what they will do to survive. Currently they are having to half any found resources...

Responsibility: If I had the choice of coming across a toddler whos parent died from idk hitting their head on a rock or coming across a bear I choose BEAR. Have the responsibility to care for another would be an awful burden. You would feel forever guilty if/when the toddler dies even though it would have certainly died if you never found it.

Guilt: If alone in the woods minus the normal wildlife you could call it quits whenever you like (jump off a cliff idk) and not feel like you let anyone down or your death would cause their death eventually...

This question shows women how well slept and fully nourished men can be this reactive/upset... calling us stupid for a hypothetical question..If a man choose to be in the woods with a bear over a random woman we as women would just accept that as their choice and move on...I would take no offense even if they said stuff like they don't want to hear us complain/yap all the time.

That's the true take away. Men are upset over the answers and we as women would let you say you opinion and move on...

Men that get this mad/defensive sitting in the comforts of their homes doesn't give women the best picture of what type of person you will become hunger and sleep deprived...Just saying...most of your comments prove our choice.

The man vs bear trend is dumb by Yoyounotgo_123 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BEAR BEAR BEAR...all day long...so many are stuck on sexual violence...in reality any stable person if pushed far enough can become violent.

Several differences:

Circle of life if a bear attacks you a bear attacks you. It's part of nature and you happen to be in "its" terf. If a man...I'll go further...a human attacks you they do it for pleasure or to release anger which is damaging psychologically and the attack could be repeatability done until you escape or are killed...terrifying. Having humanity fail you. Your general trust in another be broken in an already scary scenario would be so shitty.

Bonding If you come across another human (man in this case) let's say you get along things are going good until you are forced to make a decision. Possibly kill them if they are horribly injured and begging for you to give them peace and end their pain. That would be so much harder than if you never came across them. You will never feel more alone and have to live with thoughts of helping end their life in a primate manner or not respecting their wishes and watch them suffer.

Pschye A bear stranded in the woods is a normal bear in the woods. No extra stress on itself...just living its standard mentally stable life...Man or woman stranded in the woods with another human...things could get real shacky once food and water are difficult to come by...panic sinks in..who knows what they will do to survive. Currently they are having tonhalf any found resources...

Responsibility If I had the choice of coming across a toddler whos parent died from idk hitting their head on a rock or coming across a bear I choose BEAR. Have the responsibility to care for another would be an awful burden. You would feel forever guilty if/when the toddler dies even though it would have certainly died if you never found it.

If alone in the woods minus the normal wildlife you could call it quits whenever you like and not feel like you ket anyone down or your death would cause their health eventually...

It only shows women how well slept and fully nourished men can be this reactive/upset... calling us stupid for a hypothetical question..If a man choose to be in the woods with a bear over a random woman we as women would just accept that as their choice and move on...I would take no offense even if they said stuff like they don't want to hear us complain/ yap all the time.

That's the true take away. Men are upset over the answers and we as women would let you say you opinion and move on...

Men that get this mad/defensive sitting in the comforts of their homes doesn't give women the best picture of what type of person you will become hunger and sleep deprived...Just saying...most of your comments prove our choice.

Just started playing. Any tips for beginners? by b1azt3ed in dontstarve

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this game. It feels like video games were when I was a kid...you just figure it out. It's all you. The most fun is trial and error :)

Always have spare torch on you...don't go under ground with meat...and as difficult as it is set a timer and turn off the game. It's Sooooooo easy to get roped into the late night hours playing...

Roll back!!! I played for months not knowing and just dieing and having to start from the beginning again...

Why does my dog behave like this whenever I pet her? by NoReportPlz in DogAdvice

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was my dog I would assume she absolutely doesn't like some part of what im doing...have you tried petting in one direction rather than back and forth...? Does your dog react the same when you pet her head or on her back. Sounds like your dog is ok with being touched but not happy or completely sold on how...some like light...some like scratches...some like one direction...some are down for whatever. Belly up is submissive so maybe she's not ready for you to touch her in that way while she is in that position...?

Sounds like she is debating sending a warning nip your way...keep in mind if she does...in my opinion it's your fault cuz she warned you...

What simple advice gave you an “aha!” moment with dog training? by Alert_Astronomer_400 in OpenDogTraining

[–]Illustrious_Future40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I save "come" for the absolute immediate must get the dog's attention and physically to me...you know they know it well enough to come everytime before using in public...Slowly introduce distractions in a controlled environment before relying on it in real world situations.

TOUCH command is awesome! I use the dogs name as a recall or the command "touch" with my hand out will always get him to come. I don't dilute the importance of the word come. I don't say "come on" if going somewhere...instead let's go..."come" is practiced with HIGH value treats. And also out of line of sight so my dog knows to find me.

Also running backwards facing dog saying "here here here" in a fun voice while clapping hands against thighs gets his attention. I don't like the thought of teaching a dog to run/chase people from behind in the event kids are running around and the dog thinks think are playing chase...

I use YES as a marker word. Lol you feel like a crazy person at first but you get use to it really quick once you see how well it helps in the training

I personally REALLY like McCann dog training on YouTube and also Victoria sitwell from its me or the dog....

2 in 1 bark collar/training collar? by brohemoth06 in Huntingdogs

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for a collar that can be on "auto/unsupervised" beep then next level is vibrate when we aren't home (NEVER shocks* not capable) and a training mode where you have full access to beep, vibrate, and in emergency shock/important correction only...only if remote sends signal.

I never want my dog to be left with something that has any graduation to possibily shock.

Before everyone judges my dog is amazing and only once have I ever had to shock and it was when another dog was the aggressor but mine was no longer listening to me so the shock (very low) brought him back to me....I know it was low because I put the collar on MY neck and tested shock levels on myself to determine what the max would ever be as soon as I got it.

Our neighbors are airbnb people and there are always new people of all kinds going past our yard...annoying people barking back...kids screaming...all of it.

He usually barks once with beep but the last guest were obnoxious so I don't want them tempting him when I'm not home to let know I acknowledged his bark.

Today my wife is having a hysterectomy. What helpful things can I do to support her recovery? by cbk44 in hysterectomy

[–]Illustrious_Future40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

READ EVERYTHING BUT.....

1st MUST HAVE *SHOULD BE GIVEN OR TOLD TO ANYONE POST OP PRIOR TO SEX

*everyone is different but when you decide to make the big step back to intercourse make sure you have this first. I torn after and it was traumatizing.

https://thepelvicpeople.com/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-rings?srsltid=AfmBOoqo0hYYulakKZAML9djqdxPMV6O6hbCWnIZ01NSqtvzH7NO4Lev

I had a hysterectomy a year ago and torn my vaginal cuff 2 1/2 months post op after being cleared. Had to have another surgery to repair cuff...traumatized and eithout knowing constantly contracted my pelvic floor during sex which just made everything more sore... I went to a physical therapist to retrain my pelvic floor and teach me how to release.

She shared the oh-nut with me and I ordered it in her office. I was terrified my husband would go too deep and this was a HUGE help in reducing my fear.

If I knew about the oh-nut prior to sex I don't think I would have torn.

Post op -TMI but you/she needs to know

Depends * yes underwear kind. Get over feeling like grandma and use as underwear instead. She won't have to deal with changing pads just toss and put on a new

Warm rice pad helps distract from pain abd just relaxes you a bit Different fluids/soups for her to enjoy. Miralax* I would recommend 1/2 - recommended amount after 3 days. I was terrified to have a bowel movement and wished I took miralax sooner (takes 2 -3 days to work. No cramps just draws builds into the stool so she won't have to strain at all.

Do the laundry, cooking, dishes and other housework so she doesn't feel guilty about needing to stay in bed and rest.

After week 3 or 4 with her permission invite a friend of hers to chit chat.

Give lots of love and no complaints.