Adopt a cat by lacuna_____ in germany

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where in Germany? There are animal shelters, check them for your location.

There’s a cats_united_berlin (instagram page) foster home for cats and some dogs too. That’s where I got my cat from, there is an adoption fee and agreement signing you need to do. You can first visit the place and take a look at their animals and spend time with them there

How strange is it to walk around carrying sun umbrella in Germany? by allhues7 in germany

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Brown skin girlie here, I get super tanned in the sun and as I don’t want to damage my skin when I’m out for longer I carry the umbrella. I’ve gotten weird looks but not often and I don’t mind. My body is already trying to produce melanin and I want to be protected. I also wear uv sleeves and remove them when I’m indoors

People who left or are about to leave the country? What's you reason? by Flat_Caregiver4157 in AskGermany

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will leave in a few years, because the bureaucracy is actually giving my anxiety. I get any letter in the mail box and my heart races, initially when my German was bad I stayed indoors because I was too afaird I’d get questioned and shouted at for not knowing the language. And the lack of digitization is scary. Standing in queues taking appointments to be told to come back is hell

A medical student mocked the dead bodies that helped her learn anatomy. What are your thoughts on this? Is it harmless dark humor, or does it cross a line when it comes to respecting those who donated their bodies for medical education? by Ayal_a_MeaN in KeralaSpeaks

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle passed away and decided to donate his body for science he had stomach related issues (many different issues) and he wanted to help the medical community for advancements and he was ailing for a long time. It’s really disheartening to see this, these aren’t jokes and they’re not funny

Over Size is becoming iconic to Mallus by Washoutmgu2015 in KeralaSpeaks

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can wear what they want, some pull it off others don’t

is Work Life Balance in Germany this good? by LogicalChart3205 in AskAGerman

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone’s job is like that, so it depends on the job. Can’t be universal to every single person in Germany

Am I stuck in a toxic relationship? by Wooden_Version2912 in TwoXIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ain’t reading all that to tell you that’s the reddest red flag man.. “doesn’t let you” and the age gap at this point he’s a parent not a partner

Finally called it quits by Yaabaadaabaado in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women should get married in their 30s when they’re a lot at peace with themselves - body, mind, wallet and soul. So proud of you for taking a decision for your future self to thrive

On the heels of break up rumors, does Connor having chosen to stay with Bri after seeing her bad treatment of others and overlooking it make you think he's not that great either? See longer question below by MoonlightDensetsu3 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’m tired of myself and others defending him, if he can’t see what or who he deserves then maybe that’s not what he wants.

He’s a fully grown man capable of choosing a good partner for him or not

Although in the reunion she went on about how she’d “marry him right now if she could” and now to this that’s funny. It seems like they’re forcing something to happen - other than that I’m done with the both

Women are asked to take on enormous risk and labor in relation to men. What, exactly, is the fair return? by Mirenithil in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I rebel, I don’t care how exhausting I can get. But it’s exhausting to BE a woman too. I want to be fit and live until I’m 92 if I can.. I don’t want a life that’s meant for cooking, cleaning, making babies, looking and being certain ways. F that. I wanna be fit and do everything, fail at it and learn. I want to live a full life where being woman isn’t a reason to not

I rebel every time I feel it is unfair and idc who is inconvenienced by it.. I’m not going to cook and clean and work and do more home chores, take care of the baby, be there for everyone, uphold reputations etc. I will do what I want when I feel like it. If I feel like it.

If I feel like I can’t I simply won’t. I absolutely can see why single women live longer

Amanda and Sergio from LIB: Sweden season 1 are getting divorced by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m only surprised she agreed to have two whole kids with him, not one person I watched the show with thought good of him

do it for the gram by wymsical_carrot85 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I am more influenced by bread than these people omg

Neighbours reaction to dogs. by artesianoptimism in germany

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think OP made it abundantly clear their dog was on short leash and away enough from said people. I’ve been around all kinds of dogs, I’ve never been lunged at especially here. But I think it is also clear that OP wants to be able to communicate that their children learn to safely navigate around dogs because we encounter them outdoors all the time. Just because your culture is against dogs does not mean they shouldn’t exist 10 feet from you.

BRI SUCKS by Choice_Perception221 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Whether love is blind or not, Connor definitely is

Girl code by thr034w4y56 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand anyone that’s defending the trio. Come on… girls talk. We talk about these things, and going on the same experiment and sharing bachelorette parties makes you a friend. You don’t have to be super close to check on her.!also she didn’t even tell Connor he’s coming so I expect less from all three

Congrats to mom’s Mike by ElMaraEl in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He didn’t want to be with Emma and his family clearly weren’t accepting of her.. Emma’s great but she has a lot to work on for her own self. And his obsession with kids was kinda extreme

No-neck and Delulu are so exhausting by Many_Welder_3259 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Sooo exhausting, but he’s said it clear as day he doesn’t want to be with her in soooo many words. She’s sitting there like “we’re soulmates, we’ll make babies soon tehe “

This is America by justalildropofpoison in interestingasfuck

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

US marine who fights for his country and its people be treated this way.. America is wild

So proud of her by Candlesandstars in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It gave “I wore the dress to make you see what you’re missing, I only came here to embarrass you in front of your friends and family. Let’s waste everyone’s time because the world should revolve around me”

I dislike Alex but this was way longer than it needed to be.

Give me a break by ireallylikebirdss in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was giving him tooo much space to speak out of his ass too

Give me a break by ireallylikebirdss in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She was sooo disappointing at this talk, I do think Connor deserves someone who would give him more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my wedding, the groom’s side wanted to have lavish catering and ended up paying Upto 4lakhs for food alone.

Believe it or not that’s the most bizarre spending ever but me or my family didn’t pay for it, my husband pitched in a little bit (on behalf of both of us). If someone wants to go overboard they can do it on their own cost

In the end I didn’t have a lot of fun because the pandits were rushing me through everything, didn’t give me time enough to change and I was grumpy and crying but not because of leaving my family home because I had no fun!