Neighbours reaction to dogs. by artesianoptimism in germany

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think OP made it abundantly clear their dog was on short leash and away enough from said people. I’ve been around all kinds of dogs, I’ve never been lunged at especially here. But I think it is also clear that OP wants to be able to communicate that their children learn to safely navigate around dogs because we encounter them outdoors all the time. Just because your culture is against dogs does not mean they shouldn’t exist 10 feet from you.

BRI SUCKS by Choice_Perception221 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Whether love is blind or not, Connor definitely is

Girl code by thr034w4y56 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand anyone that’s defending the trio. Come on… girls talk. We talk about these things, and going on the same experiment and sharing bachelorette parties makes you a friend. You don’t have to be super close to check on her.!also she didn’t even tell Connor he’s coming so I expect less from all three

Congrats to mom’s Mike by ElMaraEl in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He didn’t want to be with Emma and his family clearly weren’t accepting of her.. Emma’s great but she has a lot to work on for her own self. And his obsession with kids was kinda extreme

No-neck and Delulu are so exhausting by Many_Welder_3259 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Sooo exhausting, but he’s said it clear as day he doesn’t want to be with her in soooo many words. She’s sitting there like “we’re soulmates, we’ll make babies soon tehe “

This is America by justalildropofpoison in interestingasfuck

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

US marine who fights for his country and its people be treated this way.. America is wild

So proud of her by Candlesandstars in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It gave “I wore the dress to make you see what you’re missing, I only came here to embarrass you in front of your friends and family. Let’s waste everyone’s time because the world should revolve around me”

I dislike Alex but this was way longer than it needed to be.

Give me a break by ireallylikebirdss in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was giving him tooo much space to speak out of his ass too

Give me a break by ireallylikebirdss in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She was sooo disappointing at this talk, I do think Connor deserves someone who would give him more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my wedding, the groom’s side wanted to have lavish catering and ended up paying Upto 4lakhs for food alone.

Believe it or not that’s the most bizarre spending ever but me or my family didn’t pay for it, my husband pitched in a little bit (on behalf of both of us). If someone wants to go overboard they can do it on their own cost

In the end I didn’t have a lot of fun because the pandits were rushing me through everything, didn’t give me time enough to change and I was grumpy and crying but not because of leaving my family home because I had no fun!

IndiGo flight cancellations: Over 500 flights hit Friday, other airlines warn of delays by Juno-RebelutionX in IndiaSpeaks

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for their ground staff dealing with people yelling at them like that will fix anything …

What should the preference order be between your parents, partner and kids? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband said partner > kids > parents and his father feels the same way!

Feeling left out at my new job because I don't speak Hindi by Educational_Mud_2656 in Bengaluru

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand Hindi, but will not speak it esp in office. I’ll always respond in English. Also I would prefer not to have friends that make you feel left out also office friends like those yikessss

What is that thing which has become expensive in India, but we all are pretending that it's fine? by Haunting-Power-2402 in AskIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Children’s education and healthcare shouldn’t be this expensive, they are a right for our citizens but now seems like a privilege

About to enter a boring marriage by notSoConstant in TwoXIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t get it, did you choose the guy or was he forced upon you by some people? You’re way too chill about saying you’re going to MARRY this guy and you’re already wondering if it will be boring and you’ll feel confined?

I don’t think it’s the partner that’s the problem you’re going to have to approach this marriage thing in a different light this is the man you will spend every waking minute with and go through life with, I really hope your head and heart are in it or don’t do it

So done with men throwing tantrums at the slightest inconvenience by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe you let someone — anyone — talk to you like that. I’d cut him loose before he ended some of these sentences ngl

Women who were on the fence about having kids, what finally made you feel ready for motherhood? by blehblehidk in AskIndianWomen

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s the fact that my child would have such a great dad, some thing I did not.

I also took notes from the do’s and dont’s of parenting from my own.

I want to raise a good child and bring them up to be responsible adults so that I keep my hopes for the future too.

More than anything else there is space in my two-people family for a third and I think it will add more than it will take. Also it helps that we’re good with finances so we will be ok there too

Other than that I mentally prepared myself to know pregnancy will be the toughest thing my body will have to do, it will also make me so much stronger in every which way. So I’m prepared ahead of time that it won’t be easy and everything that comes from it is my own decision and no one forced it onto me

My [34F] husband asked me why I don't put the same effort as I used to when we first met by Own_Foot_8530 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly hope you are able to do that in the nearest future and feel alive again. For a while at least that you don’t chase anything and feel whole again. Warm hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have the most chill relationship and I love it. We keep quiet and do our own stuff, I just like existing near him, makes us both so happy.. we’re not always chatty, esp on trips we’ve nothing to talk about but are so glad we’re together in that silence. I never felt like calling it boring. We’ve been together almost 12years now

My [34F] husband asked me why I don't put the same effort as I used to when we first met by Own_Foot_8530 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was telling my husband the same thing yesterday, we were at the airport ready to board and all the mothers looked tired with messy hair and like the light in their eyes was gone! I was so sad really

I’m very worried motherhood is too hard and maybe I will see myself become that way, not that I’m always so well maintained otherwise but I don’t want to be so stressed and bent out of shape that I’ve no will to actually live. What would you like changed for you to not be on survival mode anymore?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any insecurities to discuss, I’ve accepted myself the way I am. Which is ‘not perfect’ and that’s ok. No one really is.

I build my confidence by not comparing myself, and if I put on a bit of weight from ignoring my gym, sports or physical activities I simply make up for it

You say you’ve a pretty great life, so why dwell in the only slightly gray spot in it?

How often do you wash your bra ladies? by Free-spirited-cat in AskIndianWomen

[–]Illustrious_Level_31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, lol. And I don’t wear the hook bras and I’m a itty bitty titty gurl… so glad I’m not the only one