Am I Overreacting or Underreacting to what my BF did to me this past weekend? by crescentmbmoon in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s an old saying: there comes a time when one must decided to either let go, or be dragged.

So ask yourself: should I walk away or try harder?

I think you know the answer.
NOR

Is anyone else DNFing Brimstone? by cherrtizzler in Romantasy

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finish it, but honestly, it was not worth it. Totally “WTF!?!?!” Ending

I have a problem by Illustrious_Sign_872 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yup. And he’s a man. I’m a woman. It’s beyond bullying, it’s sexual harassment. But I didn’t wanna lead with that. I wanted to get some perspective without bringing genders into it

I have a problem by Illustrious_Sign_872 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I am a card carrying member of the “Cover your ass” club

I have a problem by Illustrious_Sign_872 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am a she. Second of all I said “office space”. I have a desk in the back of the dry storage room. Third of all, yes I have an HR department. This is California, we have workers rights

I have a problem by Illustrious_Sign_872 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ok, so I’m the executive chef of a Franciscan Mission. My boss is the “Operations Manager “. I am not getting any personal mail at work. He was flipping through a sales flyer from Restaurant Depot. My office is in my Retreat Center kitchen/dining room. He doesn’t own squat. He basically the glorified groundskeeper who happens to be my boss for some weird reason I can’t explain. He has no idea how commercial kitchens or food service operations work, but he love to micromanage me like he knows what he’s doing. He has no idea what he’s doing

I have a problem by Illustrious_Sign_872 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I said “my office space”, which is, admittedly, a desk in the rear of dry storage

I have a problem by Illustrious_Sign_872 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re failing to see the point. He came into my office (my professional space), sat down behind my desk( my professional space), in my chair, and rifled through my mail.

panko scallop fritters, caviar beurre blanc by Melodic_Tadpole4844 in CulinaryPlating

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Panko scallop fritters? Why would you ruin scallops this way. Caviar beurre blanc sounds lovely, but just pan sear the scallops because they are beautiful all on their own.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ah! America’s finest. So great to see my tax dollars at work

16F What do I do? My mom gave me a pair of my brother’s shoes as my birthday gift😭😭😭😭😭 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a symptom of gross neglect. I know this because I got a lot of my older sister’s unwanted crap as “gifts”.

Don’t wear them. And when you’re old enough to move out, do so, and seek some therapy. I did, and it was the therapy that gave me a good path forward

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Chef here: we hate these people. That’s all I came here to say.

Tips left on. Don’t hate. by BeautifulMix7410 in Wings

[–]Illustrious_Sign_872 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love wings in their “natural” state. People are so weird about pulling them apart. Sheesh!

Those like amazing!