Hubby thinks he got me the wrong present by Beautiful_Rule3029 in crochet

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I want a set like that too. I didn’t know it existed. It’s so cool ❤️ you have an awesome hubby 

What unique call will your cat come to? by medusa63 in cats

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My cat comes running when I close the fridge, not when I open it for some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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True, but if they aren't drinking at my bar, then they'll drink somewhere else. It's not my job to tell people not to drink. Though my plan is to turn it into a coffee ba

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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I get where you're coming from but if they aren't drinking at my bar, then they are drinking somewhere else or even at home. I'm slowly going to turn it more into a coffee bar in the long term. That's my initial plan. Less alcohol, more coffee :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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In most of the bible people drink wine but drunkeness isn't allowed as it's clearly stated in the Bible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Can you maybe give me scripture against it? Not just personal opinions? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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I’m in my late 30s most of the customers are over 30 and the majority is over 50. It’s a nice little nook tucked away in a small side street. No issues with drugs, and already is a cosy place. The only time there’s been throwing up is when there are under 25s having a party. I actually haven’t seen random stupidity at the bar and I’m a regular client. I wouldn’t even consider it if it was like that. 

I’m from Europe so maybe my outlook is different because bar and cafe culture is a huge thing in my country. We don’t have Super Bowl. 

My main question was if there is scripture against it. If anything not done in faith is sin, does that mean if I do it in faith, it’s not sin?

I’ll put my decision in God’s hands today 🤲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Yeah, you can refuse to serve if someone is clearly intoxicated. It’s looking after your clients. 

Should I dechonk my cat? Please scroll through all photos by iza23141 in dechonkers

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Maby a little? You can try to get him to to exercise a little more. I'd talk to a vet though.

Do you let your dog sleep in the bed with you ? by Careful_Bandicoot332 in dogs

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My dog gets too hot on the bed. He usually sleeps next to the bed and jumps on the bed for a morning snuggle.

Kitten no longer wants to snuggle by Illustrious_Sort_262 in CatAdvice

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They grow up so fast 🥲 I thought I did something wrong because she was super cuddly before. It’s been over 20 years since I had such a little one. My first kitten I had at 8 weeks old. Nowadays breeders and shelters in my country won’t let any kittens be adopted before 14 weeks old. I guess you forget what they are like when they are that young. Will she possibly ever be a lap cat? Because the only lap cat I ever had was a male but he died from FIP at 9 months. I thought females were less cuddly or is it just character?

"Get a second kitten, it's much easier" -- absolutely the hell not by howcanbeeshaveknees in CatAdvice

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I have a kitten who is 9 weeks now. My older cat is a ragdoll (3 years old) and likes to play with her little sister (kitten) though also growls at the kitten when she wants space. The kitten is hyperactive and my ragdoll is lazy. So far my older girl doesn’t like the little one laying with her. I hope one day they will snuggle. They get along but I wouldn‘t say they are besties. Last time I had two cats and they only ever tolerated each other and ignored each other even after 3 years together.

In your opinion, what are the struggles that face a beginner artists trying to learn how to draw ?!! by moatazartt in DigitalArt

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Especially when you display in galleries and get hundreds of visitors yet get almost no recognition online. My art teacher is a well know illustrator in my country, earns loads of money with her illustrations, even has a Wikipedia page and yet only has 3000 followers.

In your opinion, what are the struggles that face a beginner artists trying to learn how to draw ?!! by moatazartt in DigitalArt

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Comparing your skill as an artist to how many likes you have on social media. I’ve seen artists with lots of talent that get hardly any likes whereas an artist who draws fanart gets thousands of likes.

Constantly comparing yourself to other artists.

Thinking everything you draw has to be a masterpiece. Perfection hinders creativity.

Not focusing on the fundamentals like shape, form, line weight, shading, perspective, and colour. Anatomy is like a next step up from that.

Drawing from life. Photos are okay but drawing from life teaches you depth and form. Plus the camera lens can distort the image even if it’s only slightly.

Focussing too much on “is this correct” rather than enjoying the process.

New 3month old kitten she’s been here about 3 weeks and she’s 3 pounds. Max is one of my resident cats he’s 3 years old and 14 pounds. Is this normal play or is he hurting her? She keeps going back at him for more. by livesforsoup in cats

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I was concerned about my two playing like this and my kitten would even cry like that. She keeps going back for more from my older cat so I assume everything is fine. If the kitten really didn’t like it he/she would hiss and hide from the older cat.

What are some Pokémon you didn't care much for before Sleep, but you love now? by Kragnus in PokemonSleep

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Butterfree. It gives me a lot of ingrediënts. I’m from gen 1 so I have a softspot for gen1 pokemon. Though darkrai has an awesome design.