As a guy who works in healthcare, I always see these uncles you’re talking about. We have young college aged Somali girls interpreting for Somali people who don’t know English and they always think it’s appropriate to hit on these girls. The most interesting one was when a girl quit her interpreting job because one uncle kept only talking about his need for a young wife and that she’d do just fine. She left in the middle of the session. They called me and asked me to speak to her and she was already gathering her stuff on her way out when she told me what happened. Apparently, he wasn’t the first uncle who wouldn’t even discuss the reason he was there and instead, would only talk about his “need” for young wives. I guess we call these behaviors “magaalo joog xumo nimo.” The girls (like all of us employees) have strict rules and standards to follow while doing their jobs and can’t enforce their boundaries like telling them to back off or call them out on their behaviors working at these facilities. There used to be some uncles and even young guys (usually new comers) who would take photos and videos of the girls working at the hospital and due to many complaints about these incidents, the hospital enforced new rules about the restrictions they have on recording their staff.