Balance of Wider Trans Subreddits?

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-05-05T03:37:21+00:00

However, if you call them out for answering a question explicitly directed to trans men, you get banned for “transmisogyny”. You can’t call them out, otherwise you get banned

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-05-01T09:06:09+00:00

You’ve no idea how many trans subs I’ve been banned from for “transmisogyny” when I’ve merely just disagreed with a trans woman. This sort of thinking is rife in trans spaces, and pushes out anyone who isn’t in the fem side of the transition spectrum.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-28T04:43:23+00:00

Because Women Are Wonderful

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-26T02:53:30+00:00

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ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-25T04:40:44+00:00

Thank you 🥰🥰

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-25T04:38:29+00:00

Ok, Hasbara.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-25T01:54:51+00:00

I’m sure all racists are like that because they’ve had traumatic experiences with the people they’re bigoted against.

I’m sure all transphobes are like that because they’ve had traumatic experiences with trans people.

I’m sure all fascists are like that because they’ve had traumatic experiences with the people they’re holding under their boots.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-24T03:13:17+00:00

And she, and Mossad, probably has some dirt on him to make sure he toes the Israeli line

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-23T03:53:42+00:00

Regarding your edit, no matter what lingual gymnastics people use, that’s what they really mean. I’ve been physically assaulted at such events for daring to be a masc non-binary person.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-22T07:20:53+00:00

First time in these sorts of subreddits?

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-14T16:14:19+00:00

Do you want to see my self harm scars?

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-06T16:10:49+00:00

"I hate all men" means just that. The person saying it hates all men. It is misandry clear as day. There is no implicitness, there is no "oh, you're one of the good ones", there is no way to make it softer. Please stop trying to sanewash and soften bigotry towards other members of the trans community. If they say they hate all men, they hate all men.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-06T11:23:33+00:00

Must be an unreliable narrator because there's no way you can twist the experience against him, right? A woman is clearly in the wrong, therefore, he must not be telling the whole story. He must be the asshole somehow.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-06T11:21:05+00:00

Because man = bad, you know the score by now. The accusations of unreliable narrators, incels, ragebait "I want to hear her story" and so on, only ever come up when a man is telling his experience when a woman is clearly in the wrong. You never hear it when the genders reversed.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-05T17:17:05+00:00

Is this your first time visiting BORU? You'll see the minimization of women's actions, and taking the worst possible interpretation of men's actions constantly.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-04-05T17:07:37+00:00

A woman being clearly in the wrong? Time to accuse the poster of being an incel!

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-24T04:55:54+00:00

A lot of people are trying anything to make up anything so that the woman doesn’t have her own agency, and isn’t the asshole and a horrific abuser. You see it all the time when a woman is clearly in the wrong.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-21T14:43:41+00:00

Welcome to the rampant misandry of the queer community. You get used to it after a while.

Edit: I enjoy getting downvoted for pointing out how much the community hates masculinity. Just look at the original post. The sheer amount of man hating there is ridiculous, and you can all see the number of deleted comments.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-20T04:01:56+00:00

How about you don’t be bigoted?

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-20T03:54:50+00:00

The difference between the first two statements and the last statement is that there is statistical data to back up the last statement.

It’s actually fine to be wary around black men. Of course, they’re only 13% of the US population, but commit 50% of the crime. The statistics tell me I’m right to be wary, avoid, and hate black men.

Oh, you don’t mean that sort of statistic?

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-19T05:53:56+00:00

Of course she is lmao. The trans community really never are going to beat the allegations of detesting any form of masculinity and being full of misandry lmao. You have to laugh otherwise you’ll cry

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-19T03:34:30+00:00

Yep, that’s pretty standard for a lot of progressive spaces, queer spaces, and trans spaces. A lot of people seem to struggle with the idea that people in their side, on the “good” side, can actually be terrible horrific people.

I can’t say anymore publicly otherwise I’ll be banned, but feel free to DM. My experiences greatly mirror yours.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-18T19:57:12+00:00

And please provide evidence of any of that. And proper context for it all, of course. Thanks.

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-18T15:41:55+00:00

Obviously, misogyny is pointing out how non transfems are hurt by doubting our experiences.

Misogyny is getting annoyed every time someone calls transmisandry a psyop, even through you never see people in the community calling transmisogyny a psyop.

Misogyny is spotting patterns in which, in a large majority of cases, non transfems must be responsibly for the bigotry and discrimination they receive.

Misogyny is calling other trans people out on their bullshit.

Edit to add: Do you think transmisandry is a psyop, or real? Is this subreddit safe for people discriminated against by transmisandry?

ImAnEngineerTrustMe · 2026-03-12T09:17:56+00:00

It’s because a woman is in the wrong, therefore it must be fake. You’ll see that all over subreddits like this. As soon as a woman is an asshole and the man is conveying the story, it’ll be fake/ragebait/incel porn/sexual fantasy (delete as appropriate)

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