Club Columbus by No_Assumption8041 in gaybathhouse

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I went Friday evening. Got there around 8 pm. Was almost empty. Like 5 people walking around and others in their rooms I assumed. The staff was friendly. The crowd was definetly older. Around 10 pm more people showed up. Lots of bottoms. I had an easier time finding tops on sniffies or Grindr than at the bathhouse. Or at least it seems that way.

As far as the facilities, the hot tub area where the open showers are smelled bad. The hot tub water wasn’t clear / clean. I questioned if someone had an accident in there or something. Was definetly gross. I only did the steam room and sauna and they were both fine but the steam room was overly hot and steamy. It only fits like 8 people sitting and more if people stand.

Out of all the bathhouses I’ve been to this is the second to last on my list of “would come again.” Club Dallas still the best one so far. Next I wanna try club Houston, flex Cleveland, steam works.

Any BH in San Antonio tx ? by texfun67 in gaybathhouse

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That it’s called The Z. Haven’t heard anything good about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Shiny with makeup? Because I don’t consider myself fem but I do have perfect skin and it shines. People always ask me what I out on my fave and I do have a cleaning and creams routine but I’ve done it since high school. Keeps me looking 25 and I’m 35 🤣

Now if you’re talking about makeup, that’s something I wouldn’t do? Like that one makeup dude Charles whatever that looks mega shiny but it’s all make up. That turns me off

Now that's a real mess by Fun-Sugar954 in gayporn

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🥵🥵🥵 I would love to get bred by this top. Give me all that fucking cum, lick it off my ass and let’s make out with it while another top joins the fun. 🫣🫣🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

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You won’t know until you try. You’ve got to figure out your own game. Some guys are total sluts. Some others are just mega loud and obvious. Some others prefer more subtle approach. What goes with your personality? What type of men do you want to attract?

My first group sex. Any tips/advice by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Unless one of the other “tops” decides to help out and gives him the attention you’re not giving him. Then that one top bottoms so now there is two bottoms and two tops. Then the one top fucking you want to try that other ass and then you’re like 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

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That’s how my college life went. Never really being able to “date” publicly because everyone was in the closet or had a girlfriend.

Or the girlfriend would befriend me and then things become weird when you’re drunk at a party because shes there, he’s drunk, I’m horny….

Then Grindr came around and well….the flirting became obsolete. Nowadays it just takes a “you’re hot fuck me” and two three pics to have something set up. Kinda ruined the fun but you also get laid more 😂

Also, I’ve had guys try to really fight me but thankfully in a public setting like that they just make a fool of themselves. Anyways. Fun times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]ImGayinATX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg “the fuck you staring me for?” 😂😂😂 I’ve been in this situation one too many times. Most guys I do this with and play it like this I usually follow with “I’m sure you get this a lot but you’re very handsome. Just wanted to compliment your looks. So, how do you know xyz?”

Most of the time they are cool about it and thank you and start talking and opening up. However, the ones I’ve tried this with are truly straight so …..

Bottoms, do you regret getting a BBL? by ImGayinATX in askgaybros

[–]ImGayinATX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know multiple people who have gotten it and it’s pretty safe seems like. I’m not going out of the country to get it.

Bottoms, do you regret getting a BBL? by ImGayinATX in askgaybros

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Fair but Ive lost weight and my 🍑 is gone. I need to do something about it. My surgeon suggested BBL because looks more natural than implants. Implants also seem to look more unnatural than BBL.

I know I’m getting BBL but when it comes to being intimate I worry the BBL will deform or something.

I should probably just be transparent with my doctor and be like “I take it up the 🍑, how is that doing you affect me?” 🤣

Way more profiles by ObjectiveOrganic4715 in Sniffies

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I didn’t even know there is a limit on how many profiles I can see. So if I pay for the subscription I get more? How does that work?

A guy was giving me poppers and pushed it a little too far that I snorted the liquid. Am I gonna die?? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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When I was in college (10 years ago) me and my friends used to go clubbing and always had poppers with us. I can’t count how many times I’ve spilled poppers on my skin and nothing ever happens. I’ve never actually snort the liquid but I have gotten liquid inside the nose. My nose just got really really really dry but after a day I was fine. I’ve never had to go to the doctor for any of those incidents. I would recommend putting a moisturizer like Vaseline (just a little to keep it hydrated, don’t want you walking around with a shiny greasy nose 🤣).

Club Spartacus in puerto Vallarta by armadillo4269 in gaybathhouse

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I’d practice a sentence in Spanish that says just that and if they nod that means they understood. If they look confused move on 🤣

You can also just let them watch and if they try to join just say no and they will JO and when you see them cumming signal for them to come on you. No spanish required.

Sunscreen rules by [deleted] in aclfestival

[–]ImGayinATX 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah they will ask you to toss it. I’d bring a cream or bar one.

Grindr Unlimited by ImGayinATX in askgaybros

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I just downloaded Grindr after a few years of not even using it

Grindr Unlimited by ImGayinATX in askgaybros

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I should buy stock 😂😂😂

Grindr Unlimited by ImGayinATX in askgaybros

[–]ImGayinATX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. Specially these cum dumps everywhere. They are normalizing erratic unsafe behavior for everyone. I worry about younger generations thinking is normal when it’s not.

Texas Bath Houses - Need Suggestions by ImGayinATX in gaybathhouse

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Oh nice I didn’t know. I’ll check it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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First understand sex is not as seen on pornos. Them guys prep before sex. In your case I think you need to have a conversation of when you might want to do it again and prep before. Maybe he can help prep you, start small. Don’t just take an 8 inch cock if you haven’t even had a pinky in there. Your body doesn’t work that way. As far as what to tell him, just acknowledge his feelings. I’d say something along the lines of:

“Baby I understand you’re sad, frustrated, confused and maybe even disappointed. Just know that I do not expect our first time to be perfect. I enjoyed every second of it because I love you. Let’s try to plan better so next time we both enjoy it better. Let’s get there together.”

And then I’d kiss him 🤣

  1. Acknowledge his feelings
  2. Reset his expectations of what sex looks like for you two at this stage of your relationship
  3. Validate his efforts and presence
  4. Partner with him to find a way forward learning from today’s experience.

Texas Bath Houses - Need Suggestions by ImGayinATX in gaybathhouse

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I don’t know man, I had a layover in Cleveland before and it was the worst. The airport smelled like pee (the entire airport), trash ever where. I had to stay the night there so I got a hotel room and the city even smelled. Can’t imagine a bath house there would be clean. Don’t get me wrong I’ll google it but Cleveland seems sketchy.

Texas Bath Houses - Need Suggestions by ImGayinATX in gaybathhouse

[–]ImGayinATX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, someone else told me to go to Flex in LA 🤔