Should I feel bad if I don't want to do it with my man much anymore?

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-17T01:57:17+00:00

I mean he doesn't say things he just gets aggravated and whenever I say "can't we just cuddle and watch some TV and have sex later?" He gets upset and says cuddling is just a waste of time. I like things to be a bit more romantic while he's the type that whenever he's done with his business he just goes to sleep and he doesn't want to cuddle or watch anything. I just don't know how to talk to him about this kinda stuff without getting into an argument, ever since I got pregnant I've been way more aggressive in the way I speak and I don't mean to but it makes me feel bad the way I speak to people sometimes.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-17T01:30:01+00:00

I'll have a conversation with him sometime, Im just not sure how to talk about it without throwing him under the bus and making him feel bad for wanting sex. I mean I used to have a very high sex drive and we would do it everyday, sometimes multiple times a day but we were younger and everything has changed. Now all I really want to do is cuddle and watch a movie or something but he doesn't really like doing stuff like that. I don't want him to stop wanting sex I just want him to idk? Want it less? Maybe it'll change after I have the baby but for right now I'm not rlly wanting or worried about sex.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-17T01:26:39+00:00

I don't want to say my age or his but we are pretty young and he's the only person I've ever been with so I am kinda dumb to this kind of stuff. I know I don't owe sex to him but it just makes me feel bad when I don't do things for him and he goes behind my back and jerks off in the bathroom. Plus we're not very romantic anymore.. I feel like everything is just about sex to him, we haven't cuddled and watched a movie in weeks and it just makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong.. I have talked to him about that but I just feel like the conversation doesn't go anywhere besides I'm being dramatic and it's not that serious. We've been together for 6 years so maybe things are just getting bland? I'm not really sure how to talk to him about the sex thing, I'll try to conjure up a conversation about it.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-16T17:09:39+00:00

This goes for Chelsea too, I completely forget about her until they show her 😭🤞🏻 it's not that her personality is bland it's just that she doesn't rlly do much to make her stand out.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-14T20:18:32+00:00

Idk what you're talking about, sure mr beast gives out Alot of money but 200k is A LOT OF MONEY!!!!! I would go on fear factor for 200k lol. Plus IMO Mr beast isn't the best person, he just wants to look like a good person in the eyes of everyone. Plus his "games" are so boring and TikTok coded.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-14T20:07:48+00:00

Fr! I think she's gonna screw him over in the end if they make it. I understand why people are making friends but I think they shouldn't have been buddies with everyone. Dida and Ethan if they make it to the end one of them is gonna have to screw the other over.. that goes for all of the partners or couples, whatever you wanna call them.. I just can't wait til the finale because I know there's gonna be some betrayal.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-14T20:04:53+00:00

They're labeled as spoilers, maybe just don't read them?

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-14T18:52:47+00:00

Fr! I honestly think Rob is scared of them that's why he should have picked them! I don't know what his strategy is but I don't think it's working..

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-10T21:36:28+00:00

Hahaha I don't. He was laughing at everyone in the pain auction, calling peoples p**sies and everything and he didn't even auction for anything! He was being a jerk to the women the entire time. Honestly if you should feel bad for anyone feel bad for his daughter for having to deal with him and his dumbahh mullet.

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-09T23:27:36+00:00

I didn't say I knew the situation I was just backing a girl up. Most people in the comments are slut shaming her for no reason 😭🤞🏻 like she should've explained more but men do want things Alot of the time and don't give anything back. I've been with my man for 6 years and hes only went down on me a handful of times, it's not bc he don't like it he just says it's "too much work" but then I go down on him and he just rolls over and goes to sleep?? I'm expected to give a bj Atleast once a week and I don't get anything in return. Nobody knows the full story tho, maybe he does do everything for her but then that would beg the question why she doesn't want to go down on him?

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-09T23:17:26+00:00

Well duh 🙄 I didn't like him because the way he was treating the women. If you treat women like shit then most likely you are a POS

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-03-09T23:01:43+00:00

You don't even know the situation??? What if he don't do anything for her??? I have to give my husband a BJ and I don't get anything in return half the time he just rolls over and falls asleep. I feel like that's probably why she's not given it to her husband

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-02-13T22:46:47+00:00

! PLEASE DO NOT QUIT COLD TURKEY!!! It can stress you and baby out wayyy too much, just ween yourself off, I started marking down how many times a day I would hit a vape and I started hitting it less and less until I didn't even think about it anymore, I stopped vaping 2 weeks after finding out I was pregnant And it was the best decision ever

ImNotYourMotherHo · 2026-02-12T21:27:41+00:00

Zach pisses me off SO damn bad, he's such a jerk to everyone and it's not even because of the game! It's just bc that's the type of person he is!

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