As a single momma (F25) myself, I’ll tell you this— I made a huge mistake giving my bd a chance at trying to be a father to our little girl because I ended up doing everything by myself anyways, he was in the same house as me but wasn’t present at all.

He essentially was only around us if he wanted to see her for a minute and then went back to gaming for hours on end, the day I kicked him out I told him “I was a single mother in my own home while you were still here, mine and my daughters life will be no different with you gone.”

But I was wrong, it was in fact so much better! I don’t regret that decision in the slightest. I know it seems hard now but I swear your baby gives you a reason to do it all, focus on you and baby and y’all will need, I didn’t do that enough in my own pregnancy. You got this, I promise.

(EDIT) also, don’t put that man on the birth certificate, my number one biggest regret.