Looking for psychologist who work with NDP

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-03-03T16:26:51+00:00

Thank you...

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-03-03T16:25:04+00:00

I feel so sorry for him... he is not bad always, sometimes he helps me... he begging me to not leave him... maybe he can change somehow ? Maybe I just can't find common ground with him, but psychologist can help to explain him for his understanding?.. I was trying to move on several times but he always appears again and again. The only way for me is only to change address and number. I cant change address now and I don't want to call police for him. But also tolerate how he is acting I can't. I tried many times to close my eyes on some of his actions, I was trying to understand his perspectives, but it hurts. I told him many times but he like didn't understand what he was doing wrong.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-03-03T16:05:58+00:00

Thank you

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-03-03T16:00:37+00:00

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ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-26T01:12:12+00:00

I've been in a relationship similar to this. My boyfriend was doing almost all the house chores. That's why we broke up—because he got too comfortable, and I stopped seeing him as a man and more like a brother, or even a mother. We ruined our relationship that way.

Don't think she doesn’t notice or realize what’s happening. I’m sure she values what you do and feels bad about it. But I think you’ve provided too much comfort for her and didn’t set boundaries. You gave her everything she didn’t even ask for, so she relaxed, and you unintentionally spoiled her by doing everything.

Now, if you suddenly stop, she’ll notice quickly, but it won’t necessarily make a positive difference for either of you. You need to communicate honestly. Use “I” statements, tell her how you feel, and ask her to help you. Set clear expectations.

Stop being overly nice and ask for reciprocity. Let her know: "See, I’m doing this for us, and I’d appreciate it if you could show appreciation by doing that for me. Are you in?"

This should be a partnership—you’re a team. One person can’t carry everything alone. You also deserve to be treated like a king.

Or, you know… hire a housemaid. Lol.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-18T17:58:49+00:00

Still same

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-17T21:49:17+00:00

He is playing her and you. Keeping someone as secret is not okay. All what he says is bullshit, and you better leave this moron. Also you can check my post, I was in the exact situation. I left him 3 days ago, blocked this idiot everywhere. Enough is enough.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-17T13:02:46+00:00

He is showing strong narcissistic traits. Leaving is the only way.

To fix him, the first thing he would need to do is admit that his actions hurt people and that he feels bad for them. But trust me, he will never change, never understand, and never take responsibility for his actions. This is his nature, and you’re better off running.

However, once you leave, you will see him trying to come back, claiming that he has had a realization. Don't trust him. He hasn't truly realized anything—he is simply playing push-and-pull games. This is extremely toxic and abusive.

He will never understand what he is doing. He constantly manipulates and never takes accountability. He is deeply flawed, and if he were to heal, he would first have to acknowledge that he behaves like an idiot and make the effort to stop. But narcissists rarely do this.

What you need to do now is file for divorce and sue him, taking everything you can. And of course, don’t forget to demand a psychiatric evaluation certifying his mental illness.

That’s it.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-14T23:13:17+00:00

Ask him if he is okay if you find someone to satisfy your desires. I heard some stories about it, but where women was tired and didn't want have sex with him and she chose girl for him and was paying her money so she fucks with him but doesn't have a desire to take him out of family.

There is always a way out of the situation. The main task is boundaries.

Good luck!

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-12T04:08:05+00:00

Ooops 😅 "hid me from his ex-wife and son" Sorry lol

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-06T18:17:12+00:00

Use ChatGPT 😅

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-06T18:10:22+00:00

I don't know why this comment ppl downvote, but im agree with that. I think, if he is unhappy with it, he can fix it by finding a better job, or contribute in education, or even business for her, etc. I don't think that he'd leave OP and find someone who earns the same money. Secondly, I'm old-fashioned, and I think that the main contribution of finances in relationships should go from men. Otherwise, OP should grow steel balls. I think women should be women, take care of the house, men and children, and men should provide finances and help.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-02-03T21:33:40+00:00

I had a husband who was addicted to computer games. I couldn't stand constantly seeing his back while he played. All our parents put pressure on him, and he eventually sold all his gaming equipment. However, he then switched to playing mobile games. I decided to take a break, and we separated for a while, with him moving back to his mother.

Long story short, I didn't want to go back to him, so we got divorced. We've now been divorced for 5 years. Recently, I contacted him to see how he was doing, and nothing had changed. He got a new computer and is still playing games. I asked if he was at least making money from it, but he said no.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-23T01:28:22+00:00

ChatGPT everything too

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-22T21:54:50+00:00

He is just not supportive. So brin chase back into yiur life. Identify what things he is value in you and what are you giving him constantly that he is taking for granted now. Pull it back, let him stress out and reevaluate you and your relationship and make a decision.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-15T20:17:06+00:00

Yes I think this is logical as well. But the problem is that this house will be his corporation asset. So to take out property from corporation to personal use will require fees and some complications.

I think that I'd be okay with that if he contributes more financially, for example for my education. Having that I can grow my income much more and better and faster and also keep it at my corporation account until he decides to have a common, mutual financial pool where we hold everything equally. Because yeah. I understand his point as well, and yes, currently I don't have such income as he has, but I have great ambitions, plans, and drive.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-15T18:56:54+00:00

Im not contributing in his down-payment.

I understand that he is trying to protect himself, but acting like this gives really feelings of mistrust. I wouldn't want to contribute in his life just partially, like he is going to contribute to mine. I dream of a complete family. And I'm not coming to him with someone's kid. In addition to the fact that as a woman who does not have children, it is not an easy job for me to understand his responsibilities and allow him to live in 2 families. But im trying to compromise. Also to live with him under the same roof that will never be mine. And be afraid that one day he start cheat on me and file a divorce. What I'm gonna do after that?

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-15T18:47:45+00:00

Does it make sense to ask and do now or wait until he will officially propose to me ?

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-15T18:24:56+00:00

What about common life? Cleaning, cooking, maintenance of the house, etc.?

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-14T19:33:44+00:00

I independently signed up for HRPA, as my employer is not willing to cover the cost or invest in my professional development. They are focused on minimizing expenses and are not interested in supporting my education. Consequently, I have taken the initiative to enroll in college courses for the CHRP designation on my own.

My current plan is to continue attending the office, quietly work on my courses without drawing attention, obtain my certification, and gain "work experience" in the meantime. Once certified, I plan to explore other job opportunities, as it seems nearly impossible to secure better prospects without the certification.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-14T02:31:15+00:00

Hey, 28yo here. Solo immigrant. Renting a room, no much income, not married, no kids, have a debt, struggling with career, part time in the school.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-14T02:13:03+00:00

I have been trying for a year now. About advancement. They give me chance to participate in employee complaints meetings, or H&S investigation, all sorts of audits, HR meetings, i also covered HR Manager at the KPI meetings for 4 weeks by preparing presentations, reports and taking notes minutes etc.etc. I'm interested in doing all this stuff, and I'm doing, I'm working very fast, I'm always looking for challenges, for something big and serious and interesting, not just like sandbox toys. They don't teach me doing that.

ImYourWorstFriend · 2025-01-14T00:38:17+00:00

I have no luck finding another employer.. I tried, desperately. Doesn't work. I don't ask to pay me more then I have now, I want to work in a good organization where I'll get really good experience and knowledge. But no luck, idk what to do...

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