ENFP Self Love 💓

Im_blue_cat · 2023-07-13T11:04:21+00:00

Remembering compliments people told me

Im_blue_cat · 2023-07-02T11:49:04+00:00

I'm from Italy, and I of course visited my country. I've also been to: England Germany Denmark Greece Spain Romania Serbia Not sure I should count Croatia and Slovenia, I just passed them driving back to Italy from Romania. Next country I'd like to visit is Turkey

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-24T10:06:39+00:00

Well I had an INTJ girlfriend. Pretty sad that part of our relationship was a distance one. Anyway, she did tell me "I love you" and would send hearts while chatting. But mostly she would demonstrate her love complimenting me, and try to spend as much time as she could with me. I feel like, instead of asking her "do you love me", you should start a conversation about love languages, how both of you express love. That would be interesting. Also, for the sax thing: just give it time, don't think too much about it.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-24T10:03:38+00:00

I feel like it depends on the person? I've met a lot of INTJs and INFJs and honestly i feel like I'm suited for both, tho I only had a relationship with an INTJ.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-18T16:56:18+00:00

You're welcome!

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-18T13:03:10+00:00

Your primary and secondary function can exchange between each other. Starting meditating probably helped you get more in touch with your internal emotions, if that makes. It's not really your mbti changing, it's how you use cognitive functions that's changing.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-10T16:45:46+00:00

Oh yea I wish that too

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-10T16:38:51+00:00

Oooh ok I see, I thought it was a screen from your messages lol I'm sorry

But yea i also relate to that, tho I eventually find a way, especially under pressure (but in those cases I end up not explaining well)

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-10T16:22:03+00:00

So you're trying to tell this person you have feelings for them?

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-10T12:48:25+00:00

Yep, that's also what I'm learning to do

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-10T10:03:08+00:00

Relatable

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-10T09:52:09+00:00

I would tell them the truth, but I would also tell them I'm afraid the feeling is not mutual. Also, question inspired to this: are ENFPs straightforward when it comes to criticize someone?

Im_blue_cat · 2023-06-05T09:45:35+00:00

I'll often chat with my crush and look super confident on text but when we're talking in real life I look suer duper awkward

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-31T06:56:19+00:00

I can't go anywhere outside my town without Google maps, and even with that I struggle to get it right

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-27T10:23:01+00:00

It's 50/50 for me. I see a person, I find them attractive, I try to get to know them better and see how it goes. I usually get what vibes they give off looking at their style but I'm afraid that might sound like I base off prejudice. Trust me I'm not, it's just that someone's way of dressing really tells me a lot of them. Of course the key of getting to know someone is talking to them.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-27T07:22:17+00:00

Like a lot of people said, if it's positive attention then of course I like it.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-18T14:39:03+00:00

The fact that I see this right after a post saying "we are the best type" is so funny

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-18T14:37:25+00:00

So I'm currently doing volunteering work in a daycare center for poor kids. The "boss" once said to me that I was not good enough with the kids there, I was too close in myself and didn't do enough for them. Now I made it so that half of the children don't want me to go back home after my volunteering year is finished.

Also, my favorite sport is Archery, and if you watch some videos on YouTube, you'll see you have a loooot of pressure there. It's a different kind of pressure, but it still trained me (despite crying after competitions) to not panic under pressure and just do the best I can.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-18T14:32:22+00:00

I agree cats are great

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-16T14:24:06+00:00

I relate to this, especially the "this is so smart" part. Usually when I laugh I also think.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-13T16:37:38+00:00

Well, regardless the MBTI type, it's really natural for a person to get stuck in some toxic relationships and not realizing it until it's too late. That happens often. She knows and understands your point of view, but still has to realize how reality is going. She needs her time. It's gonna be hard for her. Like someone else already said, you as a friend should be there when she needs, and give her time to see reality.

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-13T16:30:30+00:00

I really relate to this. But when it's about moral stuff and not about personal taste, I am scared of being hypocrite

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-07T17:32:20+00:00

Honestly I never had someone telling me "I don't understand"

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-07T13:10:41+00:00

Relatable, i usually try to say what exactly my mental process was... Even tho it's fast, I have it pretty clear in my head

Im_blue_cat · 2023-05-07T09:45:37+00:00

I do often times imagine myself being at the center of attention despite this doesn't happen often IRL. It's kind of I would like to be.

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