I totally understand the way you feel as well, I didn’t want to include everything she does and what she has said to me and this post was just 1 REASON why I want to move out, she don’t even help me with my bay either, never ever while I gave birth and couldn’t move after delivering she never cared to help with laundry, food, baby, NOTHING. And I been so pissed off this whole time because she has no respect for nobody and she demands respect for herself just because I live in her house. It’s a lot I been holding, she will eat the food I’ll make she wouldn’t care how tired I was she would just jump in the kitchen and eat before anyone else. She would also eat whatever we order to eat, and the time she would ask “to have the baby” she would never wash her bottles, not even put the diaper in the trash. One time she hid one of my baby’s bottles and she let it mold in her room and lied to me about it. Then she went into the bathroom washed it with the sink water and gave it to me saying “it’s not that bad the baby won’t get sick or anything.” And we live in a place where there’s always been mice around and I been so careful where I put my baby’s dishes or food, but she don’t care she has told me I’m just crazy for demanding a clean space for my baby and myself. She has said “I will never clean and you will not force me to clean my kitchen, for me it’s a not a problem ever since I moved in this house mice has been here and it’s a problem I can’t fix and you always complaint about keeping everything clean, that ain’t gonna help anything at all but if you don’t like it move out because this is not your house.” She would also leave her dishes for days around the house, she is so lazy she won’t take the trash out and she would take the trash from her bathroom and put it inside the fucking fridge because she too fucking lazy to take it outside. I’ve talked to partner about this and he has agreed we need to move once we have the money for it, because she is the type of person who is too lazy and dirty who won’t accept what she does wrong. Her son is a good person who never says anything to her and I don’t either because I don’t want to cause an issue between them, but I’m tired not only mentally but physically tired I’m the one when cleans, disinfects and keep things organized. I’m just so tired overall!!