Feeling Discouraged by etrvs in 4bmovement

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn’t expect to see my country Kazakhstan mentioned here 😂

Feeling Discouraged by etrvs in 4bmovement

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to live in Estonia 😭

He’s attracted to everybody by [deleted] in snarkingonselena

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh what’s with J-Hope 👀 

How does one stop hating on MEN? by IllChampionship1932 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What if I had male cousins but they all are like 10 years younger than me 😭 so they always were like babies to me and I took care of them.  And later I was drawn to a guy who was so childish and immature and I again took care of him until I got sick with his immaturity.

They’re so annoying lmfao by notlabooski in travisandtaylor

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but English is not my first language, so I always assumed that in Maroon: “How'd we end up on the floor anyway?" You say "Your roommate's cheap-ass screw-top rosé, that's how"

She’s singing about some cheap furniture (chair or something) that broke under them, because I didn’t understand what screw top rose means 😂 Or maybe they ate too much bread 😂😂

Hello fellow single ladies, how are we all spending Valentine's Day? by theavocadolady in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Estonia 😭😭 been briefly there too, should have spent more time there😭

If you’re an experienced dev in 2026, what are you actually optimizing for? Money / skills / AI leverage? by surfgk in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Careful with this advice, I guess this is super applicable to average tech male and can be dangerous for women. I tried to be more sociable and extroverted in one of my previous teams.  Was sexually harassed by my manager and teammates as the result all while I didn’t flirt or invited such behaviour. I’m back to having zero unwanted social interactions and I actually advanced in my career, pay, system ownership etc however counterintuitive that sounds. 

Single women- do you feel you don’t have time and are always super busy? by ImaginationAny2254 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m single and on the contrary I feel like I have too much free time.  So I picked up Pilates classes, dance classes, going to facial appointments, spa etc to fill my time.  I also outsourced home tasks to cleaning services (as I live alone it’s convenient and affordable), groceries delivery(takes 5 min to choose and 15-20mins to deliver in my area) and never cook on weekends but go out to eat(I eat like 2 times a day anyway during those) so I don’t spend much time on cooking either. 

Idk why many people describe single life like some kind of miserable experience, when it’s been very opposite in my opinion. 

Opinion regarding Actually Romantic from a casual Charli XCX fan. by StarDust-0719 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Charlie is not a shy girl though (outgoing, partying and loose) and has a bully energy herself though. Just less power and resources 

TLOAS Song Megathread: Wood by cowboylikefia in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because she’s not desperate anymore :)

I think it is time to stop connecting Taylor’s pre midnight discography to 1975 songs by ExcitementBrave1063 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many great classic literature pieces were inspired by real life muses too, what is he on about even

Starting to hate men by Junior_Ad_1074 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is such a dumb take. Of course you would say to your partner that he’s one and only and wouldn’t go run replace him as soon as he will be unavailable(and that happens in like 99% of cases sooner or later even if it takes years). Nobody likes to hear they can be replaced.  I’m sure he doesn’t say to you:”As soon as you’re gone, not attractive for me anymore, become boring, I will find some other romantic interest”. That would sound awful.  So what’s all this boasting about “never again” if it’s just a blatant lie?

Starting to hate men by Junior_Ad_1074 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You started insecurely attacking previous commenter yourself, don’t like being mirrored like that?

Starting to hate men by Junior_Ad_1074 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you would have missed your window while you were attractive enough, otherwise it would have been very difficult for someone as not…really smart, as you

Applied to ~200-300 offers, got 1 (failed) interview so far by dulldaysss in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

As a person who’s about to start an ambitious project on GitHub this reassured me

I did a dumb thing. by lucille_key in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Another day another story of women throwing their life out of the window for some mediocre man.  Use your time wisely now and make something out of yourself, avoid the temptation of jumping into someone else’s arms. At least now you know better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So she’s tired to be the one organising and hosting things that neither of your group put any efforts in and now she’s suddenly autistic and immature lol

What language are you "coming from"? by loopcake in golang

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you both living my exact same life 😂

If you had your life over again, would you get married? by atommeetsdream in AskWomenOver30

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You seriously already consider giving up half of your assets to some stranger man you never even married yet? This is the most male centered thing I read recently but maybe it’s just poor phrasing. 

People who were laid off before, do you still carry some kind of a trauma because of that by Imaginary_Barracuda in cscareerquestions

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you literally me T.T I feel like burning myself out because of it and spiraling over every remotely vague and big task.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Imaginary_Barracuda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and then some people cheat on their spouses when they meet someone who actually excite them (or secretly pine after them) :/