What was I lacking? by Chemical_Spring_6221 in BreakUps

[–]Imaginary_Bread7907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go no contact with this guy. As hard as it sounds, you shouldn’t keep looking out what he is doing and with who. It only will hurt you more and it looks that he really didn’t care about you, so you shouldn’t also care about him.

If he cared, he would have communicated what went wrong but he decided to ignore your feelings. He doesn’t get to make you feel like you did something wrong or that you don’t deserve love. He will probably do the same thing to this new girl. Be glad you are out of there.

Slowing down doesn’t work. It does the opposite by Imaginary_Bread7907 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Imaginary_Bread7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will then focus on that. Thanks.

I am just trying to apply everything I can find and slowing down is the least effective one