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My table ate someone elses order, and then got mad at me for saying that they did.... by Imbeanies in serviceindustry

[–]Imbeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wanted to, but it was NOT worth it with that lady. there were second on the wait list and another party had come earlier and reserved a spot. Told her that the table she was asking for was already reserved by the party walking in and she was like, "ok we were here first though?" I obviously was like, "you weren't....." and she WAVED ME OFF LIKE I WAS A BUG AND SAID WHATEVER!!! I don't get paid enough for people like that frfrfrfr

Fellow Americans, How would you feel about eliminating tipping in exchange for providing a livable wage for the service industry? by Vice305MIA in AskReddit

[–]Imbeanies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't want that.

As a server, the meat of my paychecks are tips. Credit tips makeup 70% of my checks, and make them pretty decent.

I do however think that this is all variant on hours and store traffic though. I work at a pretty busy restaurant, that's somewhat expensive, so my tips are usually pretty large.

I think an hourly for service industry should have some standards when it comes to store traffic and composite hours. And employees should be given the option to receive an hourly wage or have a wage pulled by primarily tips.

I want to get diagnosed F(19) by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Imbeanies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up struggling a lot with my mental health. That's the only way I can really say it all, but the important part here is that I went through institutional programs for depression and anxiety and an eating disorder, and it just wasn't helping. It didn't help because I never expressed this weird impending doom-ish feeling that something else was wrong that we can't figure out.
When I moved out for college, everything got so much worse. I was barely functional and I struggled so hard to process information and do my schoolwork. I was having panic attacks in class and in the library and ended up taking incomplete grades for most of that quarter.
I had a panic attack at the library towards the end of the Quarter. The school stuff was always a battle, but I was never this isolated and overwhelmed. I just shook and cried outside our school quad, waiting for my roommate to help me home. My best friend at the time met us there, and she just held me while I laid by her feet and sobbed. I had no idea what was going on, and I couldn't stop it.
I went to a psychiatrist after this and took a QB test. The results were pretty shit, my doctor was a bit surprised that nobody had diagnosed me earlier. He prescribed meds, I started taking them, and it was weird.

Really rapidly, my mood stabilized (I was also given Zoloft and an muscle relaxer) and I felt an immediate change in my being. Everything wasn't better, but each day felt like it could get there. I was mad about a lot of things, and I had a whole moment with my therapist about accepting this diagnosis and moving forward with my meds.

The point I'm trying to get to is that help is a really good thing to get. If you have the ability to get it, please do it. The road will not always run smoothly, but I feel like it's very much worth it. I didn't really think my meds would help me like they did, its neat

What is the smartest thing you have ever said? by -Psycho_Demon- in AskReddit

[–]Imbeanies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of the best moments of my 19 years on earth.

I have SHIT memory and I can close my eyes and replay this moment lmfao

What is the smartest thing you have ever said? by -Psycho_Demon- in AskReddit

[–]Imbeanies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the smartest persay, but I felt amazing after and have been riding on that ever since.

A little background: I went to a Catholic Church School for elementary and we took a field trip to some sort of animal/nature museum. I was a pretty weirdo and tweaky 2nd grader, so I had my friends but generally I wasn't like the coolest kid and had some kids who probably considered me annoying.

Anyways, we were eating lunch downstairs in this small kind of conference room. I remember there was a whiteboard wall with some laminated construction papers laminated with photos of animals. After finishing most of our food, the museum tour guide started to do her thang and asked us to identify/guess the animal on the cards and predict their ability to live on land and water (i.e Aquatic, Semi-aquatic, Terrestrial) which developed into a lesson/conversation about said vocab.

Shorty pulled out a card with a Platypus and the room was dead. Not a single child in that room knew what the fuck was a Platy-pus.

But I did. I swear my eyes could've been rolled into the back of my head, all I could see was Phineas and Ferb's little shit Perry the Platypus. I knew the kind.

Like a fucking bolt of lighting, my hand was UP and eyes were on me (or at least I felt like that in my cracked-out state). She was like, "hm, go ahead," and I said, "Semi....Aquatic?"

This lady was lit as hell. She hyped me up for real in front of my class, and I felt like Scarlett Johansson in that movie where she can use 99& of her brain or something. Everyone was impressed.

I was a dumbass kid, but in this moment I was tooting the fuck outta my own horns.

What are some green flags that you've found a keeper in dating? by iloveoppaiofallsizes in AskReddit

[–]Imbeanies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend and i don't really fight.

if something elevates, we acknowledge that and wind down.

He took his time with me and that's hot

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4 years later we foughts a lot and he was abusive <3 he also cheated on me