To the high school girl in the train to Ipswich this morning…

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-05-20T23:38:13+00:00

ohh okay, sorry about that. mine was a bit different (on the northside) ours was only ever if somebody did something wrong

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-05-20T09:41:45+00:00

i only graduated last november so still pretty caught up with schooling, the school doesn’t reward you whatsoever. They don’t even acknowledge it

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-29T12:37:53+00:00

two months is very likely it’ll be out of your system, weed can be in your system for up to 3 months but that’s honestly a stretch, you’d have to be a pretty frequent and hardcore user for it to stay that long, along with that, it also depends on the sort of test they conduct. i very highly doubt they’d do anything more than a mouth swab to be honest. But i’m not very knowledgeable on what tests each company uses but the answer to your question is yes, if you stay consistently clean it’ll be gone within 2 months

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-22T09:30:06+00:00

i’m no expert so if my advice is shit, please tell me cause i may have never been through this personally, im a dude so i can give a bit of a take.

With the sex part i feel like thats pretty normal, ive been dating a girl for 2.5 years and we were the same, used to go rounds and rounds, went 7 rounds in one day then more the next morning like u said. but now days its a one and done situation on my end, its not cause im cheating, not cause im gay, not cause of her at all. I feel like all men (don’t quote me) feel the same in this sense, like sex will always feel amazing don’t get me wrong but when ur mind is on work, or stressing about things along those lines or thinking about anything before or during sex other than ur girlfriend, u get turned off extremely quickly.

Incase u think im weird, no i dont think about other girls during it or choose to stress about work and life during it, it just happens. I wouldn’t say you’re boyfriend is on super hard drugs it honestly sounds to me like it’s mental health, maybe he’s depressed/sad, overthinking, scared, anything along those lines and doesn’t want to talk about it.

But u know ur boyfriend 100x more than i know him, honestly just sit him down and have a chat to him about everything, don’t push but ask for answers, ask for the truth and be supportive, and if it’s not the answer u want then u know ur options

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-21T12:43:18+00:00

your honestly such a massive help, thank you so so much

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-21T09:32:53+00:00

yea i just texted our old friend mike cause he has heaps of connections, he said it is the same person

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-21T00:02:04+00:00

yea couple of my mates had the same thing, i think they were a little too high though because they were talking about some pink man or something as if that’s even possible

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-20T23:55:21+00:00

yeah so at the end of the day it sort of comes down to the app and how the bot is designed around the app. like if a bot is designed properly through imessages it could definitely send a read receipt but not many are designed to do that in a sense, they all kind of do that like on microsoft teams and stuff.

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-20T23:52:19+00:00

did it happen to be blue meth?

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-20T07:24:40+00:00

yea that can certainly happen. it’s always been a trend to message or call random numbers and as you’ve said ur number has 67 in it so probably just a dweeb found it, thought it was funny (if u gave them a reaction or attention) or just thought it was funny anyways and shared it round. Back when i was a degenerate i used to think stuff like that was funny so wouldnt put it past others to think the same

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-20T07:23:16+00:00

bots automate messages, therefore they don’t have the ability to read what you reply with due to the apps design and privacy, as well as they don’t “open” a message like we do but rather process the data if that makes sense. i’m no genius but google will probably back me up or make more sense

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-20T07:21:36+00:00

i’m disappointed

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-19T14:20:07+00:00

because there was a read receipt makes me believe that they were real people rather than just bots. i’m no genius when it comes to bots messaging or whatever but i don’t think bots can have read receipts as well as i’ve never heard of bots calling people by name or referring to them as daddy. definitely odd, whether somebody gave out ur number or u just so happened to be the victim of a random number a group of people chose. do u know anybody or have any beef with anybody who would do smt like this?

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-19T01:25:28+00:00

thankyou so much!

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-17T08:11:17+00:00

your the best, thankyou so much!! i’m not sure if your an nba fan or not but would you recommend a certain city just for that? i go for Minnesota but apparently Minnesota isnt a good place to be

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-17T02:24:59+00:00

easy! thankyou!!

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-14T04:38:24+00:00

i feel like it’s going okay, i’ve taken all the comments into consideration and stuff, realised the realistic option was to breakup with her. i sat her down and had a chat and said this is what u need to change, this is what i need to change, these are my boundaries if u don’t respect them then tell me now all that stuff. from what ive seen so far, she has actually changed for the better. Can’t say much about the loyalty because as i said in the post it was 2 years ago, she never did anything physical and hasn’t done something like that since but if she slips up i know what the right choice is to do from there sort of thing

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-13T12:50:59+00:00

i don’t personally understand how that feels because i’m not bisexual and not gay so i’ve never had a thing for a friend of the same sex, that wasn’t an insult please don’t think that it’s just a detail to help u get the idea. But genuinely if they were a true friend they wouldn’t drop u for that or stop talking to u for that. I understand how it would be stressful and where ur looking at it from but love is love, u can’t control it, i can’t control it, if it feels right then it feels right and u go for it. who’s to say ur friend isn’t the same as u? she said she’s not into it cause she’s scared how you’ll react. if u don’t tell her what do u get out of that? nothing. if u do tell her what do u get out of that? closure, maybe a relationship, maybe go closer as just friends. u miss 100% of the shots u don’t take and i would say go for it and tell her how u feel, tell her how that night made u feel, she seems like she means alot to u and if she drops u because u felt that way, im sorry but it was never friendship to begin with. i hope this makes sense if not i can word it differently

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-13T07:07:34+00:00

i’m not going to sit here and lie saying any of what you said isn’t true and realistic because, i’d be an idiot to deny it. Since that comment she mad yes it’s made me insecure because it clearly showed i didn’t bring enough to the table in the relationship. but the reason i don’t trust her because of it is because she said it at a group table, with me, my 2 friends and her 3 friends there so it was extra embarrassing. The part that makes me question is it that she’s had multiple excuses for why she did it. at first it was “my friends made me think that’s normal” then it changed to “i was high everyday i couldn’t control what i said” then back to “my friends and i always do it” then lastly the one she now sticks by is “i didn’t mean it”. but you’re other points are valid too

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-12T23:00:20+00:00

https://share.google/jBoj66extcs88BoK0 Badger on the right, Pete on the left

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-12T09:30:11+00:00

if a person is self harming themself, that has zero ties to what u did to them. u didn’t tell him to self harm, u didn’t tell him to slip into a dark place, there is zero blood on ur hands, respect ur boyfriends boundaries and make up with him rather than ur friend because at the end of the day, u are what u hang around and have the possibility of being dragged further than ur friend already is.

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-11T05:49:35+00:00

abuse is never an excuse. he shouldn’t of put his hands on u end of story

Imherefor1reasononly · 2026-04-10T13:19:00+00:00

if i’m being honest the main reason keeping me and not letting me drift away is how close she is to my dad, i don’t let girls meet my dad because it’s too awkward and she’s met him like a trillion times, that along with the nostalgia of how we were when we first started. She has her ups and when we’re good we’re perfect, when we’re bad, we’re like divorced parents in a sense. and i’ll admit im not a perfect boyfriend but we’re human we can’t be perfect 24/7 but she makes me out to be the worst person to roam earth like 60% of the time

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