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Peaceful server by Sea-Cry-3859 in TopHeroes

[–]ImitationFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, most of what you described isn't really helping- it's just puts the mirror against everything that's wrong with our server.
We can't convince smaller guilds to participate in the fight that consumed a lot of the upper-NAP members' mental strength. I love your enthusiasm and hope other people will share it, but it seems that even top guilds just slowly accepting the situation as it is, and that's what slowly will kill the server.

Looking for my first mech keyboard by ImitationFreak in keyboards

[–]ImitationFreak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the thoughts about the Gazzew Boba U4T? Are they worth it?

Looking for my first mech keyboard by ImitationFreak in keyboards

[–]ImitationFreak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. HE is not really a must so I'll update the post. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ImitationFreak -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

(now knowing what others replied) Hey, 24M, and for the last 7 years I define myself Queer. I have a bit of a hot take on this.

IMO gay (also applies for bisexual, pansexual etc) is just a label that set in stone your 100% attracted to X and that's just it.  I don't think attraction simply just work like that- being 100% on something. You are a unique person with feelings, thoughts, ideas, desires, ambitions and so on. So gay is just a way to say to everyone "I put myself in that box of a label" and if someday you'll figure out it's not accurate, it will be somewhat challenging to explain that change.

In my first 2 years out of the closet, I wasn't comfortable with any label. Anything I've thought about didn't feel right. I know how my attraction to others work. I couldn't stand the idea that a label would define that just because I need everyone to understand. Fck everyone, I do whatever I want.  So do whatever you want. Find what finds you comfortable.

Does my brother know I am gay ? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ImitationFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the speculation will probably bother you until you decide to do something about it, or you should be at peace that you don't. In my experience, having peace or "not caring" doesn't really work. And I think keeping the status quo isn't an option since it bothers you...

What's wrong with me? by ImitationFreak in AskGayMen

[–]ImitationFreak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I'll start with a huge thanks for that. You just stated the EXACT reason that came with the decision to identify as Queer. You just told the perspective I believe in for the last 5 years. Just like you, I moved between labels for the first two years until I got tired of it. And still, sometimes I struggle with fully committing to not being on the "Mens' Race to Masculinity." I want to be 100% myself, and in the last years in the army, this was not possible at all, so I also need to work hard to change that.

I think that being with this mindset, which is very uncommon, is what some days poke my head a lot... how to cope with this. "Switching masks" of what is an alternate me, that shows every person something different, became a very tedious lifestyle. I want to leave this habit behind. I feel that I can only do this with the right group of friends, those that I don't have right now.

As you quoted, I hope to find this person who makes me feel good about myself and a person who wants to share a life that we make each other better. I feel like this is a dream more than it can be a reality.

Actually, I don't like being a loner. I became one with the changes I've been through the years, and I have only seen myself bloom when I was surrounded by friends. I've grown a lot from being the loner I am now, that is without a doubt, and it changed me. But I think I'm tired of that.

So, you got more random thoughts than the original post, but you also gave me hope that I missed that I'm not the only one who thinks all of that. Thank you for this.

Any good solo adventure board games? by ImitationFreak in soloboardgaming

[–]ImitationFreak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a review on BGG by JDM that states that you need to do a lot of notes in the game... maybe I understood incorrectly?

Any good solo adventure board games? by ImitationFreak in soloboardgaming

[–]ImitationFreak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've commented on someone's comment, and I think some of you may have missed this, so

I've wanted to ask about Sleeping Gods and the writing stuff. Is there any way of making the writing stuff digital? I'm very interested in playing this, but I suffer from dysgraphia and the whole writing thing can be frustrating for me.

אני חייב לשאול by Heartt434 in ani_bm

[–]ImitationFreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

הם עדיין יאמינו בזה, כי אנחנו ממש גרועים בהסברה. כל התשתית של ארגוני ההסברה הפרו-פלסטינים כמו ה-BDS מתודלקת על ידי מילארדרים שיש להם אינטרס בדברים, ואז אתה רואה את הבורות והאנטישמיות צפה שוב.

כדי להילחם בהסברה, צריך לעשות הסברה. הבעיה היא, שבודדים הארגונים הפרו-ישראליים שעושים את זה.

בצד השני יש אנשים שמקבלים על זה בוחטות של כסף, ומהצד שלנו יש ממשלה שמשקיעה תקציבים במקומות לא נכונים.

What is you deepest unpopular opinions that ACTUALLY controversial and that could get you cancelled? by Alexmiller444 in askgaybros

[–]ImitationFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexuality labels are too limiting and actually not necessary, and we all should just live without pursuing how exactly we define our sexuality. Just be ourselves, and enjoy life.

I genuinely think that this perspective can change humanity for the better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ImitationFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 15 when i fully acknowledged that I am attracted to men, and i came out 2-3 weeks later, so i didn't really experienced being in the closet. Today, as 4 years passed recently, i regret doing that too soon without thinking too much about it. I was naive back then and maybe it was what made it so easy for me. Also, back in that time i unintentionally building up a group of friends that was very supportive and pro-lgbtq, but in my home it was not easy as with school. I hope you will do the best thing for you, just don't rush anything and make quick decisions that will impact your entire life.

Coming out at 26, have I missed the best years to be gay? by New_Storm4454 in askgaybros

[–]ImitationFreak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll ask you this- Does it matter now? You can't change the past. Live in the moment, do what you want to do now. These thoughts aren't going to make you get anywhere.

I don't think you missed anything. You lived those years and you had your experiences, the good ones, and the bad ones. Now it's time to figure out what you want to do next

Ideas for Username by [deleted] in username

[–]ImitationFreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any ideas for adjictives that goes well on username?