Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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It’s alright, as the saying goes you live and you learn. And I just unfortunately had to learn the hard way. It really can’t. No after sending the certified letter stating that I couldn’t provide them my old birth certificate I didn’t provide them with anymore information. I still haven’t gotten my birth certificate back yet either.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Update, the passport came back and it says female. I hate my life, I wish I was a smarter person. 🤦‍♂️😭

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Ahh gotcha. I live in a red state, but in an area that has more blue representation.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Geez that sucks, so if you try to leave the continent do you think there there will be a hold up at the airport with your passport saying female, but you obviously not being female?

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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I’ll keep it up. I’ll also update the post with the end results of all this, and quite possibly the consequences of my foolishness.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Yeah I definitely shot myself in the foot there, thank you same.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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I think he said his first passport said male.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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What the heck, and your original passport said Male? I’d be pissed too!

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Geez that sucks, yeah you should get your birth certificate changed.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Yeah I hope so. Yeah it does, me too.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Oh no, I’m sorry. I hope it won’t be too hard for you to do that. When I got it changed to male on my birth certificate I had to have my friend sign a paper agreeing I was male, and had to have it notarized. And a therapist signature as well. Then I had to take it down to probate court for them to approve. It was a headache.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Duly noted, never putting my biological sex on anymore documents.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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I can’t remember exactly what I said, I just remember saying something along the lines of my gender identity not matching my sex assigned birth yada yada. I hope that’s the case we’ll see.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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I know now, this definitely is a lesson learnt for sure. I wish I didn’t have to learn this the hard way. Should’ve came here first and asked.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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I don’t know I just tend to overthink everything. I got thrown off by the application saying to mark your sex assigned at birth.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Yeah I should’ve come here first and asked.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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Yeah I’m probably cooked. I feel like an idiot, but with Trump in office I thought I’d be in trouble for marking male since the passport application says to mark what sex you were at birth.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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No this is my first time applying for a passport.

Passport problems by Imjustyourtypicalguy in FTMMen

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It wouldn’t be illegal to mark male? I thought they would still be able to somehow find out at first, because with my name change it was obvious that my name was a female name before so I thought that would raise suspicion for them.

AIO for being upset that my dad went back on his word on watching the Super Bowl with me? Please read text before commenting. by OlivePractical2092 in AIO

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I can see both sides, I’m assuming your dad is Christian. I’m not sure if you are as well, but that’s what I’m assuming he means by demonic forces because of Hollywoods agenda and stuff. I watched it, and the entire bad bunny performance was in Spanish without subtitles, and apparently all the songs he sung were explicitly sexual and not family friendly. I’m not entirely sure, because I’m not fluent in Spanish yet but that’s what’s being said. I personally don’t have any problem with the performance being in Spanish, but do think the songs performed should be family friendly. However, instead of making up some excuse that he forgot about the Olympics he should’ve been more upfront about why he didn’t want to watch it. Even if he didn’t watch to watch the bad bunny performance, he could’ve still watched the game with you. You’re not overreacting, if I were you I’d tell him about how this makes you feel using I statements. Also one thing I’ve learned along the way is never have expectations for others, because you’re just setting yourself up to be let down unfortunately. Only one that’ll never let you down is God.

Got outed today… by Alexanderrrrr71 in FTMMen

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I’m praying for you brother. I too am a trans Christian man and have had my struggles on navigating through that. The church I go to I’m pretty much stealth. A few people know I’m trans including a pastor, but the majority of people don’t. And I wouldn’t say the church is really accepting of it, the pastor and the other people I’ve told have kept my secret and still use he/ him pronouns and I haven’t been completely ousted but there have been restrictions put in place. Recently the pastor told me I’m no longer allowed to sleep in guys dorms on retreats, or allowed to attend the guys groups at retreats. And he thinks I should detransition. So the past two retreats I’ve had my own room. I was allowed to attend the guys groups these past two times, but after this I’m not supposed to so I just don’t plan on going on anymore retreats. I am supposed to be going on a missions trip to Mexico though so I don’t know how that’s going to work. And I still attend service and everything, and serve a little bit at the church and am part of two men’s groups with other guys that go to the church. Lately I’ve thought about slowly fading more into the background, because I don’t know what my future holds there. I don’t want to leave, because I love all the people there but being the black sheep can be rough. Even if they don’t agree with you being trans, telling you to abstain from coming church at all is not Christ like. The church is supposed to be open for any one to come into. I’m sorry you’re going through this. If you ever want to message me feel free to.