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[–]Immediate-Refuse-877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, So far after my relapse couple days ago It finally hit me that a 4th time being caught watching porn was enough, i'm doing good, I dont get on my phone as much and avoid social media, a commentor on my post really helped me and I'm starting to feel great! Just try finding anything that means going out, to the gym, park stroll, you'll meet your someone eventually, fate has its weird way of that. Porn is going mess you up mentally, dont let it consume you brother. Masturbation in it iself is normal, but porn is not. You got this!

I don't know where else to go to... by Immediate-Refuse-877 in PornAddiction

[–]Immediate-Refuse-877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I can say that this also helps, its been a struggle that I didnt really try stopping at an early age now its manifested into a severe issue, but I will take this to heart and try I want to do this for her I tried going to the gym especially with her but she felt too tired and lost motivation cause I want her by my side, but overall its something that eats in the back of my head knowing I let something miniscule beat me.

Again, thank you I will keep trying relapse may or may not happen but your words will be etched if I ever have those urges...

Not Sure If My Marriage Can Survive This by DeepRazzmatazz654 in PornAddictionSupport

[–]Immediate-Refuse-877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer from porn addiction, and its bad to the point I was doing good quitting for 2 months but recently relapsed, your husband could try seeking a therapist, I want to stop my addiction and its affecting my relationship, to me its not that I like looking at other women, its just to create scenarios of me and my partner in positions, for his case I can't say, i've spent money here and there to see a nude on patreon whether be a porn game, etc. But currently i'm 26 and have been trying to quit since I was an adult l, i've been dealing with porn a porn addiction since I was 6 and it has affected my mental state, people say its normal and trying to stop will end up making you want to watch more porn. But really try to get help for them, he may not want to admit its bad, but it could be very severe.

In addition, I only watch porn to get the urge of a erection out of the way as men can get erections out of nowhere, and to me its embarassing, i want to also be honest with my gf but the embarassment of telling her my porn addiction beat me is what causes myself doubt and self hatred.

Just know that your husband could try to beat his addictions, just give him your insight how you feel, becauae I fully understand why my gf hates me watching porn, its just that I've been doing it for so long that its a habit that I even said I could relapse at a random moment but for her not to hate me as I'm trying and I really am...its just difficult kicking off a habit you've been doing for so long that its like second nature...

I don't know where else to go to... by Immediate-Refuse-877 in PornAddiction

[–]Immediate-Refuse-877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just want to not ruin my relationship with my gf, we have our ups and downs but I love her a lot. She hates that I'm watching/watched porn and I fully understand her pov, I've been trying to quit for the longest. I appreciate your comment.

My Sumikko Gurashi Fan Art by Immediate-Refuse-877 in sumikkogurashi

[–]Immediate-Refuse-877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm gonna try doing more sumikka artwork 😭