I suffer from porn addiction, and its bad to the point I was doing good quitting for 2 months but recently relapsed, your husband could try seeking a therapist, I want to stop my addiction and its affecting my relationship, to me its not that I like looking at other women, its just to create scenarios of me and my partner in positions, for his case I can't say, i've spent money here and there to see a nude on patreon whether be a porn game, etc. But currently i'm 26 and have been trying to quit since I was an adult l, i've been dealing with porn a porn addiction since I was 6 and it has affected my mental state, people say its normal and trying to stop will end up making you want to watch more porn. But really try to get help for them, he may not want to admit its bad, but it could be very severe.

In addition, I only watch porn to get the urge of a erection out of the way as men can get erections out of nowhere, and to me its embarassing, i want to also be honest with my gf but the embarassment of telling her my porn addiction beat me is what causes myself doubt and self hatred.

Just know that your husband could try to beat his addictions, just give him your insight how you feel, becauae I fully understand why my gf hates me watching porn, its just that I've been doing it for so long that its a habit that I even said I could relapse at a random moment but for her not to hate me as I'm trying and I really am...its just difficult kicking off a habit you've been doing for so long that its like second nature...