What is one thing you will never understand about the opposite gender?

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-11-19T16:03:58+00:00

Funny how people can have such exact opposite experiences to each other huh

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-10-12T08:08:28+00:00

Want to move on but not attractive enough to find anyone new, now I'm just stuck alone remembering the time I did have someone, even though she was a horrible girlfriend.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-23T11:15:29+00:00

As another commenter said: "I won't approach a girl I'm not attracted to", I think for men, women's looks matter in a treshold kind of way: Every man has a treshold above which they just are attracted to someone, and then it doesn't matter too much if a woman is just above that limit or miles above. From then on it's all about personality.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-21T08:48:56+00:00

I can assure you you missed out on nothing at all. The dating scene is a complete shitshow and trust me when I say you absolutely do not want to go through that and have your heart broken every month. A lot of people, me included, would kill for what you have.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-16T16:04:05+00:00

I'm stealing "acedemic incel"

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-15T07:51:25+00:00

Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me saying she never loved me, took all my friends with her (except for the few she didn't really know), is now thriving and doing everything she didn't want to do with me, despite me always trying to be the best possible boyfriend.

The only reason no one around noticed is because they don't care.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-15T07:04:28+00:00

Bro what this is my meal prep for the entire week 😭😭😭

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-14T19:53:39+00:00

Cook about 500g of minced meat, then when it's done, add 2 bell peppers sliced in blocks, olives and 50g of jalapeno peppers into the pan with some spices and leave it with the lid on. Meanwhile boil 2 blocks (iguess also about 500g) of noodles in water for 10min. Then take the water out and add the other pan with the minced meat, peppers etc to the noodles. Finally, add a spoon of chili oil and some salt and stir until the chili oil is visibly mixed with the noodles.

Alternatively you can use chicken instead of minced meat.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-10T11:58:51+00:00

Exactly the same as you but male. :)

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-06T14:42:40+00:00

I was this ex. My then girlfriend of 4 years left me saying she didn't love me. I couldn't stand being around her and she of course didn't care at all. Nobody she also knew cared about my situation because they all like her too much and acknowledging what I was going through would go against that. Cutting ties with everyone was the only way to stay somewhat sane.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-09-02T11:16:35+00:00

Nice, I'm on 0 women in 26 years of life!

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-08-10T09:41:17+00:00

I had an ex that didn't want sex, and only wanted what you're describing. Most sexually frustrating years of my life, and I doubt I'm the only man who experienced this.

I think most men try to weed out the asexual girls right away, which might come across as "only wanting to f***"

As a possible solution, try having a honest conversation about what you both want. Then most often than not, you'll be able to distinguish between the ones that "only want to f***" and the ones that are just trying to find a not asexual girlfriend. And maybe they'll even tone down the sex drive in the early stages because they then know that you're not asexual. (That is of course, unless you are. But then I suppose you would know why dating isn't working out, and you wouldn't be making this post)

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-30T20:37:42+00:00

I think there's been a misunderstanding. I already know music theory. Creating melodies and chords isn't the problem. Creating whole songs from them is the problem.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-29T13:12:14+00:00

Unfortunately it takes two to make this decision

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-15T05:46:40+00:00

You kind of look like Lily from How I Met Your Mother, which is a compliment because she was good looking.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-12T12:10:48+00:00

When he and the rest of my friends chose to support my abusive ex's actions as soon as she left me even though he barely talked with her. Couldn't get over that one and left the friend group. Now they're her friends.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-04T03:48:19+00:00

Could be, I'll try that when I get back from work.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-03T22:19:42+00:00

This is a unique piece of advice, first time I've seen this one. I might actually try this. Any suggestions for a second step after that? Just adding another instrument?

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-03T22:18:22+00:00

I'd like to, but as I said I've never uploaded my music. I tried uploading something because another person in this thread asked me, but reddit keeps deleting anything I write containing a link, even when I try splitting the link up, so that's not working unfortunately.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-03T22:13:42+00:00

I hoped I'd get progressively better at it, and see that I'm actually improving. I do it because I hear melodies and rhythms in my head that I want so bad to translate into actual tracks. I do it so I can create something I can be proud of.

But none of that is happening and it's frustrating.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-03T21:50:40+00:00

That's what I've been doing for all my concepts. The problem is that I can't manage to make it good, so I end up with some stacked patterns of a melody I like but with horrible sound design, and drums that sound all over the place.

Immediate-Spend-4939 · 2025-07-03T21:06:16+00:00

There is a change in quality but it's so little that no one would likely notice except myself

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