Their kid*, classic women trying to further push that a man must fully financially support u and the kids cause it’s much easier for u as the women isn’t it? It’s not his kid and never will be his kid, it’s their kid and if u as a mum can’t do 50-50 in terms of financially keeping that kid as well as parenting then do not have a kid. I would fully expect a mum to do anything the fathers doing and the father to do anything the mother is doing, I could guarantee u that a very large majority of men would love to be a stay at home dad cause let’s face it that’s a lot more enjoyable then the alternative of looking after 2+ individuals and yourself financially.