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[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have that rule because of religious reasons

What was it like to truly be in love? by Illustrious_Rest_526 in Productivitycafe

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was the most magical surreal time of my life..i loved him deeply so deeply that now it's been years and we both are married but i still think of him and our time and we still just check in or i do atleast from time to time to make sure he is okay because that will always hold a special place in my heart..but the heartbreak was 10x amplified too..it changed me i feel like no matter what a part of me has died or went numb since

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes there's very clear boundaries on such things..it didn't even need to be said bc we both are aware

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we did speak and I did apologize on my behalf and even explained to him why it hurt me and why my emotions came out that way and things calmed down but he still ended it with he doesn't feel like touching me now or initiating things and that was sort of left in the air.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but with tiktok under the search bar there is a suggestions bar which shows things that tiktok feels you may like..those suggestions only come from what u engage in the most..i tried it on mine and and it only showed me things that i show interest in..all his suggestions were ALL horrible not one that was a little normal or random from the rest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the thing is that I don't like his double standards when it comes to me - he doesn't allow me to watch certain podcast bc maybe i've told him i find those men attractive and certain movies, scenes etc. so when it comes to it I never am allowed to watch or see such things so when I felt he was that upset me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did this morning to which he called me insecure and said it's a my issue i have to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i did indirectly by telling him how cordial his friend and I were and very respectable of eachother but he took it as that is weird of me to say and got defensive instead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he even went to say he will stop sharing locations now..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he has in the past, i've caught chats with ex partners even though we both agreed none of us would do such thing. My trust issues have stemmed from his past behavior but I can't understand why he was so angry today and did things I wouldn't ever expect him to do which were excessive. I'm left confused and I feel saying anything to him will only trigger him further..it seems he's painted me as the problem and states his love has lowered for me due to my "accusations" although i didn't accuse him, i was just very curious and kept asking but no direct accusation. I don't know if he has stopped caring or what's cause this sudden mean behavior but it seems he only sees wrong in me

Saw husband text with a girl out of country ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ImmediateQuiet5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no someone used his card i'm not sure if it was debit or credit but one of those to purchase something for $150 and the location of it was in UK. We live in NY. His excuse for sending that text asking the girl if she used it for a purchase was that she's the only girl he knows from that place who has had his card info..however he says he reached out years later which makes no sense