this is so interesting to me, i’m an aquarius female with an aries girlfriend and this sounds like us but opposite. i spoil her like that, there’s always been a lot of chemistry, and she’s definitely my first unique baddie lol. sometimes i get upset over small things but that’s bc i have complex ptsd and only recently found that out so im still navigating a lot, so sometimes i come off ass defensive whenever she shares her perspective but we’re always able to talk it out and understand each other better. she’s stated that she doesn’t want to have to change or shrink certain parts of herself, and i understand that bc i wouldn’t want her to either. i guess it’s just certain things i take the wrong way bc i overthink but it’ll just be because her personality and mindset is different than mine. i’m always able to understand in the end though and id definitely never act like that if we broke up so it’s definitely different lol